fisting

[short_circutz]

Welcome to Lit, SC! I hope you enjoy your time on these boards as there are plenty of interesting people who can either set you off or set you straight (lol - whole pun intended)

Fisting is one of the most intense sensations that the human body can accept and enjoy (at least I do). I can identify with the issues of flexibility as I used to be an avid self-fister and then encountered the same challenges you described. My life has changed, I have regained my flexibility and have returned to self-fisting once more. I wish you luck in your journey to fisting satisfaction!

Esclava

Thanks for the welcome Esclava. I've been mostly lurking and have posted very little. I love erotica. It was a blessing I found the literotica website by accident.

 

[Etoile]

I'm still hoping to try anal fisting, too. My girlfriend knows I want to but it never comes up when we're actually having sex. I'd also like to try fisting somebody, but she isn't into that so I don't know when I'll ever get to.

Incidentally, that's what I gave for "sex act I most want to try" when I was in On Our Backs. I said I wanted to fist a woman, and somebody wrote in to the letters section that she'd volunteer!

 

[Netzach]

fuck, I think you'll have lots more volunteers before the thread is over.



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what's your glove size BTW, I was em, thinking of sending you some mittens...yeah....

that's it.

 

[Jessalynvix]

We are trying this Dusty is trying to do it to me since I'm the one that wants it so far we have gotten 4 fingers in working up to more I evidently wasn't relaxed enough.

 

[Etoile]

Damn, Netzach, you sure know how to make a girl blush! http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/blush.gif http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/youloveme.gif

 

[Queen Bee]

Welcome to Lit, SC! I hope you enjoy your time on these boards as there are plenty of interesting people who can either set you off or set you straight (lol - whole pun intended)

Fisting is one of the most intense sensations that the human body can accept and enjoy (at least I do). I can identify with the issues of flexibility as I used to be an avid self-fister and then encountered the same challenges you described. My life has changed, I have regained my flexibility and have returned to self-fisting once more. I wish you luck in your journey to fisting satisfaction!

Esclava

You know, with all my avid masturbation and the delight I've taken in fisting another woman, I can't believe self-fisting has never occurred to me.

What positions would work for this? I can't imagine doing it on my back, unless my ass was propped way up and feet against a wall. Somehow I'm imagining that it would be easiest crouched on all fours (well, threes, I guess), maybe because that would allow for the greatest range of shoulder motion. I am reasonably flexible and have poppet-sized hands.

 

[Esclava]

You know, with all my avid masturbation and the delight I've taken in fisting another woman, I can't believe self-fisting has never occurred to me.

What positions would work for this? I can't imagine doing it on my back, unless my ass was propped way up and feet against a wall. Somehow I'm imagining that it would be easiest crouched on all fours (well, threes, I guess), maybe because that would allow for the greatest range of shoulder motion. I am reasonably flexible and have poppet-sized hands.

Poppet-sized hands....how nice...I am not that petite - I'm a bowler and my hands are svelt, but muscular.

Actually, the position that works best for me is on my back with my feet on the headboard and my head and back propped up on pillows - lots of pillows. When the orgasm starts, you will need the support! What works for me may not work for anyone else. My best suggestion is to try contorting your body in bed to see what position allows you the greatest range of motion. When you find a position where you can reach 3 or 4 inches (not quite the length of your outstretched hand) past your anus, you will have found a position that will allow you to self-fist. When you try it, make sure you have plenty of time and use lots - LOTS of lube. Let me know how you make out. Good luck to you!

Esclava

 

[Queen Bee]

Interesting. I will try this sometime soon and report back. Thanks for the tips, Esclava!

 

[shy slave]

People on the thread have obviously done alot of reading about size etc of babys' heads and the size of hands.

I was not able to give birth naturally as my I am too small internally ( yes vanilla men and Doms think its great!!).

I have tried Duo balls but am so small they have no room to move and therefore there are no erotic sensations

My question is does anyone have any opinion of whether I would be able to be fisted?

I have recently met a r/l Dom who is wonderful and it is something we discussed but i am a bit scared/frightened/terrified/turned-on by the thought.

I know I would need re-assurance etc and plenty of lube but as I was unable to give birth natrually to my children would fisting be physically possible?

I am a learning disability nurse so Gyn issues not my arena of knowledge.
The thought of asking nurse friends or ending up in accident & emergency with his hand stuck .....eeek!!!!


shy slave

 

[shelleb4]

Doing it to yourself? blimey, she's bendy!

Id just like to say, that ive heard of it, its not my bag, but if read this item for information. I wanted to know what it was that would be achieved for the giver and receiver. This has done just that.

Very informative. It hasnt changed my mind, but i am now aware of why you would want to do this, thankyou.

 

[WickedEyes]

I love you girls. Seriously.

*images of girls fisting themselves float through Wicked's head*

 

[Esclava]

I am a learning disability nurse so Gyn issues not my arena of knowledge.
The thought of asking nurse friends or ending up in accident & emergency with his hand stuck .....eeek!!!!


shy slave

Oh, shy!

