First Time Giving Anal

[SilverShamrock]

Okay, here's the deal:

I've known this girl for awhile, and she's got a huge fantasy about receiving anal sex. She's tried it a few times, and the guys that have given it to her have caused her a lot of pain apparently.

I've never given it to a girl in the butt before, and I'm just wondering if there's anyone out there that knows how to do it without causing significant pain.

Help, please?

 

[cryptictravler]

The tips are get her to relax, use a ridiculous amount of lube, have her push out which relaxes the muscle, and start small with something like a finger.

 

[SilverShamrock]

Ahh ... excellent. Thanks my man!

 

[cryptictravler]

No biggie, its a pretty common request here, and getting it to work is pretty fucking cool.

 

[SilverShamrock]

Nodding

Uh huh ... maybe I shoulda checked the other posts first before starting up yet another one on it.

Oh well ... maybe I could turn this one into an anal appreciation thread? Which means moving it, I suppose ...

 

[77Cobra]

Give her an erotic enema first,take her to the shower and wash each other up clean.Paying particular attention to her ass (you will see why soon).Then take her to bed and have lots of lube handy.If she is into toys get them out.Take your time and get her very,very Hot.Use the toys on her give her a lot of oral sex and while you are there slip that tongue down to her tight ass and give her ass a good licking since you have it nice and clean and slowly start sliding a finger in her ass.Go easy and let her get used to it and start wiggling the finger around and watch her reaction so you can tell if she is in pain.Play with her clit and pussy as you do any anal stuff.especially once she gets used to your finger.Then when she is ready to try your cock for size .She controlls how far it goes and how hard till she gets used to it.Then you can go ahead and fuck her like it was a pussy but be sure either you or her is paying attention to her pussy,maybe even putting a toy in her pussy as you do her ass.

 

[SilverShamrock]

Heh ... that sounds pretty detailed man. Thanks for the tips!

(she's giggling about it all ...)

 

[Kissophile]

Nodding

Uh huh ... maybe I shoulda checked the other posts first before starting up yet another one on it.

Oh well ... maybe I could turn this one into an anal appreciation thread? Which means moving it, I suppose ...

If you check out The Blank Manual you'll find an entire section devoted to anal sex how-tos.

Enjoy!

 

[BlueSugar]

If you check out The Blank Manual you'll find an entire section devoted to anal sex how-tos.

Enjoy!

I saw the thread and asked myself "HOW?!" :: yeah, this is actually the topic that led to the manual

but what cobra and cryptic said- sums all of them up

don't be ashamed of the area, don't say ew bc it'll reput in her mind that its a dirty thing to do - and she/you'll shy away from trying it again. GO SLOW, touch other areas on her body. If she is nervious she'll tighten up and then game over - she MUST stay relaxed. try getting a vibe and letting her play with it while you work her over... or get a good roleplay scene going that shes into so it'll be much better.

luck

 

[robynwildchild]

77cobra

got that all correct.. listen to his advice.