fisting
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it's perfectly safe, as long as you've worked your way up to it... it's like anal sex.. for a man to just penetrate with no preparation can rip your lining, and have other bad effects.. fisting is the same. You need to slowly start with one finger, then two, then up to 4, and then work on the thumb.
I've done it, never had it done to me (I can bend funny, so it's doable), and I know that it took a lot of stimulous and a LOT of perserverence.
Oh, and if you do get into it, and you do have a hand inside of you, make sure it's a hand with short fingernails (long nails can tear your lining), and make sure the person is very gentle with their finger-movements.
I've done it, never had it done to me (I can bend funny, so it's doable), and I know that it took a lot of stimulous and a LOT of perserverence.
Oh, and if you do get into it, and you do have a hand inside of you, make sure it's a hand with short fingernails (long nails can tear your lining), and make sure the person is very gentle with their finger-movements.
Spenser41
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I did that with an old girlfriend of mine. I was just fingering her and playing with her. She got wetter and wetter and I slipped in one, two, three, four fingers in little by little and then the thumb. She never had that happen to her and I had never done it, it just happened. Was pretty hot.
sabbathstorm
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We've tried fisting and I've loved it 
It's definitely something that takes a lot of time to work up to. Start slow with a finger or two and work your way up to all fingers and a thumb. As for lubrication, it really depends on the person. Usually at that point, none is needed
It's definitely something that takes a lot of time to work up to. Start slow with a finger or two and work your way up to all fingers and a thumb. As for lubrication, it really depends on the person. Usually at that point, none is needed 
sweetlittleass
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Fisting has definately been an enjoyable experience for me.
Hubby and I usually get into it during mutual masterbation sessions. We lay head to foot on the bed. Our only problem is that I'm significantly smaller than he is... he's 6'2" and I'm only 5'5"... so you figure the math on how much bigger his hand would be... WHEW! But that full feeling is amazing. It takes us quite awhile to work up to the point of him being able to work the whole thing in there, but the wait is definately worth it!
Baby
Hubby and I usually get into it during mutual masterbation sessions. We lay head to foot on the bed. Our only problem is that I'm significantly smaller than he is... he's 6'2" and I'm only 5'5"... so you figure the math on how much bigger his hand would be... WHEW! But that full feeling is amazing. It takes us quite awhile to work up to the point of him being able to work the whole thing in there, but the wait is definately worth it!
Baby
Belilica
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marksgirl said:
Well, I'm not Vix, but I can tell you that lube does help in any type of situation when you're trying to make something large fit into a small space. Never tried fisting, but I have tried really large dildos. It is almost a necessity, unless you are unnaturally wet.
-Bel
I agree that, at the point where he wants to put a fist inside you, he should have warmed you up a GREAT deal, and you should be sufficiently wet by then. HOwever, if you feel too tight, or if you have doubts, by all means, use lube.
My personal fave kind is Rain lubricant.. it's water-based, and they have it in a lot of different flavors.. my current fave is Banana.
Cheers,
Vix
My personal fave kind is Rain lubricant.. it's water-based, and they have it in a lot of different flavors.. my current fave is Banana.
Cheers,
Vix
sabbathstorm
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Belilica said:speaking of favorites...
I like Wet Light. It also comes in flavored self-heating typesI like Strawberry.
-Bel
Mmmm strawberry is my favorite too
lilfrk
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I've never been able to be fisted without extra lube. It hurts me too much and I'm a soaker. Y'all are better than me if you can.
I'd say lube and lube again. Just to be safe otherwise you are risking a trip to the ER with a rip that will need explaining over and over again. Plus a rip in that area will put a huge damper on sex for a while. We've had one regular account a similar experience...I do recall them saying it wasn't a fun trip that they'd want to do again in the near future.
I'd say lube and lube again. Just to be safe otherwise you are risking a trip to the ER with a rip that will need explaining over and over again. Plus a rip in that area will put a huge damper on sex for a while. We've had one regular account a similar experience...I do recall them saying it wasn't a fun trip that they'd want to do again in the near future.
jon.hayworth
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Marksgirl,
My partner and I reguarly indulge in fisting. To quote her words "My pussy is getting all wide and feels like it needs filling."
If you take a look at the story I wrote "Diary of a fisting" on BDSM you will find the information about lubrication, the method of "pointing" the hand etc., is all accurate.
Although it is called fisting, the guy does not make a fist of his hand.
A word of caution - if you go really deep, (whole hand to the wrist or higher), it does stretch the abdominal muscles and can take doing some exercise to flatten your stomach again. It is probably easier if you have had a child, because certainly with my size hand the pelvic bone gets displaced at the notch.
If you are going deep do not do it straight after eating or drinking and empty your bladder beforehand or you will be playing with "Golden Rain" whether you want to or not.
Finally you must trust the person you are doing it with and have a safe word to stop proceedings.
Hope this helps.
jon
My partner and I reguarly indulge in fisting. To quote her words "My pussy is getting all wide and feels like it needs filling."
If you take a look at the story I wrote "Diary of a fisting" on BDSM you will find the information about lubrication, the method of "pointing" the hand etc., is all accurate.
Although it is called fisting, the guy does not make a fist of his hand.
A word of caution - if you go really deep, (whole hand to the wrist or higher), it does stretch the abdominal muscles and can take doing some exercise to flatten your stomach again. It is probably easier if you have had a child, because certainly with my size hand the pelvic bone gets displaced at the notch.
If you are going deep do not do it straight after eating or drinking and empty your bladder beforehand or you will be playing with "Golden Rain" whether you want to or not.
Finally you must trust the person you are doing it with and have a safe word to stop proceedings.
Hope this helps.
jon
Take your time, and yes, lots of lube . Astro-glide, lots of lube, worked for us. It actually took a couple of sessions to get it all. And lots of communication. Wife had some pretty intense O's. We don't do it all that often, she worrys about stretching too much.
And yes, not right after eating, very uncomfortable for her. The drinking (water), pretty cool, but that's another thread. lol. Have fun.
And yes, not right after eating, very uncomfortable for her. The drinking (water), pretty cool, but that's another thread. lol. Have fun.
marksgirl
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Did it!
Well Ladies and Gentleman last night I had my husband read all your posts and he liked the idea too, so we went for it. We went slow, lots of lube and I'll have to say, I really liked it!!! Lead to a 3 timer last night...I have a big smile on my face today! Thanks again for all the great info, I just love this site, so many great ideas!
Well Ladies and Gentleman last night I had my husband read all your posts and he liked the idea too, so we went for it. We went slow, lots of lube and I'll have to say, I really liked it!!! Lead to a 3 timer last night...I have a big smile on my face today! Thanks again for all the great info, I just love this site, so many great ideas!
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Great to hear you had a wonderful night 
jon.hayworth
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Maksgirl,
Glad you had such a great night.
And had a this morning - I hope your other half was as equally .
Word of warning - it can become addictive - my partner says she finds it so fantastic that no matter what she wants to keep doing it. Even when we had done it so hard it took a fortnights exercise to get her stomach flat - we've been a bit more cautious about going too far in since.
My only complaint is that during prolonged sessions - measure in hours - I can end up with a completely numb hand and pins and needles.
Welcome to the club
jon
Glad you had such a great night.
And had a
this morning - I hope your other half was as equally .Word of warning - it can become addictive - my partner says she finds it so fantastic that no matter what she wants to keep doing it. Even when we had done it so hard it took a fortnights exercise to get her stomach flat - we've been a bit more cautious about going too far in since.
My only complaint is that during prolonged sessions - measure in hours - I can end up with a completely numb hand and pins and needles.
Welcome to the club
jon
