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You know, some of us found love and marriage on lit. I can name off the top of my head, at least two other lit couples who met on lit. One of them still posts in AmPics (infrequently) ..

Sometimes a thing is just a thing.

I would be happier in the belief that she had grown beyond all of this.
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The implication is, of course, that you feel lit is in some way juvenile, or something that it is possible to "grow beyond". I'd dispute that statement. Some times people move away from lit, sure - That doesn't mean they've "grown beyond" it - Simply that they no longer find it interesting.

If I practiced a hobby for a few years, and then moved from it to posting on lit, would that mean that I "grew beyond" that hobby?

It's a sideways move, not some great leap of progress and development in personal maturity. I take it you haven't seen the happy, fulfilled, mature, well-adjusted couples that post here? The implication is, of course, obvious.

I'm not saying that there's no one posting here due to a lack of something in their life. Sure there are. But some posters post threads because they enjoy it.

In fact, I think the fact that EB posts infrequently, is a pretty good damn demonstration that she's no addict, she's not here for unhealthy reasons. She's here because she finds it fun. I'm not about to pass judgment on whether or not it's the "right" kind of fun to be having.

You need to find a better way of connecting with people.
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'Better' by whose definition? Yours? Hers? Bob's down the street? Sorry, friend. That's all subjective.

I'm no white knight, but as someone who did fall in love with a beautiful woman from lit, and then marry her, I felt compelled to provide a counterpoint to your "all lit is superficial and meaningless" opinion.

Sometimes it is.

Sometimes it isn't.

Sometimes it's just fun.
 
guardiaknight said:
Meh. Fuck it. I said what I did, and you took it the worst way possible. Can't say I'm surprised, but you can take it however you want. My concern wasn't because you're female, it's because you're human, and someone that I considered a friend once. You need to find a better way of connecting with people. You've seen it in your relationships, and I don't feel this is helping.
The only reason I said anything about women on Lit, is because that's all I've perused on here, I'm sure there are guys posting pictures on here as a substitute to a healthy relationship, I just have no interest in ogling them.
Twenty-two is young, and you should enjoy yourself, but give some thought to what lies beyond it.

If you hadn't almost entirely misconstrued what I had said, I would have been glad to leave you with your unjustified anger/indignation. As it is, if you still feel that way, then have a good life. I've said my piece.
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I can appreciate what you're saying, Jonathan, I really can.
Don't think for a second I've misconstrued anything, you know me better than that. I may be critical but I am not naive.
I haven't found the right person. I've made good clean attempts for a while now, and I'm coming to terms with the fact that I am an extraordinary person, which means I'm going to need someone just as extraordinary by my side. I'm not settling for just any old relationship - I want to be intoxicated with love and understanding, but I just haven't found anyone worthy enough yet. I don't care how self-righteous that sounds, it's the damn truth. I know I deserve a lot better than what I allow for myself - but I'd rather be with someone passionately in the night than be tied to someone I half-way like all throughout the night and day.
 
raphy said:
In fact, I think the fact that EB posts infrequently, is a pretty good damn demonstration that she's no addict, she's not here for unhealthy reasons. She's here because she finds it fun. I'm not about to pass judgment on whether or not it's the "right" kind of fun to be having.
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That's exactly why I post so infrequently - I find it fun. Sometimes.
Honestly it's something I do when I'm bored.
It's not a crutch or anything I rely on, it's just entertainment.
 
guardiaknight said:
Sorry fellows, but I'm amused at how many flock to this thread and express their pleasure at her 'return'. Exx is a wonderful, attractive, and intelligent young woman, but hardly a dedicated Litster(not that I have much room to speak). I know most of you are opportunist horn-dogs that didn't pay attention when you entered the thread, but you should probably pay attention to the dates on her posts. Not trying to give anyone a hard time(most of all Exx), I'm just pointing out that you shouldn't start salivating, or excreting any other bodily humors just yet, seeing as her posts are infrequent at best. :rolleyes:
I'm actually here because, as much as I like to see her, I'm hoping that one of these days she'll just never show up again. It'll be a sign to me that she's found whatever she really wants in her life outside of this place. Not to say that I won't enjoy what scraps she throws our way when she deigns to grace this thread in the meantime, but I would be happier in the belief that she had grown beyond all of this.
In any case, I'm sure she'll read this at some point. My apologies, but that's how I feel. You deserve better, and should strive your hardest to find happiness beyond mere fleeting pleasure. I hope this finds you well. Later. :rose:
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You enjoy her presence, and pictures- But you'd be happier if she never returned? That is the most insincere comment I've read in awhile. In fact, your post is full of contradictions. You're so phony! :cool:
 
