First Time Threesome

[Tabytha4133]

Okay, I'm new here. This is my second writing of this and I hope it registers this time.

I found out about this site from my delightfully naughty husband and decided to join in.

He and I are quite adventurous sexually, but in many ways the fantasies have stayed in the mental arena rather than become real action.

Last night as we began to talk ourselves into a 'good mood' I reached over and began to stroke his cock, then asked him to tell me one of his favourite fantasies. I wasn't surprised when he told me he loved the idea of having two women go down on him. We were both getting aroused and I told him I liked that idea too. We elaborated the scene having him finger fuck us both while be bathed him with our tounges. Then I told him I'd like to watch him actually fuck the other woman and clean him up with my tounge afterwards. I probably don't need to tell you that by this time I was soaked and he was rock solid.

Even though it was 'sex talk' we admitted that we both felt pretty serious about the prospect. I took him in my mouth, bobbing nicely and gurgled 'Who do you want it to be?' In my mind the only person I thought would fill the position nicely would be my best friend. Strangely we both thought of her at the same time. We gave our fantasy lover a face then and talked it up. All the luscious wild things we would do. We fucked like rabbits and needless to say we both had fantastic orgasms!

Afterward, as we anticipated, we did feel a little odd about our conversation, but we realised that's normal and decided to really give it a think and see how we felt in the morning. This morning it's still something I feel ready to experience and even though he says 'I have to think about it.' I think he's game too.

My best friend is perfect as she's single, trustworthy, healthy/disease-free and I don't see her as a threat at all. Hubby and I considered meeting someone off the net but there were so many variables that made us unsure. We wouldn't want anyone to know about it for one, and even with condoms you just never know who that other person has been with and what little critters they might be host to. (lol)

Does anyone have any advice, thoughts, warnings for us? I know that there are probably quite a few of you that have blazed this trail before us. I'd be interested to here what you think.

Tabytha

 

[Miles_Cassidy]

Make sure you talk about EVERYTHING before you take the plunge. Tell each other what you want to see, what you dont want to see. This could ruin your relationship, or it could enhance it.
When cassidy and i had our first threesome we were at a kind of crossroads of our relationship. I figured it would either end it or make us stronger. Luckily (6 years later) we are still going stronger then ever. We both had certainly lusted after the girl we chose but seeing them both naked together, only made me realize how beautiful my woman is. We had laid down some ground-rules before hand which were tossed out the window as the night progressed. Which is something to consider.
Also, we ended up losing the other girl as a friend because she apparently didnt feel comfortable around us after the fact. I also felt like it would make cassidy really uncomfortable if i saw this other girl (in a purely non-sexual way) without cassidy being present. The other girl and i had been able to hang out without cassidy with no jealousy problems before the sex, but i could see the jealousy factor coming into play after the threesome. Albeit probably in my own mind only because cassidy never brought it up.
The first time we did the threesome i was certainly a little reserved and more cautious of the girls feelings, specifically cassidy. But the next time the opportunity presented itself we both cut loose, and it was absolutely incredible. We have more trust then ever in our relationship and we feel like we can talk about anything with each other. Its certainly not for everyone, but for us it was a wonderful thing.
-miles

 

[Jenny _S]

One thing stuck out in your post, Tabatha. You said "I thnk he's game too" Not good enough. There is a huge leap between sex talk about a threesome and doing a threesome.

You need to be open with your man. You need to discuss this more than just once in the heat of a hard-on. You need to set rules and be damn sure you are comfortable with each other, as well as, the third party. Discuss.. Discuss... Discuss!

Threesomes have a bad habit of going wrong. They upset relationships. We are talking about tender feelings involved with the most intimate human experience. Believe me, jealousies can and do arrise.

On the other hand, threesomes are a wonderful experience. Just be very sure in both your minds this is what you want and be very aware of the dangers before it happens.

 

[Pinmonkey]

From experience, I can safely say that sometimes fantasy should be left at fantasy.

 

[ldlarry52]

I have had MMF threesomes with two different couples. The experience for me was great. Have good erotic memories of it.

The first couple was middle class, two kids, both worked and were experienced swingers. The husband was very for the threesome, but I sensed the wife was maybe wanting to return to normal married sex. Lost track of them so I don't know if the swinging harmed them.

The second couple both loved it. The wife got a little strange toward the end. She started thinking about the possiblities of group marriage. Unfortunately, for many reasons. Not just the threesome they divorsed.

Threesomes are great to read about, write about and fantasize about. Would like to do a MMF with my wife. But, experience tells me while as the third party I had fun. The relationships of the couples changed. It's playing with fire. As others have said make sure you really talk it out. Once you do it, can't undo. If you do keep the best friend out of it. LDLarry52