Firsts

First time someone gave you flowers or you gave someone else flowers?

Most likely in high school.

First thing you do after waking up in the morning?[/QUOTE]

I usually wake in the evening, but the first thing I do is check my messages and send one (or more) to Him.

First time you flew in a plane?
 
Most likely in high school.

First thing you do after waking up in the morning?

I usually wake in the evening, but the first thing I do is check my messages and send one (or more) to Him.

First time you flew in a plane?
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Went to Seattle when I was seven.

First time you met someone famous?
 
I usually wake in the evening, but the first thing I do is check my messages and send one (or more) to Him.

First time you flew in a plane?


Went to Seattle when I was seven.

First time you met someone famous?

Leslie Crowther at a Lords' Taverners' match, about 3 or 4.

First boy/girlfriend who died?
 
I was in my early 30s and he died of a heart attack. He was an Y by then but it’s as close as I got.

First holiday memory that comes to mind?

Christmas Eve at my grandparents. Our German side celebrated in style every Eve. Looking back it was modest, but as a kid I felt like the luckiest girl alive. I played with my cousins and adored my grandfather. He would don a Santa cap to give out our presents and we would eat roast pork, lamb, and veggies. It was great.

First love?
 
Christmas Eve at my grandparents. Our German side celebrated in style every Eve. Looking back it was modest, but as a kid I felt like the luckiest girl alive. I played with my cousins and adored my grandfather. He would don a Santa cap to give out our presents and we would eat roast pork, lamb, and veggies. It was great.

First love?

A boy who definitely didn’t deserve it.

First time you saw your parents as human and not your parents?
 
A boy who definitely didn’t deserve it.

First time you saw your parents as human and not your parents?

When my stepfather beat my pregnant mum in front of me. Dang if that didn't make me see him as a monster and her as vulnerable.

First time you witnessed an animal die?
 
When my stepfather beat my pregnant mum in front of me. Dang if that didn't make me see him as a monster and her as vulnerable.

First time you witnessed an animal die?

Yikes! I'm sorry you had to see that. 😳

I'm sure I saw dead animals before this, but the one that comes to mind is a bunny that I shot. With a 12 gauge shotgun. It evaporated in front of my eyes 😬

First time you remember being sick.
 
Yikes! I'm sorry you had to see that. 😳

I'm sure I saw dead animals before this, but the one that comes to mind is a bunny that I shot. With a 12 gauge shotgun. It evaporated in front of my eyes 😬

First time you remember being sick.

Must have been when I was at infant school, I can remember just feeling awful, probably just a cold, and staying home, my grandma looked after me, and I threw up the paracetamol I was given.

First time as an adult you stepped out of your comfort zone?
 
Must have been when I was at infant school, I can remember just feeling awful, probably just a cold, and staying home, my grandma looked after me, and I threw up the paracetamol I was given.

First time as an adult you stepped out of your comfort zone?

I feel like I wake up every day out of my comfort zone and then thrash my way down the highway towards my cubicle of deliciously routine sameness.

Kidding.

Kind of.

A better answer: public speaking at work back in the day when I didn’t know my ass from a hole in the ground but had to pretend that indeed I did.

First pair of ludicrously unnecessary and indulgent shoes you ever bought
 
First pair of ludicrously unnecessary and indulgent shoes you ever bought?

I’m a guy so never.

First time having vacation sex?
 
First pair of ludicrously unnecessary and indulgent shoes you ever bought?

I’m a guy so never.

First time having vacation sex?

We were in college and her family had let me come with them for the trip. We snuck back to the beach house when everyone was at the beach to “get some drinks.” Was never more sure I’d get caught by her father. LOL.

First time every buying a sex toy?
 
We were in college and her family had let me come with them for the trip. We snuck back to the beach house when everyone was at the beach to “get some drinks.” Was never more sure I’d get caught by her father. LOL.

First time every buying a sex toy?

About a decade ago as a gag gift for a friend. I love giving gag gifts. 🎁

First time buying lingerie? Not the period panties or sports bra type stuff either. Sexy sexys.
 
About a decade ago as a gag gift for a friend. I love giving gag gifts. 🎁

First time buying lingerie? Not the period panties or sports bra type stuff either. Sexy sexys.

Thirty years ago. Pink satin teddy.

First time buying lingerie for someone else?
 
About 12 years ago. Another gag gift. I bought a ex a male thong. Many laughs were had by all.

First time you undressed a lover.

I went away with a "friend" on a camping trip. We were both young, inexperienced virgins who made out a lot. I decided I wanted to feel the skin on skin contact of our bare chests. That's as far as we got, but it was a memorable experience of undressing each other and exploring our limits.

First time you felt sexually confident.
 
I went away with a "friend" on a camping trip. We were both young, inexperienced virgins who made out a lot. I decided I wanted to feel the skin on skin contact of our bare chests. That's as far as we got, but it was a memorable experience of undressing each other and exploring our limits.

First time you felt sexually confident.

When I reconnected with an ex.

First time you realized you were in over your head?
 
A college class I was enrolled in at 10. No clue who thought that was a good idea.


First time doing anything “Kinky”

It involved a hairbrush and a screwdriver, and I was somewhere in the neighborhood of 16. I’ll leave the rest to the imagination.

First sexy movie you ever saw that left you all wobbly-kneed
 
It involved a hairbrush and a screwdriver, and I was somewhere in the neighborhood of 16. I’ll leave the rest to the imagination.

First sexy movie you ever saw that left you all wobbly-kneed

Eyes Wide Shut, likely. Secretary maybe, I think I saw the former first. Honorable mention to the hairbrush and screwdriver Ms. Fix It movie staring Trekka playing in my head.

First car you fooled around in.
 
Eyes Wide Shut, likely. Secretary maybe, I think I saw the former first. Honorable mention to the hairbrush and screwdriver Ms. Fix It movie staring Trekka playing in my head.

First car you fooled around in.

My dad's Bonneville. Let's just say that we got rid of that "new car smell". ;) :D

What was your first celebrity crush?
 
Valerie Bertinelli. She is still hot in my book!

First time having sex in a hotel room.

Heathrow Marriott on a business trip. I'll write the tale sometime soon...

First time you had sex in an "interesting" place - and where was it?
 
Heathrow Marriott on a business trip. I'll write the tale sometime soon...

First time you had sex in an "interesting" place - and where was it?

My first partner’s office - on an Ivy League campus overlooking fall foliage. Boring sex but great view.

First time you missed someone?
 
My first partner’s office - on an Ivy League campus overlooking fall foliage. Boring sex but great view.

First time you missed someone?

My dad, when my mother left him and moved us three hours away. I was four.

First time you had to tell someone you liked them but you didn't like like them?
 
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