For all the Lit Ladies:

[DamienLovecraft]

has noticed that many of the women on here, when you talk with a guy you talk for a little bit then for no reason whatsoever you shut up and dont say a single thing. I dont know if there is no chemistry or what but you just stop. How rude can you get? you could at least tell the guy "i'm not interested" or even "yea.. I'm sorry but My eyes haven't stopped bleeding from seeing your picture".. something.. anything..

and worse yet.. the few that dont even respond at all.. is it so hard to say "hello"? you people comment that you have feelings and that you want to be treated a certain way BUT you don have the decency to do the same back.

you can say all you want and act any way you like but if you want to be treated a certain way and want certain things.. you give what you get.

sorry but I just had to comment because I have said "hello to many here in one form or another and the return comments have been almost nothing. I don't write and say.. "come here bitch and be a little whore for Me" I just say hello. and nothing back

 

[shellee72]

Well I am sorry that happens to you. But that happens to me with guys as well. So I guess manners need to be used by males and females on this site.

 

[vibes]

has noticed that many of the women on here, when you talk with a guy you talk for a little bit then for no reason whatsoever you shut up and dont say a single thing. I dont know if there is no chemistry or what but you just stop. How rude can you get? you could at least tell the guy "i'm not interested" or even "yea.. I'm sorry but My eyes haven't stopped bleeding from seeing your picture".. something.. anything..

and worse yet.. the few that dont even respond at all.. is it so hard to say "hello"? you people comment that you have feelings and that you want to be treated a certain way BUT you don have the decency to do the same back.

you can say all you want and act any way you like but if you want to be treated a certain way and want certain things.. you give what you get.

sorry but I just had to comment because I have said "hello to many here in one form or another and the return comments have been almost nothing. I don't write and say.. "come here bitch and be a little whore for Me" I just say hello. and nothing back

Shit happens, buddy

The internet is just another place in the world where people (think they) are anonymous ... but rude males and females will be rude here as anywhere else

 

[Beefplease]

Could have been busy with something else and by the time they got back something else got their attention? It happens or could be something else entirely. It sucks but just move on.....till someone doesnt do that.

 

[IcariusInHiding]

Women get a lot of attention (unwanted and otherwise) in places like this, so it's probably not easy to keep track of everyone. In my experience, Litsters are - by and large - much more polite than most internet users. I'm sure it was just a mistake. Can you imagine trying to respond to 250 PM's a day?

 

[vibes]

Women get a lot of attention (unwanted and otherwise) in places like this, so it's probably not easy to keep track of everyone. In my experience, Litsters are - by and large - much more polite than most internet users. I'm sure it was just a mistake. Can you imagine trying to respond to 250 PM's a day?

That's not what he was saying: once you choose to engage in a conversation you should use your manners ... besides I personally hate those - male or female - dragging along limitless convos at the same time and making you wait on their replies

 

[IcariusInHiding]

That's not what he was saying: once you choose to engage in a conversation you should use your manners ... besides I personally hate those - male or female - dragging along limitless convos at the same time and making you wait on their replies

Can't argue with that. Manners are always nice.

 

[Beck31]

I don't know. I really only talk to ONE special woman on here and not knowing what to say has never been a problem. Guess the OP had some bad expierences.

 

[Holly1990]

I sometimes get 7 or 8 PMs a day from people I don't know just saying 'Hi'. I'm not obliged to have conversations with all of them. If someone is very nice and polite and interesting I'll reply but sometimes I also just forget or am too busy, you can't take things like this personally on an online forum, it's not like we're all at a singles night and you're just being blanked by people.

 

[vibes]

I sometimes get 7 or 8 PMs a day from people I don't know just saying 'Hi'. I'm not obliged to have conversations with all of them. If someone is very nice and polite and interesting I'll reply but sometimes I also just forget or am too busy, you can't take things like this personally on an online forum, it's not like we're all at a singles night and you're just being blanked by people.

Ahahaha ... guilty conscience anyone?

 

[Holly1990]

Ahahaha ... guilty conscience anyone?

There's a huge number of PM's I've never replied to but I don't feel guilty, I'd have to make this my full time job to keep up correspondence with everyone who wants to say hi!

