For any single subs...

[Daddyknows_best]

I'm a Daddy because I want to support you with everything you do...
I want to encourage you whenever you need it...
I want to always be there through it all, no matter how good or bad, happy or sad...
I want to build you up when you're feeling down...
I want you to want to do everything in your power to please me and I think you do because you do please me...
If YOU feel you have any faults or shortcomings I want to talk to you about them and help guide you and help you in EVERY way to be successful in fixing them until YOU'RE happy...
I want you to feel comfortable and want to show me your little side and be little with me, I love that about you and want to see it every possible chance I get, whether its curling up with me watching a disney movie with me or whatever else you want...
If you're scared of something I want you to come to me first and tell me your every fear and I want to make them all go away...
If your sad or want to cry I want you to curl up with in a ball and cry on my shoulder and I dont want you to move until im making you smile...
I want to cherish you and I want you to always feel cherished...
I want you to know that i'd be lost and broken without you and I want to know you'd feel the same if you didnt have me...
I want you to submit to me willingly and completely and trust me with every fiber of your being to take care of you and put you first and make sure your every need and want is taken care of and your pure happiness and well being is my number one priority...
I want you to be mine because your submission, your love, just having you and knowing youre mine makes me want to be a better person, a better man, a better lover, a better Daddy to you...
I want to satisfy and please you sexually in every way shape and form, fulfill all of your needs, wants and desires, I want you to always want me and never have enough of me, I want you to be mine every second of everyday anytime I want, I want you to willingly and happily give me your body whenever I desire, be my lover, my good girl, my naughty girl, my little slut, my fuck toy any moment of everyday if and when I desire...
I want just the thought of my kiss or my touch to drive you mad with desire and get wet just wanting and hoping to feel my skin on yours and never getting enough or wanting enough...
I want you to crave me and ache for me... your body to tingle for me to be inside you and once you have that beg for me to stay like that until the morning...

 

[CutieMouse]

Was there an actual point to that wall 'o text, or we're you simply posting a verbose personals ad [in the wrong forum]?

 

[Daddyknows_best]

first its not a personal and second bdsm is the correct forum for D/s, care to be less rude and try again? It's called posting a thought or declaration for others that feel the same way or want the same feeling to read and relate to? If you dont like it dont comment?

 

[His_pet_slut]

Looks like a personals ad to me.

 

[Daddyknows_best]

then you would be wrong as well, but thanks for playing

 

[BiBunny]

first its not a personal and second bdsm is the correct forum for D/s, care to be less rude and try again? It's called posting a thought or declaration for others that feel the same way or want the same feeling to read and relate to? If you dont like it dont comment?

It's the BDSM discussion forum, not the "thoughts" or "declarations" forum. You've been here for two months. You've written 10 posts, and you've got 5 separate personals ads. If this wasn't a half-assed attempt at disguising a personal ad (and I'm sure it was), then you should look into getting a blog for posting these "thoughts" and "declarations" of yours.

 

[CutieMouse]

It's a very romantic and idealized view of D/s [more specifically Daddy/little] relationships; however, it's rather difficult to have a conversation regarding ones views, when one doesn't leave any room for discussion.

There wasn't any question as to how others view D/s in light if the Daddy/little dynamic, no query regarding the role of mentorship with regards to power dynamics, no opening to engage in discussion of discipline, guidance, or even sadism/masochism as it relates to a more "paternal" arrangement... Just a long long long self-indulgent "look at how awesome I am!" list, specifically addressed to "single submissives" - which would explain why the thread was mistaken for a personals ad.

If the intent was to discuss Daddy/little dynamics within the boundaries of D/s, or the nuances of such relationships, I'm sure you will find persons interested in such; regardless of their current relationship status.

 

[HottieMama]

It's the BDSM discussion forum, not the "thoughts" or "declarations" forum. You've been here for two months. You've written 10 posts, and you've got 5 separate personals ads. If this wasn't a half-assed attempt at disguising a personal ad (and I'm sure it was), then you should look into getting a blog for posting these "thoughts" and "declarations" of yours.

QFT! What an overly-romanticized bunch of horseshit...

