for the guys (a question)

[jeninflorida]

for the guys that think or want a mfm threesome, do you ever think about your wife's past lovers?

I got this idea while posting.

Now, what if the past lover re-enters the wife’s life; either as the husband of a friend, or coworker husband? Let’s just say that the guy was a skilled, endowed lover and she can’t stop thinking about him.

Turn on or off?

 

[Mr. Briggs]

for the guys that think or want a mfm threesome, do you ever think about your wife's past lovers?

I got this idea while posting.

Now, what if the past lover re-enters the wife’s life; either as the husband of a friend, or coworker husband? Let’s just say that the guy was a skilled, endowed lover and she can’t stop thinking about him.

Turn on or off?

Not a huge turn on for me. Too competitive. It seems to be a common theme in cuckold stories. Doesn't do anything for me.

one angle that could work is if the wife has been using a strapon on her hubby and they have been fantasizing about him taking a real cock. If the wife knows of something with the perfect cock for the job. That's hot. As long as the wife isn't longing for it herself.

 

[want2_watchwife]

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[sirhugs]

for the guys that think or want a mfm threesome, do you ever think about your wife's past lovers?

I got this idea while posting.

Now, what if the past lover re-enters the wife’s life; either as the husband of a friend, or coworker husband? Let’s just say that the guy was a skilled, endowed lover and she can’t stop thinking about him.

Turn on or off?

turn on

 

[TheMightyPen]

Turn on...would give me a chance to think of alternate possibilities, what would she be willing to do if I were to agree she could have sex with him again. It might be an avenue to turn her into an exhibitionist and satisfy my own voyeuristic wants.

 

[lovecraft68]

for the guys that think or want a mfm threesome, do you ever think about your wife's past lovers?

I got this idea while posting.

Now, what if the past lover re-enters the wife’s life; either as the husband of a friend, or coworker husband? Let’s just say that the guy was a skilled, endowed lover and she can’t stop thinking about him.

Turn on or off?

Well first off turn off. But my question would be if he were that skilled and well endowed why would she have left in the first place?

 

[emap]

Well first off turn off. But my question would be if he were that skilled and well endowed why would she have left in the first place?

Just because the guy is a good lover doesn't mean he is someone you would take home to meet mom and dad. Hell there are some guys who can rock your world in bed, outside of bed they are jackasses you don't want to talk to.

There is another little thing most guys don't seem to understand. Not every woman wants an endowed guy. Some women are quite happy with normal. Not to mention the simple fact that if said guy is thick enough, she won't want to get under him unless she falls first and wants to stay with him. Big thick cocks hurt for a while during sex until you stretch out.

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

Do I think of my wife's past lovers. Not very often. She had a Master, a Dom and a vanilla husband before me.

Her Master trained her very well. I am thankful for that. Her Dom was a switch and she learned things from him. Not that she switches with me but I have allowed her to play with some other woman. I think she is generally more confident in her life.

Her vanilla hubby was a nasty manipulative jerk. 'Nough said.

Take them all together and she was ready for me. She needed a steady, structured Master to use her the way she needed to be used.

I've known her for 12 years, been together 10 years, and been married for 6. I know she had other lovers before she married the jerk but, again everything in her past made her ready for me.

Ain't none of them coming back into her life. One is dead, one is totally submissive, and the jerk is still a jerk.

 

[kodos9000]

I would be lying if I said it both turned me on and off, I have fucked my girl and gotten off with her telling me about her past sexploits and I have also gotten in to many fights with her still being friends with some of her ex's.
Now if one came into her life on a serious note and I thought she was being unfaithfull well then I would just have to have to talk to her about a three way! lol

 

[charliespeed]

It's arousing in a certain way.

for the guys that think or want a mfm threesome, do you ever think about your wife's past lovers?

I got this idea while posting.

Now, what if the past lover re-enters the wife’s life; either as the husband of a friend, or coworker husband? Let’s just say that the guy was a skilled, endowed lover and she can’t stop thinking about him.

Turn on or off?

 

[Carnevil9]

Definitely a turn off for me. I know that my woman has had past lovers, and she knows that I have too. But it is a nice fantasy for us both to act as if we are each others' one and only, now and forever, amen. It's a shared delusion that makes it work.

I'm not saying everyone should feel that way, but I do.

 

[CWatson]

Well, I've never been married and only ever had one lover, but I didn't think much about her previous partners one way or the other. I mean, I might've been able to sort of freak myself out if I'd thought about how many people's semen had been in her vagina over the years. (She's the on-the-first-date type and probably had more lovers when we met than I ever will over the course of my entire life.)

One thing I do want to mention: towards the end of the relationship we were non-exclusive, and she went on a date with someone else, and slept with him. What freaked me out about the situation was not that she did that but that she was out of touch for a bit and didn't answer my attempts to communicate. (Obviously, she was busy doing other things.) When we talked about it later, she was the one who felt the most awkward; I was totally comfortable with it and actually asked after details! In the end, I felt that as long as we had an emotional bond that was holding steady, physical infidelity was largely outweighed. (Especially since we agreed to be non-exclusive and that we could see other people, with everything that implied.)

