? for other Bi people

[lilevilpunk]

I was just wondering who are you most attracted to? The opposite sex or your same sex? I know I am most attracted to females; however I am married to a man and could not be happier...

 

[SweetErika]

I couldn't put percentages on my attraction for either. I generally have a preference for women visually, but I like the height and strength of men. I connect with women better mentally and emotionally, but I tend to understand and get along with men better. I could see myself having a mindblowing relationship with a woman, but I'm very happy being married to my man. I fantasize about men and women equally.

 

[lilevilpunk]

I couldn't put percentages on my attraction for either. I generally have a preference for women visually, but I like the height and strength of men. I connect with women better mentally and emotionally, but I tend to understand and get along with men better. I could see myself having a mindblowing relationship with a woman, but I'm very happy being married to my man. I fantasize about men and women equally.

Thats just about how I feel

 

[lilevilpunk]

No one else has anything to say???

 

[geishaGirl]

Like SweetErika I connect better with women mentally/emotionally, I am married to a man, I am attracted to women - no doubt about that. When it comes to acting on my attraction for women I have been less comfortable with that than being with a man but that could just be the circumstances at the time. It is something yet to be explored! ... or not

 

[wastedpaint]

shame

i hate to say it, but to me women have a profound sexual appeal...i connect and get along better with men, and i'm always saying how i hate women and how they are often very manipulative and cruel (though i know men have just the same power to be so, i suppose i feel this way because i have more power over the men in my relationships and become weaker among women) and i have seen women do awful things that stain their visage in my mind, whereas i find it easier to excuse a man for a similar, or even worse, offense....after being in relationships with other women, i have found that in general i am just not compatible with them on an emotional level and have pushed them back as just a matter of sexual appeal, becoming a bit of a sexist for this viewpoint (which i am sure to be flamed for)...it pains me that i feel this way, but women have always hurt me in much deeper ways than men and i have seen them hurt those that i love in much greater ways than men have....i am still incredibly aroused by women, but i cannot make emotional ties with them quite so easily...as far as sexual attraction, though i love the grace and curve of the female form, i find that the power and command that stems from a male, much more appealing, obviously stemming to my rather old fashioned ways and submissive nature...also, i find men more satisfying, though women are given credit at knowing just where to touch another woman - i find that men simply leave me with a much greater sense of completion, even though i may recieve the same penetration from a woman....i'm sure you will find many hypocrisies and errors in judgment in my rather lengthy response, but i am just making an attempt at candidly revealing my opinion...i hope not to offend, just explaining how i feel about the two...have fun everyone

 

[MintSoda]

Six of one, half a dozen of the other. Physically I'm attracted to both. Emotionally/mentally there are things that I love about both and there are things both genders do that drive me nuts. I guess it comes down to people for me. If I'm attracted to the person, physically, emotionally, and mentally the gender becomes superfluous.

 

[The Mutt]

Sexy is sexy, male or female. I guess because I grew up in a house with 6 women, I have always gotten along with women better than men. I can't really imagine having a steady boyfriend. But a hard cock is a thing of beauty.
I want it all.

 

[londo666]

I think I'm more attracted to females although I only discover quite recently that I'm Bi so its really hard to decide witch sex I like more,I think the idea of being with another man still scares me a little bit though.

 

[College_geek]

I've never actually been with a woman before and at this point I'd probably say I'm more attracted to men, but I really enjoy looking at pictures of women, mainly here on Lit, and I have a blast flirting with some of them. It's like my way of safely exploring my bi-curiousity.

 

[Brinnie]

The opposite sex is like fried chicken, whereas the same sex is like totally like Thai food or something

 

[SweetErika]

The opposite sex is like fried chicken, whereas the same sex is like totally like Thai food or something

Maybe it's my sleepiness, but I don't get that. The opposite sex is golden or crispy or high fat or comforting, but the same sex is spicy or peanutty or exotic or new?

 

[Brinnie]

Maybe it's my sleepiness, but I don't get that. The opposite sex is golden or crispy or high fat or comforting, but the same sex is spicy or peanutty or exotic or new?

ckn = same shit.
thai = authentic

 

[sparkzzz]

ckn = same shit.
thai = authentic

good point.

i'm more attracted to the ladies, but sometimes there is just no substitute for a hard cock.

 

[Stefani]

I've lived with both and like both equally. It all comes down to the individual. I lived with a black man for 6 years... a Latino for 5 years... and now for the past 4 years I've been with 2 different women.

