Flogging tips

Slaneshforfun69

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Wife’s best friend’s husband introduced her to flogging. He’s flogged her ass, tits and pussy. She really enjoys it. Any tips from folks who are much more experienced?
 
You need different tools for those parts. If you want this to be pleasurable all
around you really ought to get a heavy one for the ass and smaller one for the front. A flogger that’s safe for her tits isn’t going to do much for her ass.

The advantage of flogger play is the number of strikes you can deliver quickly. Swinging in a fast figure 8 pattern lands dozens of fun painful hits in a minute. I like to have a small one spun like a propeller on my nipple or between my legs (aim is really important here, directly on my clit is really too much and not fun).

You can make these yourself and you can find lots of instructional videos online. I have a simple one that’s just heavy leather boot laces I cut in half, then bundled the strings together and tied together in the middle with some string. It hurts like hell.

Have fun! Be Safe!
 
Thank you! He used a smaller flogger on her, just swung harder on her ass. I appreciate the tips.
 
Flogging holds a special place in my early explorations of dominance and submission, as it was one of my first submissive partner's most cherished activities. This inspired me to experiment extensively with various designs and materials, ultimately leading me to craft my own implements tailored to specific sensations and preferences.
I strongly recommend exploring a wide range of flogger variations to develop a deeper understanding of their effects. Key variables include the number of falls, the length of the handle, the width and thickness of the falls, and especially the material used. The aforementioned will profoundly influence the overall experience delivered to the submissive. These elements determine whether the impact leans toward a sharp, stinging sensation, a deep, thuddy impact, or something in between, allowing for precise calibration of intensity, marking, and even psychological nuance.

Some materials to experiment with for the falls are:
Leather: the classic choice, offering a broad spectrum from soft, thudding warmth (with heavier, wider falls) to more pronounced sting (with stiffer or narrower strands). Different finishes and weights provide versatility and reliability.
Rubber: it is known for its sharp bounce and intense sting, often delivering a more severe sensation that can leave distinct marks; best suited for experienced players due to its unforgiving nature.
Nylon other synthetics: they are capable of producing sting when falls remain braided or rope-like, or a softer thud when unbraided into individual strands.
Chain (think jewelry chain): it delivers a heavy, metallic thud with potential for bruising; requires careful control to avoid unintended injury.
Cable or wire rope: it produces extremely sharp, cutting sting and high risk of breaking skin or causing serious damage; these demand extremely careful handling, thorough risk awareness, and often fall into heavy masochistic territory.
Rope hemp, jute, paracord, or other fibers: they offer a textured, variable impact ranging from thud to sting depending on construction.
By assembling a diverse collection encompassing different materials, fall counts, and handle configurations, you gain remarkable finesse in orchestrating your submissive's experience. This variety enables nuanced control when going from gentle warm-up strokes to intense, cathartic climaxes while taking into account individual limits, skin sensitivity, and scene dynamics.
Safety is always paramount so always prioritize thorough warm-up, clear communication, aftercare, and an awareness of anatomy making sure to avoid vulnerable areas like the kidneys, spine, neck, or joints. Start conservatively with any new flogger, gradually building intensity as trust and familiarity grow.
Happy flogging...
 
Flogging holds a special place in my early explorations of dominance and submission, as it was one of my first submissive partner's most cherished activities. This inspired me to experiment extensively with various designs and materials, ultimately leading me to craft my own implements tailored to specific sensations and preferences.
I strongly recommend exploring a wide range of flogger variations to develop a deeper understanding of their effects. Key variables include the number of falls, the length of the handle, the width and thickness of the falls, and especially the material used. The aforementioned will profoundly influence the overall experience delivered to the submissive. These elements determine whether the impact leans toward a sharp, stinging sensation, a deep, thuddy impact, or something in between, allowing for precise calibration of intensity, marking, and even psychological nuance.

Some materials to experiment with for the falls are:
Leather: the classic choice, offering a broad spectrum from soft, thudding warmth (with heavier, wider falls) to more pronounced sting (with stiffer or narrower strands). Different finishes and weights provide versatility and reliability.
Rubber: it is known for its sharp bounce and intense sting, often delivering a more severe sensation that can leave distinct marks; best suited for experienced players due to its unforgiving nature.
Nylon other synthetics: they are capable of producing sting when falls remain braided or rope-like, or a softer thud when unbraided into individual strands.
Chain (think jewelry chain): it delivers a heavy, metallic thud with potential for bruising; requires careful control to avoid unintended injury.
Cable or wire rope: it produces extremely sharp, cutting sting and high risk of breaking skin or causing serious damage; these demand extremely careful handling, thorough risk awareness, and often fall into heavy masochistic territory.
Rope hemp, jute, paracord, or other fibers: they offer a textured, variable impact ranging from thud to sting depending on construction.
By assembling a diverse collection encompassing different materials, fall counts, and handle configurations, you gain remarkable finesse in orchestrating your submissive's experience. This variety enables nuanced control when going from gentle warm-up strokes to intense, cathartic climaxes while taking into account individual limits, skin sensitivity, and scene dynamics.
Safety is always paramount so always prioritize thorough warm-up, clear communication, aftercare, and an awareness of anatomy making sure to avoid vulnerable areas like the kidneys, spine, neck, or joints. Start conservatively with any new flogger, gradually building intensity as trust and familiarity grow.
Happy flogging...
I LOVE this!
As a sub to my PERFECT Wife Domme Goddess, I made the vast majority of my implements of pain, whipping and abuse... and yes, most of them are made out of rubber. They are DEFINITELY not for the "faint of heart!"
 
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