ExxBurgundy said:
Thank you. :)
I use them to lure innocent men to their untimely deaths.
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would that be through drowning in them?:D
and also if you are lucky enough to find your "soulmate" in this world of how many billion are we at now ... somewhere around 7 to 8 then i say your lucky and if you like me and your still looking dont ever give up hope cause as soon as you do it tends to become bleak and dark and there is no way someone as gorgeous as you should be bleak and dark:D
 
Oh, fuck off with your self-righteous bullshit.
I'm more self-aware than you'll ever be, so stop spouting your bullshit UNSOLICITED ADVICE at me, this is getting ridiculous.
I asked you not to respond, but your boring fucking life just couldn't help itself.

Repeating myself in hopes that you'll actually listen: I DO NOT NEED YOUR ADVICE, I am not in any sort of emotional trouble, kindly go fuck yourself. To my pictures, probably, and not to your fiance.

For the thousandth time, be in YOUR relationship, Jonathan, and stop trying to dictate mine, or the intentional lack thereof.
 
guardiaknight said:
It's fun when people only read half of what you say, and think they're being clever by 'calling you out'. :rolleyes:
Being full of contradictions has nothing to do with being phony. Being full of contradictions is being filled with lust for people that are not your significant other and finding it difficult to resist that desire, but loving the person you're with and not wanting to hurt them by betraying their trust in you.
If you've actually read this thread from beginning to end, then you may have noticed that Exx and I know each other outside of Lit. I really have no desire to go into the specifics, because that's between her and I(and ancient history). We're little more than acquaintances now, but I still understand a lot of who she is and what drives her. If you read her most recent post in response to me(the calmer one), you'll see that she understands part of what I was getting at with my previous posts.
I still find her an attractive and exceptional young woman, and being a young virile man have no problem enjoying the sight of her, clothed or otherwise. And though I didn't say as much, her coming by to just write stuff at random and let us know she's alive would be great. But I feel that if she finds someone who truly compliments and fulfills her, she'll have no desire to post anything here more risque than a smile. Perhaps I'm wrong. Maybe she'll become even more daring if the fellow in question approves of her presence here and offers to act as her photographer. But I find that unlikely. As she said, this is something she does when she's bored. If she finds someone really worth her time, then she'll have none left for Lit. Which is fine by me. I'll just be happy knowing that she's found someone as awesome as she is.

I'm sorry for speculating as to your motives and desires as if you weren't 'in the room', Kelley. I know you'd rather have at least sex if you can't find true love(or at least in the meantime), but don't settle, don't stop looking, and try not to let your libido get in the way of taking the time to get to know someone. For that matter, try not to let your libido get in the way of staying with someone who isn't quite as 'active' as you, but is perfect otherwise. I've finally learned to control my libido, and am far happier for it. Take it or not, just some friendly advice from someone who is a bit further down the road than you.

And for the love of sweet, little baby Jesus, before someone comes in and spouts some bullshit about controlling your libido being 'settling'... No, it's freaking not. When you're with someone that you love who enjoys being intimate with you, but is unable to on a daily basis, you either grow up and deal with it, or you toss them back and hope for better next time. Which shows you to be a sex-obsessed douchebag, and therefore not worth anyone's time. Part of being human, and an adult, is being able to overcome and control your instincts and impulses. Just saying. :cool:
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Oh, I get it. You want her all to yourself. Why don't you just say so, instead of going on and on about how she should find a lover. :cool: Save us the Drama, lover boy. We're here to enjoy ourselves not to witness your indirect proposals.
 
DaddyWantsYou said:
Oh, I get it. You want her all to yourself. Why don't you just say so, instead of going on and on about how she should find a lover. :cool: Save us the Drama, lover boy. We're here to enjoy ourselves not to witness your indirect proposals.
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That's exactly what I read in all of his posts

Exx. Please ignore him very love you
 
Despite the cameo from the desperate, jilted ex-lover, I'm enjoying seeing your thread brought back to life. Really hope you have a few more pictures in store for us before your next vacation from lit! :)
 
vwnut said:
Despite the cameo from the desperate, jilted ex-lover, I'm enjoying seeing your thread brought back to life. Really hope you have a few more pictures in store for us before your next vacation from lit! :)
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I think the jilted ex finally got the message. :)




New pictures soon. :devil:
 
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