It's not what's between their legs that really matters, it's what's in their heart and in their head.

Steffie

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[Little Bird]

It's not what's between their legs that really matters, it's what's in their heart and in their head.

Steffie

I'm "still" mostly atracted to women, but maybe it's just because I'm used to it. Maybe I'm a little bit wired with this, but I don't like to fuck for fun but for sharing a beutifull time with someone I'm really close to and who is really dear to me.
In this case male or female is of really none importance...

 

[erikvanerik]

I think women are physically more attractive than men and they try to be sexier. Men my age (I'm 23) are into wearing big baggy clothes and looking cool, and I don't really find that attractive. Women seem to be more into presenting themselves. Women are also better kissers than men. Now there's no subsitute for a nice cock, I'll admit, but if you want someone to tease you and turn you on...that's what a woman is for.

 

[bicuriousosaur]

I like this thread

Being a virgin to both sexes, I am attractive to them, for different reasons. Girls (Metaphorally speaking) have a more "gentle" look for me, even if their behavior can be over-masculine at times. I rather have a gal who is more like a lady than a dude. With that said, my attraction to men differ greatly. My age range for women is 19-30 at least, though I found most mature women very appealing. With men, it's 19-50 (permitting a little lower to 17 if the guy is attractive and if it is legal (albeit barely) and little over 50 if the guy is hotter than a steam bath). Also, with men, I think it's more or less raw sexuality with how they appeal to me. When I watch straight porn, the women tend to be playful, while gay porn, the sex is more aggressive and straight forward (though it's not always true for both categories). Also, the oral scenes differ greatly. On more "mainstream" straight porn (not the amaetur ones), deepthroat is absent, which actually doesn't hurt. I would feel bad actually if I had a girl deepthroat me, cause it would feel strange. now, if she wants to do it, then I wouldn't mind, but, I just think it would be feel weird.

I remember a story on Nifty.com that mention what it feels like getting or at least seeing a male to male blowjob. Basically, it's a dominance thing. The guy who is getting sucked feels that he is in control, as well as the cocksucker. There is pleasure evolved though. i think when I am watching a guy suck another guy's cock, it has a very raw feeling to it. I can watch a guy deepthroat a dick, and not feel to guilty. Does anybody else feel the same?

 

[Elmer Keith]

It's been a while. Me and a friend and his wife used to go at it. She was a firecracker, any how, we were 69ing while he did her doggy. He slipped out.....hell it was natural. Aaahhh to relive my youth.

 

[robbie_boy1]

It's been a while. Me and a friend and his wife used to go at it. She was a firecracker, any how, we were 69ing while he did her doggy. He slipped out.....hell it was natural. Aaahhh to relive my youth.

like falling off a horse. I like the fourth of july every month of the year........hmm........thanks for the memories...........

rb

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I was just wondering who are you most attracted to? The opposite sex or your same sex? I know I am most attracted to females; however I am married to a man and could not be happier...

females always...

I have been involved in LTR's with men but I prefer women

 

[rakastuja]

I think I could put it this way (%'s are just made up of course): I find 30% of girls and 10% of guys attractive. But those 10% of guys are just as attractive as those 30% of girls.

So Im equally attracted to girls and guys but there's more attractive girls than guys for me.

Makes any sense?

 

[MintSoda]

I think I could put it this way (%'s are just made up of course): I find 30% of girls and 10% of guys attractive. But those 10% of guys are just as attractive as those 30% of girls.

So Im equally attracted to girls and guys but there's more attractive girls than guys for me.

Makes any sense?

I really think the dateable percentage of the population is even lower though. I can agree with your numbers on attraction, but the % of attractive women that are complete nut jobs and the % of attractive men that are complete ass holes makes the dateable populace so small it's a miracle any of us manage to hook up. I totally get what you're saying though.

Here's a quandry for discussion though for everyone that does have a gender tendancy. If given the choice between someone of your preferred gender that you did not find sexually attractive but was a delight to be around and a person of your non-preferred gender that was gorgeous but a complete nut job...which would you pick?

 

[Netzach]

the % of attractive women that are complete nut jobs and the % of attractive men that are complete ass holes makes the dateable populace so small it's a miracle any of us manage to hook up. I totally get what you're saying though.

Quotable, too true.

I do better in LTR's with men, but I get off perving and playing with girls more, percentage wise. It's just a bad, combustible, emotional mix, probably stems back to overmothering and an insane female-driven household.