Flexability none exisistant help please?

[calantha]

Ok, Problem:

I have no flexability in my waist down.. I can't spread my legs period. Due to some events that have happened in my life. I'm on some medication that is supposed to help my mobility and flexebility.. cause the docs figure it some brain damage that I suffered during my ordeal. But they haven't kicked in yet and it doesn't stop the pain that I suffer every time I take one step. Let alone the pain I feel everytime I try and cross my legs (another can't do) or spread my legs.. which is a huge DON'T for me cause of the excrutiating pain. I've tried relaxing and bending/moving but it dont work.

Our only position that we've been able to do that doesn't involve very much leg spreading which is doggy style.. but honestly as my condition has gotten worse, and all we can do it dogstyle.. it's getting boring lol.. at least for me.. I mean it doesn't stop me from being fucked.. I'll do anything to get laid even that position but we need something new.

So my question. Does anybody have any ideas on any new positiions that don't involve spreading the legs?

 

[Bobmi357]

There is a position called reverse cowgirl in which the woman is sitting on top of the man, facing towards his feet which does not involve a lot of leg spreading.

Since you didn't go into a lot of details about your inuries, its hard to offer advice. If the injuries were muscular in nature I'd suggest hot soaks to help loosen up the muscles.

Its never easy compensating for a life altering injury. In fact you might want to explore other avenues of sexual pleasure that you can do. When you're confronted with limitations, sometimes you have little choice but to go with the flow.

 

[calantha]

There is a position called reverse cowgirl in which the woman is sitting on top of the man, facing towards his feet which does not involve a lot of leg spreading.

Since you didn't go into a lot of details about your inuries, its hard to offer advice. If the injuries were muscular in nature I'd suggest hot soaks to help loosen up the muscles.

Its never easy compensating for a life altering injury. In fact you might want to explore other avenues of sexual pleasure that you can do. When you're confronted with limitations, sometimes you have little choice but to go with the flow.

Well to help the advice.. for those of you who want to know the cause of my injuries.

I had cancer.. leukemia.. no prob that wasn't what caused my legs to go all nutso.. but the chemotherapy I was on and the radiation I was put through, along with the stroke I went through due to an overdose of chemotherapy. I was bedridden for two weeks, unable to move and therefore my achilles tendons shortened, and I walk a little on my tiptoes.. but that is getting better I'm almost 100% flat on my feet again.. but from lack of exercise while i was in that bed everything has tightened up. I lost muscle mass big time.. I have none in my calves and feet and what muscle there is in my thighs is very little and very tight.. a massage therapist can't even penetrate my thigh muscles, it's that tight.. But that's only half the problem.

My brain damage they aren't sure how serious it is, seeing that they were asleep at the wheel for the last 2 and a half years and just now noticing that I have short term memory loss.. Lately I have discovered that the reason for all the pain is that there are two abnormalities on my brain that came up on my last MRI two years ago that was never mentioned cause they don't know what they are.. They are not dangerous to my life.. they aren't tumors for they didn't show up on any of my CT scans. But they have determined that they are effecting the nervous system part of my brain, my memory a little, and they are effecting the connection between my brain and my legs.. my brain is telling my legs to fight me hence the pain all the time. Therefore I can't move my legs the way I want.

I hope that helps everyone.. I might have forgot some details. But I can't keep track of everything lol..

 

[SweetErika]

Sounds like you have a good case for malpractice...what an ordeal! Have you tried accupuncture?

Regarding the positions, you could maybe try spooning or both of you sitting in a chair facing the same way. Here are some other really good resources (it looks like several of these positions might work for you):
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_sex_positions
http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/cb.html
http://www.minou.com/aboutsex/positions.htm
http://www.condoms.au.com/positions/positions.html (this one's just funny, but lots of great ideas)
http://www.sweetecstacy.com/tutorial/sexposition1.htm

 

[bobsgirl]

I also have a disability involving my legs and hips. Spooning works for us, with Hub behind me. Not face-to-face, and I miss that, but it gets the job done.

If that gets ho-hum, there are lots of ways to get creative with foreplay and oral sex.

As Bobmi so wisely said, sometimes ya just gotta go with the flow.