Fisting Advice

[lonelypuppy]

Fisting Problem

Hi everyone. My bf and I tried fisting the other night and the next day I had pain and blood in my urine. It went away after a day or so, but my question is, do you think we did some damage or that it was unrelated?

 

[Etoile]

Hi everyone. My bf and I tried fisting the other night and the next day I had pain and blood in my urine. It went away after a day or so, but my question is, do you think we did some damage or that it was unrelated?

It's quite possibly related, but I doubt there's any permanent damage.

Unless his fingernails were trimmed below the level of his fingertips, it's quite likely you were just nicked lightly by a fingernail. Even if he keeps them well trimmed it's still possible you were nicked. That's probably why there was a bit of blood. If you're near your period - either just before or just after - it's possible the blood was from that, too. If you're not, I'd go with the nicking theory.

As for the pain, it is very easy to get a bladder infection, even a mild one, from being fisted. Because you're putting an entire hand up there, it's very easy for some unfriendly germs to get up into the urethra. Have you had bladder infections before, and is that what it felt like? If not, what did it feel like?

So nothing that's anything wrong, really.

 

[SierraMoon]

~snip~

Are you familiar with the book "A Hand in the Bush" by Deborah Addington? It's pretty much the top reference for vaginal fisting, you might want to pick that up just to give it a read.

I read this book in like 2 hours.. very informative, descriptive and it has drawings!!!

Thank you Etoile for recommending it! I feel I'm ready to go through with it all the way...

 

[10orgasms]

We use fisting as a part of our play with other couples. Lessons provided

 

[Felix_Jones]

A hand in the tush

Not everyone is capable of taking a fist versus a hand that is curved (with thumb tucked). I know I have been able to do more anal fisting than vaginal since it's a bit more pliant. Bottom line is she may not be able to accomodate your fist (due to the size of your hands and/or the depth of her vaginal cavity and whether her uterus is tipped one direction or the other). One thing you can try is measure the circumference of your fist and then find a toy of similar width (they do exist). You may have to work her up to that size and yes it will take time and patience. Always fun to try.

Good luck!

~kierae

It's great isn't it...just had the pleasure of having it a second time. *s* Nice to see that there's enthusiasts when it comes to puppetry in the back end.

 

[mrtomthumb]

suprised....

I checked out this thread expecting to see a bunch of guys talking about wanting to fist women and find mostly women discussing it. I know your average suburban housewife is probably not like" Baby will you fist me after the Closer tonight?"Even more so about assfisting.....I never saw the appeal but if it is going on it is good that the fister and fistee are down with it.

A whole fist...seems like ouch. No judgment here just surprised when I see these threads come up.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I checked out this thread expecting to see a bunch of guys talking about wanting to fist women and find mostly women discussing it. I know your average suburban housewife is probably not like" Baby will you fist me after the Closer tonight?"Even more so about assfisting.....I never saw the appeal but if it is going on it is good that the fister and fistee are down with it.

A whole fist...seems like ouch. No judgment here just surprised when I see these threads come up.

there's no such thing as an "average suburban housewife anymore.

I looove vaginal fisting, both giving and recieving, and I've given anal but never taken it.

 

[satindesire]

Holy crap this thread is old!