 

[zathras52003]

As a denizen of several other bulletin boards (covering other interest areas than this one) I can assure you that there is nothing wrong with apologizing for posting in the wrong forum and moving on. Really.

Regardless of your intent, the content and stated target audience really does make it a personals ad.

I try to make sure I know the rules at a new board, but if I step on my member, I don't get defensive about it.

YMMV

 

[Etoile]

first its not a personal and second bdsm is the correct forum for D/s, care to be less rude and try again? It's called posting a thought or declaration for others that feel the same way or want the same feeling to read and relate to? If you dont like it dont comment?

It seems like sometimes you end your statements with a question mark? Kind of like how teenagers talk, but written down? Maybe you would like to use some other punctuation?

Oh, and try treating people with respect, it goes a long way around here. You won't last long being a jackass like that.

edit: ooh, okay, zathras said it way better than me.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Bleh. It's all so....needy and yucky.

 

[His_pet_slut]

Oh, and try treating people with respect, it goes a long way around here. You won't last long being a jackass like that.

edit: ooh, okay, zathras said it way better than me.

The treating people with respect part struck a chord for me. It is hugely important to me. One of the things that appealed to me early on in my journey into BDSM was that the 'real' people all seemed to have that in common. They treated people respectfully when they asked questions, especially new comers, as long as the questions were asked respectfully. Of course, with jack asses the gloves came off.

Speaking personally, I would NEVER be able to trust that someone wouldn't harm me way if I felt they couldn't be trusted to be courteous and respectful the strangers. There is something floating around out in the interwebs about watching how a new person you are dating treats the staff at a restaurant. If it is rude, dismissive, or otherwise not nice, you should take that as a huge red flag as to the way you will be treated down the road.

The responses from the OP here do not equate to what he has written about the way he would treat a sub of his own.

Just my random, barely caffeinated thoughts....

 

[zathras52003]

edit: ooh, okay, zathras said it way better than me.

Happy to help.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Bleh. It's all so....needy and yucky.

*kneels at Uncle Rosco's feet*



you are missed around here ya know




*kisses both his big toes (noticing he is overdue for a pedicure) then rests forehead on the floor between his feet*

 

[Etoile]

The responses from the OP here do not equate to what he has written about the way he would treat a sub of his own.

Hmm. We hold subs to a standard that says you can act however you want, you only have to submit to your own dominant. But we expect dominants to behave around others how they would around their subs. Am I interpreting that right? Or have I been huffing this nail polish too much? (I'm not disagreeing with you - it's a real question. And I am doing my nails.)

 

[His_pet_slut]

Hmm. We hold subs to a standard that says you can act however you want, you only have to submit to your own dominant. But we expect dominants to behave around others how they would around their subs. Am I interpreting that right? Or have I been huffing this nail polish too much? (I'm not disagreeing with you - it's a real question. And I am doing my nails.)

hmmm, I guess my thoughts were that if I were a single sub and considering someone as a potential Dom/Daddy, I would be looking at all his posts and if I saw his rude, dismissive way of responding it would make me question his sincerity in his initial post. That said, I am a southern girl and perhaps that colors my perceptions some? All but one Dom I have ever been with and most of my male friends are all southern boys and raised to be respectful unless one proves they are unworthy of respect.

 

[midwestyankee]

Oh, fuck...did Homeland Security shut down Bloviators Anonymous again? If they would just stop stealing the damned coffee they might take root and provide a life-saving resource to folk like the OP.

 

[Etoile]

hmmm, I guess my thoughts were that if I were a single sub and considering someone as a potential Dom/Daddy, I would be looking at all his posts and if I saw his rude, dismissive way of responding it would make me question his sincerity in his initial post. That said, I am a southern girl and perhaps that colors my perceptions some? All but one Dom I have ever been with and most of my male friends are all southern boys and raised to be respectful unless one proves they are unworthy of respect.

