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Hmm, I guess +/-15yrs isn't enough....................................
What I mean is that I get direct messages all the time from lurkers about chatting. I tend to ignore them though. For me, if you have a low post count but a joined date of more than 6 months, that means that you're only here as a voyeur to jack off or find someone to jack off with or you don't want to pay a professional to get your rocks off. That also means I have no way of knowing if you're actually someone I would be interested in spending my limited time with.
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Now, clearly, that's not you. You only joined this month (welcome), and you had the guts to post your request. Not a small thing because it can be quite scary to post. I know I was when I started. Which is why I made the comment I did. But I confess, I had limited time and I didn't take the care I usually do. I don't have the time now, but hey, procrastination!
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My suggestion came from what I look for when I respond. When you post, you allow people to see your personality, get a sense of who you are, what you think. Do you or don't you have anything in common. And you don't know who might be reading. You might find that an expected lady might DM you.
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So It has nothing to do with physical age, as much as posting age. Make sense? And I'm editing to say that when I made the comment, your post count was much lower - so cheers to jumping right in!
 
What I mean is that I get direct messages all the time from lurkers about chatting. I tend to ignore them though. For me, if you have a low post count but a joined date of more than 6 months, that means that you're only here as a voyeur to jack off or find someone to jack off with or you don't want to pay a professional to get your rocks off. That also means I have no way of knowing if you're actually someone I would be interested in spending my limited time with.
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Now, clearly, that's not you. You only joined this month (welcome), and you had the guts to post your request. Not a small thing because it can be quite scary to post. I know I was when I started. Which is why I made the comment I did. But I confess, I had limited time and I didn't take the care I usually do. I don't have the time now, but hey, procrastination!
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My suggestion came from what I look for when I respond. When you post, you allow people to see your personality, get a sense of who you are, what you think. Do you or don't you have anything in common. And you don't know who might be reading. You might find that an expected lady might DM you.
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So It has nothing to do with physical age, as much as posting age. Make sense? And I'm editing to say that when I made the comment, your post count was much lower - so cheers to jumping right in!

I dunno what happened to this post - but it's not coming up, except as a reply when I meant to edit. So I'm posting in case it didn't take.
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However, I wanted to say about my post count - It is also relatively low. But you'll see in my profile, that I allude to the act I had to start a new account - Under my original account, Imi - I had thousands of posts.
 
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