The biggest limiter of what can be inserted in you is your pelvic bone. IT WILL NOT GIVE! If your Dom's knuckles are larger than that bony opening, chances are good that you will not be able to be fisted by your current Dom.

The hand is not inserted as a fist, the fingers are streamlined, folded around the thumb and inserted in a straight line. Once inside, the hand naturally curves into a fist. If you hold your hand in front of you with the fingers open, close the fingers together, then fold your thumb and pinky underneath; you will have a better idea of how large a hand you can take. If it is more narrow than a cock or dildo that you have taken before, your body should have no problem accepting it.

Be patient, do take care, use LOTS of lube and be cognizant of the signals your body sends. Remember your Dom cannot "feel" what you feel and if you don't vocalize how you are feeling you can be hurt - and we don't want that! Have fun and enjoy!

Esclava

 

[shy slave]

Esclava

Thanks for that explanation.

I am now off to measure His hand in the postion you describe against my favourite vibrator!!!

It should make an interesting conversation as i try to convince Him to let me measure Him

Doms and men are sooo precious about anything being measured..lolol

shy slave

 

[Etoile]

Damn, I'm starting to lose my standing as the Resident Fisting Expert!

 

[Esclava]

Damn, I'm starting to lose my standing as the Resident Fisting Expert!

Not looking to usurp your position, Etoile.

Just sharing ageless wisdom gained from experience. Perhaps it will make someone else's journey easier!

Esclava

 

[Netzach]

Get a woman with poppet sized hands to help you out?

Many of the otherwise straightish girls I know in the scene wind up doing this. Boy mitts are just wide in the middle, unfortunately, I share this trait.

 

[Etoile]

I was going to say that would be a major mental block for many women, who consider themselves quite straight and have no interest in other women sexually. I then realized that if a woman is interested in being fisted, she probably already has an open mind and might therefore be up for that.

 

[Queen Bee]

(also posted to "Jacking Off Log")

I attempted self-fisting last night, with imperfect but encouraging results.

I was extremely wet when I began, and I used some lube, although not as much as I thought I'd need. I tried it in the "tripod squat" position, as well as in the position Esclava described, and they worked equally well, but I soon tired of the squat. In order to try it lying down, I had to scoot very close to the wall, so that resting my feet there brought my knees up by my ears.

It really only took a few minutes to go through the progressive stations of the fingers, 1234. With some slight stinging and stretching, I was able to get all five fingertips in, and I worked that for quite a while, eventually making progress to knuckle deep. Then, frustratingly, I couldn't quite negotiate the curve required to slide in the rest of the hand. I need to experiment a bit more with positioning. Maybe pillows under my hips as well as shoulders.

As far as sensation goes, I was so distracted by the logistics that I really wasn't getting a great deal out of it. Afterward, I fucked myself with a dildo for a while, but by then my arousal had been so diffuse and prolonged, and the stimulation so different from my usual quick, powerful, clitoral variety, that I just sort of tapered off without orgasm. It was nice, though. Worth a second spelunking expedition.

 

[shy slave]

Queen Bee

Reading your post makes me intriged to try.

He is away for a week ~ golf ~ *sigh* so it may be interesting to spend time this week figuring it out.

Have to admit tho' the thought of being in squat position then getting my hand stuck is not the outcome I am looking for.

Maybe i should have 'phone by me when I try in case I need some help to remove my hand!!

First must get extra large bottle of lube.....

 

[Queen Bee]

That worry did cross my mind!

 

[shy slave]

Well providing I can still type, i will let you know what happens
lololol

 

[Esclava]

To Queen Bee...

APPLAUSE!!!!!!!!!

Congratulations on your first attempt and best of luck on the next. The knuckles are the most difficult. Your thumb should lay across your palm - almost at the base of your pinkie. Don't rush! It used to take me an hour to get my knuckles inside. Stretching, yes ... tearing, NO! Take your time and I'm sure you will find success.

And use as much lube as you think you will need - then double the amount.

Good luck to you...and to you as well, shy.

Esclava

 

[Etoile]

Wow, maybe I should give this a try. I don't usually have a problem getting all five fingers in, although the thumb is only in halfway most of the time. The fingers are all the way in. I'm not sure if this is something I should try with a partner or on my own. Daddy has never fisted me all the way, but my girlfriend has (more than 100 times I'd guess!).

 

[Esclava]

Another suggestion...

Try inserting all four fingers - and no thumb. Keep working yourself open until you are comfortable being wrapped around the knuckles of all four fingers. That is just past the widest part of your hand.

When you can accept the four finger knuckles very comfortably, pull your fingers out just enough to fold your thumb across your palm and that should allow that bone at the base of your thumb to slide inside. The rest of your hand will "give" and follow your thumb in until it curls into a fist.

Don't "try" to make a fist...just allow your hand to naturally assume a comfortable position inside. You will find it is a fist.

And remember...TAKE YOUR TIME...I cannot stress that enough. Enjoy the sensation of feeling the inside of your body with your own hand. Get in touch with the fact that it is one of the most intimate things you can do for yourself. Relish the fullness and allow the orgasms to take you places you never thought you could go.

Esclava

 

[Limbhugger]

<---Is certainly glad he resurrected this thread.