For Perky Baby: Your Sexual Philosophy

[lavender]

 

[on_the_verge]

Yeah, let's see the manifesto's of Perky! Inquiring minds want to know! The mind and soul are wonderful to know.

 

[Ragingbull]

You mean sex has a philoshophy? Holy shit, I need to go back to school.

 

[perks]

But what does sex really mean to you?
sex means different things to me at different times, and with different partners. Sex has been a hello, a journey, a goodbye, a soul connection, a stress reliever, a playful interaction, a comfort. I can't say that sex is any ONE thing. It is too many things. It's entwined completely in my life.
What do you get out of sex?
comfort, connection, release, passion, joining, freedom, pure joy, energy

How often is sex something beyond physical interaction?
all the time. i've never fucked a person just cause they were pretty. In fact, i tend to steer away from the overly pretty ones. It's a connection thing for me. I'm attracted to attitude moreso than anything.
When do you need sex merely for recreational activity?
I want this more, because I don't have it. I want to be able to fuck for fucking's sake. The sheer pleasure of the fuck. I long for that, I miss that.
What themes sexually do you desire in a partner?
themes?....I'm not sure I understand the question

what am I attracted to? in a sex partner. Self assuredness, flirtatious nature, Completely open to discovering and exploration, physically I'm attracted to tall, strong<not necessarily musclebound, but able to handle me and I'm tough>.
A wild mind, someone that can weave my fantasies and control me. Someone that enjoys my brattiness, understands my need for alone time. Someone that not only doesn't judge me, but celebrates me.

In other words, tell us about your philosophy on sex.

Hey Perky asked for a thread she could sink her teeth into. Have at it, babycakes. [/B]

how's that?.....anything I didn't cover?

 

[SimplySouthern]

But what does sex really mean to you?

Depends. With someone special, its more like talking without words. For the purely physical aspect, it means a brighter day and less stress.

What do you get out of sex?

Hopefully, an earth-shattering orgasm.

How often is sex something beyond physical interaction?

It's always physical interaction for me. Sometimes it has emotional ramifications....but it's always very physical. You can say a lot without talking.

When do you need sex merely for recreational activity?

Those high stress times in my life. When nothing else will do.
(I should write commercials)

What themes sexually do you desire in a partner?

I need someone who can appreciate my little quirks. Someone adventurous and fun who also realizes sex isn't quite so serious as people often make it out to be.

Sex is fun....leave it that way.

 

[lavender]

 

[lilminx]

Hey Lavy, answer your own questions!


(BTW, expect a PM form me in a few weeks about the fondue recipes- I'm moving then and I'll probably have a little get-togehter).

 

[perks]

Perky -

You could have split it down and spent one post on each question! *sigh*

So much for trying to help you become a prolific poster! Good luck getting to 1000.

smile......I didn't want to cheat....lol.....

thanks though...I loved the questions. Now it's your turn.

 

[Ragingbull]

This is too heavy for me. I like southerns respone - earth shattering orgasms. Says it all. Course, how you get there does count...

 

[SimplySouthern]

This is too heavy for me. I like southerns respone - earth shattering orgasms. Says it all. Course, how you get there does count...

To me, getting there is tantamount to HOW you get there.

Get me there three times in one night and I couldn't care less if you drive me in on a chicken truck while I'm covered in mustard.

 

[lavender]

 

[perks]

Re: Re: For Perky Baby: Your Sexual Philosophy

My philosophy of sex would take much longer. [/B]

philosophy of sex is a journey, a book, and I hope I haven't completed all the chapters. I'm writing new paragraphs every day.

 

[Ragingbull]

To me, getting there is tantamount to HOW you get there.

Get me there three times in one night and I couldn't care less if you drive me in on a chicken truck while I'm covered in mustard.

Why stop at three, southern. My philosophy (gosh, maybe I have one), is that a woman should have at least three to my every one.

 

[perks]

Why stop at three, southern. My philosophy (gosh, maybe I have one), is that a woman should have at least three to my every one.

how many times can you cum in a session?

 

[on_the_verge]

My Sexual Philosophy

We talk very specifically about sexual acts. We discuss what we like and what we don't. We flirt, we joke around, we are crass at times.