 

[vibes]

There's a huge number of PM's I've never replied to but I don't feel guilty, I'd have to make this my full time job to keep up correspondence with everyone who wants to say hi!

He's referring to ongoing meaningful conversation being interrupted without notice

 

[Holly1990]

He's referring to ongoing meaningful conversation being interrupted without notice

He aaaaaalso mentions how rude girls are that 'don't even respond at all' so there Alright, I'm going to stop arguing now and reply to some PM's of my own choosing!

 

[ejredlady]

I do try to respond to each PM unless it is blatantly crude. I listed that I am not interested in spending time with long drawn out conversaions with married men. If you are offended - that's the way it goes. When I say no, I attempt to be kind, but no is no. Thanks for reminding me though that feelings run both ways.

 

[PopeStar]

has noticed that many of the women on here, when you talk with a guy you talk for a little bit then for no reason whatsoever you shut up and dont say a single thing. I dont know if there is no chemistry or what but you just stop. How rude can you get? you could at least tell the guy "i'm not interested" or even "yea.. I'm sorry but My eyes haven't stopped bleeding from seeing your picture".. something.. anything..

and worse yet.. the few that dont even respond at all.. is it so hard to say "hello"? you people comment that you have feelings and that you want to be treated a certain way BUT you don have the decency to do the same back.

you can say all you want and act any way you like but if you want to be treated a certain way and want certain things.. you give what you get.

sorry but I just had to comment because I have said "hello to many here in one form or another and the return comments have been almost nothing. I don't write and say.. "come here bitch and be a little whore for Me" I just say hello. and nothing back

+1. In my limited experience, I've encountered two or three such women that say that "you're the best thing that happened to me" yada yada yada and two days later, there's a personal that asks for the exact same thing. Only difference is that you PM and there's no response.

If only they were open enough to say, "dude, not interested, move on!", that would make life a lot easier for both parties. It is better than leaving someone hanging.

 

[GrrlFriday]

I have been drawn into PM conversations that start with 'hello'... and then the guy in question attempts to convince me that as he may have spoken to me for a couple of hours or so, just general chit chat and flirting, that I 'owe' him naked photographs of myself. As you can imagine, this only needs to happen once before random, short (possibly copy-pasted/generic) 'hellos' are treated with suspicion.

Given your interest in general Domliness and even more so TPE, if you had PMed me with a general greeting, I would probably think to myself 'oh no, not again' and lump you in with these kinds of arrogant guys. Hope this helps.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

I'll admit I can be sort of bad about this. And to all I have slighted or been rude to in this regard, I do apologize.
I am not making excuses for myself, just explaining:
I get a lot of PMs, and when I do engage in conversation with someone for a night or so, and then drop off the face of the earth, it's because real life happened and I don't check back for a while. And by then I've usually forgotten.
I don't mean it personally, and I actually find it a little bit funny that so many people take it so seriously. :-/

 

[DamienLovecraft]

He's referring to ongoing meaningful conversation being interrupted without notice

it's not even that.
I can be talking to someone for two three days.. a few responses per day and say on the fourth day i see them on and send the message
"hey, hoping your day/weekend was uneventful" and My response is "......"

 

[ConfusedAgain]

Men do the same exact thing. They stop responding.

 

[DamienLovecraft]

I never stop responding.. if there is something that doesn't click I say so. I don't like it to happen to Me so why do it to others.

 

[janeyl]

has noticed that many of the women on here, when you talk with a guy you talk for a little bit then for no reason whatsoever you shut up and dont say a single thing. I dont know if there is no chemistry or what but you just stop. How rude can you get? you could at least tell the guy "i'm not interested" or even "yea.. I'm sorry but My eyes haven't stopped bleeding from seeing your picture".. something.. anything..

and worse yet.. the few that dont even respond at all.. is it so hard to say "hello"? you people comment that you have feelings and that you want to be treated a certain way BUT you don have the decency to do the same back.

you can say all you want and act any way you like but if you want to be treated a certain way and want certain things.. you give what you get.

sorry but I just had to comment because I have said "hello to many here in one form or another and the return comments have been almost nothing. I don't write and say.. "come here bitch and be a little whore for Me" I just say hello. and nothing back

Sorry to be blunt, but I'm afraid that I have news for you...just by your sheer presence here, you aren't owed a response I'm afraid, there is no entitlement to engagement in conversation...and by their presence here, it does not automatically mean that the women here are available to you or anyone else...yep, even the ones with their tits out on a porn board...shocker, eh? Even if they've talked about their wildest dreams or deepest fantasies, they are entitled to stop the conversation at any point they choose...perhaps once you're chatting, you're too pushy, perhaps you're boring...it's their choice...