If my wife and/or lover wanted me to be involved in an MFM threesome, my primary insecurity would more revolve around being one of the M's. I have the stereotypical American homophobia programmed into me, and I've never bonded well with men to begin with. I would also be nervous if she was constantly thinking about him, but I'd seek reassurance as to the nature of her thoughts. Again, I think emotional fidelity is more important than physical fidelity (assuming all appropriate precautions are being taken), and I personally am not the possessive type. It's human nature to want what you don't have; the question is what she's going to do about it. As long as she and I are on the same page regarding how she intends to play out that desire, things are good. (And besides... maybe I can learn something from this guy and what he used to do with her!)

 

[docgbrown]

both turn on and off
all depends

 

[sirhugs]

both turn on and off
all depends

depends on what?

 

[jenni7]

Well first off turn off. But my question would be if he were that skilled and well endowed why would she have left in the first place?

He might be packing but that doesn't mean he's not an ass... you know better than this LC

 

[roomfor1more]

One of the mmf threesomes we had involved a former boyfriend of my wife from high school. My understanding they petted but never had sex. Their relationship did not last long and our threesome happened several years after high school when they were both well above 21 years of age.

As a memory it was quite erotic but from a practical stand point I do not know if I would invite a former boyfriend. Not because the experience was bad but the potential risks.

 

[justherhusband]

for the guys that think or want a mfm threesome, do you ever think about your wife's past lovers?

I got this idea while posting.

Now, what if the past lover re-enters the wife’s life; either as the husband of a friend, or coworker husband? Let’s just say that the guy was a skilled, endowed lover and she can’t stop thinking about him.

Turn on or off?

I was willing to go along right up to the part where "she can't stop thinking about him." This is too much emotion and potential for trouble for me. But I liked the premise up to that point.

So I'd have to say I'm out.

 

[jeninflorida]

Just because the guy is a good lover doesn't mean he is someone you would take home to meet mom and dad. Hell there are some guys who can rock your world in bed, outside of bed they are jackasses you don't want to talk to.

There is another little thing most guys don't seem to understand. Not every woman wants an endowed guy. Some women are quite happy with normal. Not to mention the simple fact that if said guy is thick enough, she won't want to get under him unless she falls first and wants to stay with him. Big thick cocks hurt for a while during sex until you stretch out.

that is so true, men don't understand...or they don't want to understand that. I'm not sure why MEN get off on a 10 inch cock? nuts.

or a super thick cock, maybe those MEN should give a blow job just to experience ..... it

 

[jeninflorida]

turn on

I've always wondered about that, but I'm a people watcher. I find it interesting in RL how things play out. from my observations, I think most men are clueless when a past lover comes into the room, or back into the social group. I've always wanted to run over and slap the husband in the head, "dude, that guy banged your wife and she loved it, how do you feel"

course that would never be PC and I would make an ass of myself, but it would make for a great story and give me feedback/insight into the male mind.

granted, a lot of my gf's will not give out names to their husband or S/O as to who they slept with. men have strange emotions & reactions when it comes to past lovers and past sexual deeds. the double standard, its okay that the "husband" enjoyed a threesome, but if the wife did ~well, she's a slut

 

[jeninflorida]

He might be packing but that doesn't mean he's not an ass... you know better than this LC

I think men don't get that. there are a lot of good looking men out there, but once they start to talk become toads.

 

[sirhugs]

...I've always wanted to run over and slap the husband in the head, "dude, that guy banged your wife and she loved it, how do you feel"
...

but if the wife's pleasure is hubby's big turn on, then appreciating that the ther guy hot that button makes hubby share the thrill...

I just regret that I never got to watch in rL...

 

[jeninflorida]

but if the wife's pleasure is hubby's big turn on, then appreciating that the ther guy hot that button makes hubby share the thrill...

I just regret that I never got to watch in rL...

yeah, I see what you are saying.

first though, is when a couple is getting ready for a night out. lets say up north, and its winter time. we all know that men are visual, so as she starts to dress the hubby gets a thrill watching her put her thong on, then stockings. in his mind, he likes what he's watching, but he also gets a little rush knowing that other men will enjoy checking her out?

her little black dress, with a nice slit up the side so she has to be careful not to show off too much leg

since the wife knows her husband gets off on others looking at her, she will tease him and some select others all night long

 

[sirhugs]

yeah, I see what you are saying.

first though, is when a couple is getting ready for a night out. lets say up north, and its winter time. we all know that men are visual, so as she starts to dress the hubby gets a thrill watching her put her thong on, then stockings. in his mind, he likes what he's watching, but he also gets a little rush knowing that other men will enjoy checking her out?

her little black dress, with a nice slit up the side so she has to be careful not to show off too much leg

since the wife knows her husband gets off on others looking at her, she will tease him and some select others all night long

ummm, yeah, I got a twitch just reading that...

 

[momandwife]

Turn on from the wifes point of view. Turn off if it's his ex though.

 

[Chimney Sweep]

For my wife, turn off. Not interested. The idea of her with another man is not attractive and gets my alpha male very angry. That pussy belongs to ME.

But back in college I dated a girl who I seriously wanted to see pinned between two cocks (one of them mine, preferably.) I even wrote a story about it (Gina and Brandon.) I wanted to share her all over the place, but I've never had that urge with other women I've cared about.