But what does sex really mean to you?
I feel like a mouse going in circles everytime I try to explain this. Besides the influences of society and my experiences, I gather an inner energy about sex, radiating outwards or ideally projected to my partner. It's that time when a body can be explored, sensed singed and a way to bond. There are other times when it's dominating and submissive, but I would rather take the role of dominating. Sex is the slow draw of seduction from being sensually charged to reased. Sex is a way of connecting and bridging sould together for me and to pleaseæit's a must to please, take the time and cover every scope of the other's mind and body.

Sex that emotional bliss and if the two are accepting and adventurous, there can be many bounds and levels discovered. Sex is creativity and thinking about it before the clothes come off. Sex is the inner part of my gift and offering to the right person. Sex can be fun, light hearted and burning into a unison of swealtering charges.

What do you get out of sex

It's not what I get out of it, but what the other(s) do as well. Clutching onto self satisfaction, seams like it was inspired for the soul sake that you thought of it as a demand or deserved it. I think not. I get what my partner gets and I could not do the dishonor of not pleasing her. It's not about inserting here, pulling there, licking up and down…it's about creative and sensual ways that can build to sex or the thoughts of how it will unfold soon. I want to be touched, not just with my body and soul, but hers as well. Then again, when I have sex with myself, I don't put that much effort in it, save for tasting my cum. I had so many pickles last night and surprisingly my cum tasted very sweet and creamy. Good thing I did not have the whole jar or I would have spit it out, lol!

How often is sex something beyond physical interaction?

Sex can be for the love of a friendship and/or a companion. There has to be a physical attraction, but there also has to be an emotional one. It's where you speak them (in person preferably) and you hear their thoughts, the tonality in their voice, how they carry and move themselves. It's about being a creative lover, before the touch. YOU want to be with that person and you sermize that by knowing each other and being open. Sometimes you just want to do something for someone because you enjoy their company and sexually you are satisfied and sometimes scared of the person…a slight mystery or what you never know to expect.

When do you need sex merely for recreational activity?

I need now!!! Aghhhh!

What themes sexually do you desire in a partner?

You are a hard machine extrinsically, but know how to melt like thick mecury when you open up as a petal and unfold from within. Your sexuality, artistic sense and self being are your consumption as your inner vibrations burn and swelter...

No seriously and I wrote this out of a personals I wrote, but I am just too lazy right now to update it.

a WOMAN that could be equally as ROMANTIC. As I caress her SOFT skin, EMBRACE her WARMTH in my arms, KISSING LIPS EVER SO TENDER and then gaze at her LOVELY EYES. OK, it all appears as a book, but... ME? Interests vary from the unostentatious to the elaborate. From the Arts (photography, painting, theater, and poetry), cozy dinners at lavish restaurants to quiet diners at home (I love cooking), nights out on the town, exploring the city for all it's little treasures, the beach and the ocean, reading to a cozy book with the pitter patter of rain outside, billiards, movies (especially foreign films), outdoor activities, seeing a local band or a concert, to laying in bed all day as the world passes outside the window. Everything and anything there is to do. I am somewhat complex at times as well as simple. I enjoy things that are sophisticated and things that are jaded. I have no problem going to a pricey restaurant and then going to see a low-key band in a narrow bar in an alley. I view life romantically, but not just towards a person. I am always giving and warm hearted and at times it gets the best of me, but it is something that is forever a part of me. I am very open and caring when life is grand and when days are full of tryst. I am very passionate with my work and my life and would like to share it with the right person (well, maybe not the work aspect of it). I work as a professional while going to school full time. I am doing it to finish school next year! I am looking for a woman who understands that I have a busy schedule, but will always find the time for her. She is also intelligent, humorous, a little cynical, honest, caring, thoughtful, affectionate, intricate and down to earth.

I also like to be flexible in all that and not ask too much or what she cannot give or be, accepting is such a kewl thang

In other words, tell us about your philosophy on sex.

Haven’t I written enough?