Lots of people here aren't interested in entering into private conversations with others and unfortunately, as has been my experience, a polite "thanks, but no thanks..." seems to be seen as an invitation to attempt to change my mind or even worse, to be vile and abusive...

As people on another site I belong to will often say...if you get junk mail through your letterbox, do you then call up all of the pizza places, takeaways and window companies and say thanks, but you won't be taking them up on their kind offer?

Man up sunshine...no response means that they are not interested in you...shrug your shoulders and move on...

 

[DamienLovecraft]

Sorry to be blunt, but I'm afraid that I have news for you...just by your sheer presence here, you aren't owed a response I'm afraid, there is no entitlement to engagement in conversation...and by their presence here, it does not automatically mean that the women here are available to you or anyone else...yep, even the ones with their tits out on a porn board...shocker, eh? Even if they've talked about their wildest dreams or deepest fantasies, they are entitled to stop the conversation at any point they choose...perhaps once you're chatting, you're too pushy, perhaps you're boring...it's their choice...

Lots of people here aren't interested in entering into private conversations with others and unfortunately, as has been my experience, a polite "thanks, but no thanks..." seems to be seen as an invitation to attempt to change my mind or even worse, to be vile and abusive...

As people on another site I belong to will often say...if you get junk mail through your letterbox, do you then call up all of the pizza places, takeaways and window companies and say thanks, but you won't be taking them up on their kind offer?

Man up sunshine...no response means that they are not interested in you...shrug your shoulders and move on...

hmmm.. a jilted woman with a stick up her ass is more what I get from that. It's not anyone else's fault people have dropped you like a dead rat because of your personality.

 

[janeyl]

hmmm.. a jilted woman with a stick up her ass is more what I get from that. It's not anyone else's fault people have dropped you like a dead rat because of your personality.

Ahhh...so that's what a "respectful dom" is all about...(note the correct spelling...and the lower case)...I knew they made me laugh for a good reason...your flouncing is hilarious...your cock must be well at home in your hand...

Good luck sunshine...you clearly need it...*wanders off laughing...*

 

[SmileyGirl]

hmmm.. a jilted woman with a stick up her ass is more what I get from that. It's not anyone else's fault people have dropped you like a dead rat because of your personality.

Oh oh Janey did you not respond to his Pm??

There really is no need to be rude to people. I don't respond to every Pm I'm sent. Does that make me a bad person? No, I don't believe it does. I check previous posts and if all I see is some guy trolling around personals or threads I would never post in then no I won't reply. Experience of being here for a while had taught me that some and I say SOME men see me not wanting to engage in those kind os conversations a challange. Frankly when I say no thank you I mean no thank you. This does not mean oh maybe after a few times talking I will come around? No!! And sometimes I don't respond because I just feel from what I read that I will have nothing in common with that person. Noone is bound to reply to Pm's here. As for bad manners? I've seen plenty of that on here and been on the receiving end when I've been polite and said "no thank you" but SOME men feel they have to excert their stupidity and become rude and abusive.

On the flip side I have regular people I Pm with and post with on threads and it's fun. Maybe I'm just a picky bitch but I'm selective over who I talk to in Pm as are alot of females here. Posting on the boards helps people get to know you and I imagine more likely to respond as they get a little idea of your style of reponces. But responding like you just did to a female will win you no brownie points here!!

 

[Lord_Kallorian]

hmmm

I think some people are missing His point. If you are going to go, I think it is polite to say "no thank you" and if they don't take that as bye then it's not your fault. it's just they are to pushy. Guessing that is what he is trying to put across.