Fisting

Kinky Couple 69

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We seen an over the top porno this weekend and the women were all getting fisted by other women and by some men. Our question is, Is this something that couples do and never talk about or is it strictly a porno thing? If this is something you have tried or have been sucessful at what was the overall reaction and would you do it again?

Thanks

Kinky Couple
 
I've done it and talked about it. On Lit, at least. I don't think that my RL friends would want to know. :)

My hubby and I have tried fisting three or four times. It's an interesting experience, but it's not something that I want to do every day. My hubby has relatively small hands; I doubt if I'd want someone with bigger hands trying this.

I'm sure we'll try it again sometime.
 
It is something that you don't necessarily talk about in polite company.....but then there are times when its most appropriate! ;)

.......and its certainly one of those things that you should talk about with each other!
 
I have never done it to someone, but an ex gf and I did it a few times. The only thing I have to offer is wine, lube, and time.
 
pinkpunani said:
I have never done it to someone, but an ex gf and I did it a few times. The only thing I have to offer is wine, lube, and time.
...you get better!!! :kiss:
 
manloveswomen said:
Does using a fist make it more pleasurable for the woman?
I can't speak for all women, obviously, but for me, the pleasure was in knowing that I was getting fisted, not in the actual physical sensations. Physically, I just felt "full."
 
Had tried it but didnt succeed as my husband has great big ham sized hands. Good for other things but not for fisting..lol
 
Kinky Couple 69 said:
We seen an over the top porno this weekend and the women were all getting fisted by other women and by some men. Our question is, Is this something that couples do and never talk about or is it strictly a porno thing? If this is something you have tried or have been sucessful at what was the overall reaction and would you do it again?

Thanks

Kinky Couple

I've done it to another woman, under my Dom's instruction. She loved it, or so it appeared, and was a veteran at being fisted.

I've had it tried on me once. It was too hasty and too forced and extremely painful. It's something that takes "working up" to. Not something that you can do to your partner in one scene. I wish I could have it happen and happen pleasantly to me, someday... but

I equate my chances of being successfully fisted to my trip to Rome... won't be happening, I guess, in my lifetime so why dream about it, anymore?
 
I let my boyfriend do it to me.......and it feels amazing. The sensation when his whole hand goes in is like nothing I've ever felt before. I love it when he tells me he's going to do it and then we both watch totally fascinated as he moves his hand into me. It takes some time but it drives us both wild.
 
ONe day..

Oh yes, one day.

I've had a guy fit all his fingers and thumb in me, but not past the knuckles..

That was when I was younger, though and a lot newer to sex. So one day may be sooner than later :p


I know I may be enforcing a stereotype here, However in my travels a lot more lesbians are open about fisting than straight people/ couples.
 
We had seen alot of fisting on the web via short clips and both of us were totally amazed. When we seen a porno that featured fisting it was such a huge turn on for us.

I think the reason straight couples dont discuss it openly may be the fact that they think once they have taken a fist they may be rendered useless. Have you ever heard a guy say after watching a porno with a huge guy in it "I wont do her any good".

Just from a guys perspective on cock size but im sure women are just as self concerned about the tightness of their pussy. Dunno but i can only say that we are gonna work fisting into our sex life!

KC 69
 
Kinky Couple 69 said:
We had seen alot of fisting on the web via short clips and both of us were totally amazed. When we seen a porno that featured fisting it was such a huge turn on for us.

I think the reason straight couples dont discuss it openly may be the fact that they think once they have taken a fist they may be rendered useless. Have you ever heard a guy say after watching a porno with a huge guy in it "I wont do her any good".

Just from a guys perspective on cock size but im sure women are just as self concerned about the tightness of their pussy. Dunno but i can only say that we are gonna work fisting into our sex life!

KC 69
That's exactly it and I know that was my perspective on this initially. The simple fact is though that the vagina is elastic. Hell if a kid can come out of there and it's still good for fuckin, what the hell is a hand ganna do to damage it? :cool:
 
Oh Hell yea

I have done this, to my husband! You should have seen the reaction on his face when I got my fist all the way up my wrist into his ass.

At first he was shocked, but then was begging for more. He even shoot off while I was doing it. Wonder where I put my lube! I think i'll suprise him tonight.

Thanks for reminding me
 
TBKahuna123 said:
The simple fact is though that the vagina is elastic. Hell if a kid can come out of there and it's still good for fuckin, what the hell is a hand ganna do to damage it? :cool:
I agree with you, for the most part.

I'm a little paranoid because I had an episiotomy with my first birth and with babies #2 and #4 I tore right down the old episiotomy scar. It was easy to repair because it was a relatively clean tear, but I still worry that there's a bit of weakness in the area.

It's good that my hubby has small hands. :)
 
Eilan said:
I can't speak for all women, obviously, but for me, the pleasure was in knowing that I was getting fisted, not in the actual physical sensations. Physically, I just felt "full."

This is what it's like for me too. It's an incredibly intimate thing for me, but not one that creates fireworks.
 
An ex and I did this a few time. I think I'd have to say it was one of the best orgasims i've ever had. You need lots of lube and time, lots of time. :cathappy:
 
My wife read this thread today and now she wants to try this out. We've discussed it in the past, but finally something is going to happen with it. :D
 
Just an update.. We were playing with a friend and talked about the subject only to find out that she has been and has fisted others before. We were both kinda stunned at first only because she hadnt told us lol.... That night we worked up to fisting and she wanted my wife to fist her pussy first so she could see and experience it.... Dawn applied plenty of lube to her hands and Janells pussy and started working her fingers in. I watched in amazement how she was able to allow my wifes hand in such a tight spot(Janell has a very tight vaginal opening) but with a little work my wife had her entire hand inside Janell. Dawn fisted janell for awhile and then they switched. Janell lubed them both up and started to work her hand into Dawns pussy. It took her quite a bit but was able to get her hand slid in. Neither one said that they experienced any pain but that the feeling is very intense and the emotional sense of someone filling them like that was mind blowing. Now...being the concerned male of the threesome i had to check the relitive tightness of both thier vaginas after they both had been fisted.. I can only say that both did not feel as tight as right before but both were extremely lubed and both had several orgasims through the evening too.. I checked them both again the next evening and both seemed as tight as ever. Dawn was real excited and we just wanted to let everyone know we had accomplished it and apprecieated everyones comments and help.

Kinky Couple 69
 
Thanks for the update and I'm gald it all worked out for you. It's great that you found someone experienced to help guide you through the journey. :)
 
I think there are a couple of pretty good threads on fisting in the GLBT forum. Try checking there.
 
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