Hey Perky asked for a thread she could sink her teeth into. Have at it, babycakes. [/B]

 

[Ragingbull]

Well now, perks, that all depends. Here is a quote from a recent post of mine under sexual marathons... "Checked in at 4 pm, fell asleep at 2am, woke at 4 am, 6 am, then awake from 8am to noon. Checked out. By the ocean, windows open, waves crashing. Naked in bed the whole time. Brief break for a shower, but that was pretty wild too. Don't know how many times I came, but she kept me hard most of the time. She never stopped having orgasms."... That night maybe six or seven. Two or three times in a night is usually a very good night. One & out is more typical. But I love to make a woman cum. For me that's what it's all about!

how many times can you cum in a session?

 

[perks]

I think I need a picture of you cumming.

 

[Ragingbull]

I think I need a picture of you cumming.

I could paint you one with words. I'm a little shy when it cums to showing my tallywhacker. My av is about as bold as I get. Of course, I might be willing to pose if you want to snap the shot so to say.

 

[perks]

I could paint you one with words. I'm a little shy when it cums to showing my tallywhacker. My av is about as bold as I get. Of course, I might be willing to pose if you want to snap the shot so to say.

Okay, will you let me draw you?

 

[Ragingbull]

Okay, will you let me draw you?

You can draw me anyday, perks. I can almost feel your pencil tracing the contours of my body, and it's getting my pencil all riled up! Now where's the studio?

 

[horny_giraffe]

But what does sex really mean to you?

Sex is still as mysterious to me as when I was a virgin. The physical act can be defined in the most prosaic terms: the rubbing of skin, the exchange of body fluids, and a flood of psychotropic hormones. But it is too reductionist to say that it is merely these things. There must be more to sex than this--at least, it feels like it.

What do you get out of sex?

Sex is an affirmation of my gender. Sex is one of the most essential elements of the makeup of my gender--and yet, it also reveals to me what I share with the other gender. It is a reminder that, no matter how alienated I feel, I am still connected to the common reality of society. It is reassuring to know that, regardless of the confusion of gender politics that our society seems to be immersed in, we still are human and we are still animals.

How often is sex something beyond physical interaction?

The feeling of transcendence can be decieving, but why shouldn't I hope that there is something more that goes on in sex than the simply layering of the elements? I hope that there is some sort of synergy, that the mixture of sex and love can react to form something greater than either of these. Yet, despite this hope, I find that sex offers little intrinsic meaning.

Perhaps sex is something that should be attended to as one attends to other bodily needs--without compulsion and with a spirit of moderation and control. Just as one should not overeat because it can damage one's health--one should not overindulge in sex because it can upset the balance of one's life.

Unlike the repressed Victorian's of the Freudian era, I think that we rarely supress our sexual feelings. We have little need to sublimate sex into other areas of our lives.

I believe that intimacy is the new source of sublimation. The fears about limiting freedom and the anxiety of our pluralistic culture have created a sense of distance and alienation. This sense of alienation creates a social distance that deprives many of us of a real sense of community. Intimacy and community are instead sublimated into sex itself--so that we have created entire subcultures of sexual obsessives.

Sex is just sex. When people expect sex to give them a sense of community and intimacy, they find the sex unfulfilling. Since the desire for intimacy is sublimated, they are not aware of what they are truly pursuing. They blame the sex, itself. So they pursue greater and more intense sexual experiences--which they still find unfulfilling. So they seek more intense experiences, and the cycle continues until they have plumbed the depths of sexual depravity.

Sex can be a powerful bonding experience as one submits in trust to another person, but it is not love.

 

[SA Storm]

Being brief

 

[tulip2lipservice]

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[on_the_verge]

Re: Got to Love Ya Perky!

Raging you would not be disappointed if Perky drew you. Well, said on the philosophy Perky and others.

Peace,
Tulip

Tulip, have you found someone to draw you? I know that is one of the things you have wanted.

 

[ShamelessFlirt]

Perky said

How often is sex something beyond physical interaction?
all the time. i've never fucked a person just cause they were pretty. In fact, i tend to steer away from the overly pretty ones. It's a connection thing for me. I'm attracted to attitude moreso than anything.

So you only fuck ugly people?

snickers running for my life