DeepRedLips
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Fooling Around Pt II
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My wife is currently teasing the cum out of me. Her only rule seems to be that she'll only do this at the most inoppurtune times and places when we/I can't respond right away.
We were out for dinner at a friend's place the other night. We were "holding feet" under the table and at one point, while no one was paying attention, she whispered "you have me so wet right now." Needless to say we fucked like rabbits later.
Sometimes she tells me what she'd like me to do to her when we get home, or while we are driving. She once visited me at work just to tell me what lingerie she was wearing.
Another time she called me to tell me that she'd been thinking about the last time we'd made love and gotten so hot she had to "sort herself out."
I'm not one to be bored or suffer from a low appetite at the best of times, but whatever she's doing has really spiced things up of late. The fact that this game has me guessing at the rules only makes it better.
We were out for dinner at a friend's place the other night. We were "holding feet" under the table and at one point, while no one was paying attention, she whispered "you have me so wet right now." Needless to say we fucked like rabbits later.
Sometimes she tells me what she'd like me to do to her when we get home, or while we are driving. She once visited me at work just to tell me what lingerie she was wearing.
Another time she called me to tell me that she'd been thinking about the last time we'd made love and gotten so hot she had to "sort herself out."
I'm not one to be bored or suffer from a low appetite at the best of times, but whatever she's doing has really spiced things up of late. The fact that this game has me guessing at the rules only makes it better.
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How old is he? For how long have you dated? For how long have you been together in a not long distance relationship?
If you have just recently moved in together, this may just be his norm. I married my husband, thinking that the stress of a new job, the stress of this or that or my extra 10 pounds, or the way my pubes were trimmed, or the heavy dinner he had, or the moon being in Gemini (not really that one, but you get the idea) had been causing him to have a lower sex drive and that once we got things settled out he'd go back to where his drive was when we were dating. It never did. When we are apart, he wants to fuck like mad. When he knows I'm his, he loses all desire. He may want to screw sometimes and I can usually talk him into once or twice a week, but, as you're probably experiencing, it's nice fucking someone who actually acts like its fun rather than a chore.
I wish I had some good advice, but I'm in a bad boat myself. When I was younger I thought it could change. I told myself that even if it doesn't change, it's okay, sex is only one aspect of the relationship. Now it is seeping over into our other areas and my drive has tripled (was always very healthy so this is insane) now that I'm in my thirties so I'm always horny, angry and wondering what the fuck I was thinking marrying someone I knew had a lower drive than me.
For some people, sex just isn't that important.
Oh man, I'm not trying to be a Debbie downer, just sharing my experience. I guess my advice would be to evaluate and see if this is something you can handle living with forever. Life will always be full of stressors and if his reaction to stress is to it want to stop having sex, can you deal with that?
If you have just recently moved in together, this may just be his norm. I married my husband, thinking that the stress of a new job, the stress of this or that or my extra 10 pounds, or the way my pubes were trimmed, or the heavy dinner he had, or the moon being in Gemini (not really that one, but you get the idea) had been causing him to have a lower sex drive and that once we got things settled out he'd go back to where his drive was when we were dating. It never did. When we are apart, he wants to fuck like mad. When he knows I'm his, he loses all desire. He may want to screw sometimes and I can usually talk him into once or twice a week, but, as you're probably experiencing, it's nice fucking someone who actually acts like its fun rather than a chore.
I wish I had some good advice, but I'm in a bad boat myself. When I was younger I thought it could change. I told myself that even if it doesn't change, it's okay, sex is only one aspect of the relationship. Now it is seeping over into our other areas and my drive has tripled (was always very healthy so this is insane) now that I'm in my thirties so I'm always horny, angry and wondering what the fuck I was thinking marrying someone I knew had a lower drive than me.
For some people, sex just isn't that important.
Oh man, I'm not trying to be a Debbie downer, just sharing my experience. I guess my advice would be to evaluate and see if this is something you can handle living with forever. Life will always be full of stressors and if his reaction to stress is to it want to stop having sex, can you deal with that?
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in a 35 year marriage here--.
How?
Haven't got a clue except the reasons behind the longevity had nothing to do with sex. Whether how good or bad or frequency.
Advice?
Determine and make a decision in your mind what is and what is not--important.
Decide on a plan of action and carry it out.
And on that bit,
I bid you good fortune...
in a 35 year marriage here--.
How?
Haven't got a clue except the reasons behind the longevity had nothing to do with sex. Whether how good or bad or frequency.
Advice?
Determine and make a decision in your mind what is and what is not--important.
Decide on a plan of action and carry it out.
And on that bit,
I bid you good fortune...
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Without being so crass as to ask your age, and without reading any other responses, and at the risk of being glib....what do you think is the problem? Trust your gut. It's right
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