Hmm. This is very true if the OP is genuinely not posting a personals ad. Which I kinda accepted that he wasn't, and that it was another one of those schlocky "look at my totally original ideas, this has never occurred to anyone before" posts. But yeah, if it's a personals ad, you're dead on.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Hmm. We hold subs to a standard that says you can act however you want, you only have to submit to your own dominant. But we expect dominants to behave around others how they would around their subs. Am I interpreting that right? Or have I been huffing this nail polish too much? (I'm not disagreeing with you - it's a real question. And I am doing my nails.)

I think there's always a question of Noblesse Oblige.

A Dom theoretically has the power to make a sub obey and be respectful, but a sub presumably has no power over a dom's behavior-- makes a sub, in theory, at least. more vulnerable than a Dom.

So a sub that wants respect has to watch for the right signs, and be wary of the wrong ones.

And we who support sub respect, have to be vigilant about that. We also create a lot of community pressure to convince Domly types that our way is good.

 

[His_pet_slut]

Hmm. This is very true if the OP is genuinely not posting a personals ad. Which I kinda accepted that he wasn't, and that it was another one of those schlocky "look at my totally original ideas, this has never occurred to anyone before" posts. But yeah, if it's a personals ad, you're dead on.

My basis for feeling it is a personals ad is the "for any single subs..." If not, why the need to attempt to restrict the responses or readership. Oh heck, whatever he was trying to do with that thread title. I never have understood someone posting in a forum such as this and then saying the post was only for a specific subset of the group as a whole.

 

[His_pet_slut]

I think there's always a question of Noblesse Oblige.

A Dom theoretically has the power to make a sub obey and be respectful, but a sub presumably has no power over a dom's behavior-- makes a sub, in theory, at least. more vulnerable than a Dom.

So a sub that wants respect has to watch for the right signs, and be wary of the wrong ones.

And we who support sub respect, have to be vigilant about that. We also create a lot of community pressure to convince Domly types that our way is good.

*swoon*

You just summarized my thoughts so well.

ah, what I wouldn't give for your ability to cut to the chase and explain things so well.

 

[nowgirl]

I'm a Daddy because I want to support you with everything you do...

Helping carry in the groceries would be a good start.

 

[Etoile]

I just realized the thread title says single.

Any claims the OP made about this not being a personal ad are now void.

 

[StrayKat]

Helping carry in the groceries would be a good start.

*snort*

 

[INeedLove]

Hmm, maybe I should be hanging out here too..... (should I be embarrassed to admit I like the romantisized post)

I'm a Daddy because I want to support you with everything you do...
I want to encourage you whenever you need it...
I want to always be there through it all, no matter how good or bad, happy or sad...
I want to build you up when you're feeling down...
I want you to want to do everything in your power to please me and I think you do because you do please me...
If YOU feel you have any faults or shortcomings I want to talk to you about them and help guide you and help you in EVERY way to be successful in fixing them until YOU'RE happy...
I want you to feel comfortable and want to show me your little side and be little with me, I love that about you and want to see it every possible chance I get, whether its curling up with me watching a disney movie with me or whatever else you want...
If you're scared of something I want you to come to me first and tell me your every fear and I want to make them all go away...
If your sad or want to cry I want you to curl up with in a ball and cry on my shoulder and I dont want you to move until im making you smile...
I want to cherish you and I want you to always feel cherished...
I want you to know that i'd be lost and broken without you and I want to know you'd feel the same if you didnt have me...
I want you to submit to me willingly and completely and trust me with every fiber of your being to take care of you and put you first and make sure your every need and want is taken care of and your pure happiness and well being is my number one priority...
I want you to be mine because your submission, your love, just having you and knowing youre mine makes me want to be a better person, a better man, a better lover, a better Daddy to you...
I want to satisfy and please you sexually in every way shape and form, fulfill all of your needs, wants and desires, I want you to always want me and never have enough of me, I want you to be mine every second of everyday anytime I want, I want you to willingly and happily give me your body whenever I desire, be my lover, my good girl, my naughty girl, my little slut, my fuck toy any moment of everyday if and when I desire...
I want just the thought of my kiss or my touch to drive you mad with desire and get wet just wanting and hoping to feel my skin on yours and never getting enough or wanting enough...
I want you to crave me and ache for me... your body to tingle for me to be inside you and once you have that beg for me to stay like that until the morning...