First time receiving anal

[liqueur]

For me, it isn't here in the middle of wheat fields and highways.

I need a person and I'd love it if it wasn't so bloody cold.

So what keeps you from going to Oslo or some other populous area in the South? Seems (from my distance) like there's a lot going on there.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

So what keeps you from going to Oslo or some other populous area in the South? Seems (from my distance) like there's a lot going on there.

Money, jobs, residence.

Can't get a job there without the residence, don't have the money for it, because I don't have a job.

It's expensive to live in a city and I have to do it on my own.

I just exited a marriage where, I actually physically hurt myself in order to help our family, became slightly disabled, continued paying every bill, and ended up with zero money remaining.

And an inability to work 40 hours a week. And because of a paperwork error I was not responsible for, government red tape means I do not qualify for any assistance whatsoever. And EU inspections on vehicles meant my last beater car, did not pass, so I don't even have transportation right now.

Or money.

Or a job.

Or a perfectly healthy back. I'm working on that.

But a year with no income and paying bills will destroy you financially.

I'm avoiding debt, but I'm in a bad way.

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

I think I could be okay with it when I'm 75 but I am actively trying to find someone to spend the next roughly 40 years of my life with, and I can't do that where I am, middle of east Bumfuck Norway, or, probably rural Maine. Or Vermont. Or anywhere in New Hampshire to be frank.

That's why the internet is what i got and I am using it to talk to people.

I understand not wanting to be part of a big city, for me, the only benefit is jobs.

Again, a concern for 42 year olds, not 75-

But I get where your priorities are and I concur you should be where you feel comfy.

For me, it isn't here in the middle of wheat fields and highways.

I need a person and I'd love it if it wasn't so bloody cold.

Hugs, Chloe

 

[liqueur]

@ChloeOfCascadia , I'm sorry. I know poverty, and the devastation of divorce.

Are you still a US citizen? If so, can you get SSI? I have no idea if that's possible for people out of the country.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

@ChloeOfCascadia , I'm sorry. I know poverty, and the devastation of divorce.

Are you still a US citizen? If so, can you get SSI? I have no idea if that's possible for people out of the country.

I am still a U.S. citizen, and I did pay into social security until I was 33.

But it won't be much, and frankly, I sincerely doubt I will receive benefits.

Plus, to absolutely ensure I am never deported back to the absolute nazi hellhole that the U.S.A. has become, where they persecute and destroy trans people and make sure they can't get assistance or jobs or even use a public fucking toilet, I need to make sure I get my Norwegian citizenship and lose the U.S. one.

I have to, I'm not doing the dual citizen thing, recent fuckery with the Trump administration put the kibosh on dual.

I refuse to have a single thing to do with the U.S.A. anymore. It's for the benefit of my mental health, my life, my freedom.

The country as a whole clearly doesn't even want me alive, and I'm done being abused. So I will not return to that abusive relationship in any way, shape, or form.

And that means getting citizenship elsewhere, and since dual is not allowed anymore, that means no SSI.

It wasn't much, 15-33 is not a lot of SSI money.

It would be a help, for sure, but if it means never being persecuted for being trans and avoiding ever being deported back, absolutely guaranteeing the U.S.A. can never claim my life except by bombs dropping on my head, I welcome it.

I welcome the poverty. FDJT and Maga. I know this isn't the politics section but it is extremely relevant to a trans person for obvious reasons.

Nope, nope nope nope nope, a thousand times nope.

I will not be persecuted by Nazis.

 

[FitMary]

In my case, I was about 18-yo and with a friend. We used to go to his place to fuck when his parents were out.
One day, he was fucking me from behind and his cock slipped out of my cunt. I thought he was going to put it back in, but heput the head to my asshole and whisped into my ear, "Pleeeeese." It seemed so kinky and perverse that I became excited and told him it was OK. His cock was of average size and well-lubed hith my juices, so it sank in easily. Once he started fucking me, I couldn't get enough of it, so we did it regularly.