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Don’t beat yourself up about it. It took me years before I found the courage to go through with it and even then, I forced myself to do it. I have no regrets!
Exactly. If you are worried that your anus can’t handle a cock just think about what has exited the very same hole. It does take some time for your sphincter muscle to get used to having something enter instead of exit. Practice, go slow and use plenty of lube.
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Still waiting for my first real cock
I am in the group of wanting to find the right person who is sane, discrete, DDF and willing to be verse. I have practiced for many years with cock shaped dildo's and butt plugs.....love the feeling of having a 10 inch cock shaped dildo sliding and out of my ass while sucking on another cock shaped 10 incher.....I wish you luck!
I am in the group of wanting to find the right person who is sane, discrete, DDF and willing to be verse. I have practiced for many years with cock shaped dildo's and butt plugs.....love the feeling of having a 10 inch cock shaped dildo sliding and out of my ass while sucking on another cock shaped 10 incher.....I wish you luck!
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Lube is the answer
I’m hoping to lose my anal virginity this week, but I’ve been preparing for several months. First, I bought a thin prostate massager, then a set of small to large butt plugs and finally a 7” and an 8” dildo. Anal lube is an absolute must, but warming up with a butt plug will help. I also bought an enema kit so that it hopefully won’t be too messy. Enjoy!
I’m hoping to lose my anal virginity this week, but I’ve been preparing for several months. First, I bought a thin prostate massager, then a set of small to large butt plugs and finally a 7” and an 8” dildo. Anal lube is an absolute must, but warming up with a butt plug will help. I also bought an enema kit so that it hopefully won’t be too messy. Enjoy!
yes it hurts and don't let anyone fool you. your first time shold be with someone that isn't intent on plowing home.
you will need a lot of lube and he needs patients. he'd best be good at rimming too. those gif or vids youi watch; where a cock is just sliding in are not indictive of reality. yes your ass hole is tight...its suspose to be. Those vid....that ass is prepped or used up. Be happy you're tight
Most guys will be assholes (pun intended)....find someone you can connect with, that is willing to let you fuck them too.
My first time hurt like heck...but, my buddy was a close friend and understood what I was experiencing, sicne I had fucked him I wouldn't swoon over the Utopiam comments....
rimming, lube and a luv'r who understand what you will experience....
one last point..understand yoiur anatomy
My first time was incredible. Had "practice" with plugs/dildos/strap-ons so knew what to expect. Night that it happened in a 3some with my wife I just had a butt plug in while he fucked her. Then when it was my turn pulled that out and he was able to slide right in with no pain.
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My first time didn't hurt, in fact it felt great, but he had a very small cock. It takes time to gradually work up to bigger ones. I have had longer than 12 inches now.
My best friend and I had been blowing each other for a couple of months the first time we tried anal. We weren't successful as I was just too tense for him to penetrate me even a little, and we didn't have any lube. The next time we tried (the very next night) we had lube, and he managed to get the head in, but it was too painful to continue. Third time lucky - lots of foreplay, he ate my ass for the first time, and slid his lubed cock right into me once I told him I was ready. It hurt a little when the head of his big cock first entered me, but then the pleasure overwhelmed me. My cock was leaking like crazy as he fucked me, and I have been a willing bottom ever since!
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My first time didn't hurt at all. It was missionary position, he was on top and we used lube.
I was slightly drunk, and we had very passionate foreplay; massage, sucking, 69ing...everything we could think of except kissing. That came later, after he'd entered me I thought 'why hold back now. He's fucking me and I love it. Let's drop the barriers, and french kiss'
At first I just felt his cock between my buns, but eased slowly, with each stroke going just a little bit further into my ass. He was gentle, I was 100% ready, willing and eager. He had a normal 6" cock. I don't think he went too deep, and he didn't cum. But it was good enough that I've craved being fucked ever since
I was slightly drunk, and we had very passionate foreplay; massage, sucking, 69ing...everything we could think of except kissing. That came later, after he'd entered me I thought 'why hold back now. He's fucking me and I love it. Let's drop the barriers, and french kiss'
At first I just felt his cock between my buns, but eased slowly, with each stroke going just a little bit further into my ass. He was gentle, I was 100% ready, willing and eager. He had a normal 6" cock. I don't think he went too deep, and he didn't cum. But it was good enough that I've craved being fucked ever since
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Never taken a real cock, but I've used toys/dildos for almost 30 years.
I would say there is a bit of a learning curve, as far as working out the prepping, the amount of lube, the size that you can take, and how fast or slow you can go.
I've had the range of experiences, literally from "Ugh, that was awful and unpleasant and I'm NEVER doing that again!" to "that was the most intense, mind-blowing sexual pleasure I've ever felt!"
For me at least, it's more of an effort and not as consistently pleasureable as regular masturbation--but when everything is juuuust right...WOW!! It's off the charts.
I would say there is a bit of a learning curve, as far as working out the prepping, the amount of lube, the size that you can take, and how fast or slow you can go.
I've had the range of experiences, literally from "Ugh, that was awful and unpleasant and I'm NEVER doing that again!" to "that was the most intense, mind-blowing sexual pleasure I've ever felt!"
For me at least, it's more of an effort and not as consistently pleasureable as regular masturbation--but when everything is juuuust right...WOW!! It's off the charts.
I have to agree practice with lots of lube, it would be great if you knew ahead of time how big he is but that is not always possible. The 1st time will hurt I will tell you that even if you practice a lot, the reason for this is you are going to take your time when you enter yourself with the dildo but sometimes, actually probably much more than sometimes, your partner will not be quite as slow and may push inside you rather quickly in comparison. There are a lot of products out there that will desensitize you but I say why would you want to you want all of you nerves in a heightened state your 1st time as you want to feel every bit of pleasure and believe it or not the pain also.
My 1st time was back in the 1970's so long ago, I was 18 or 19 and even though he was smaller, maybe around 5 or 5 1/2", we didn't know much back then and tried it with only the spit and cum covering on his cock after I gave him a blowjob. I can tell you the pain was incredible and we had to stop, thank God he was a good friend and he didn't plow in and continue since I was in pain and in a very vulnerable position. The following time he had visited an adult bookstore, yes he was too young to be there but they never carded us when we went there to look at the gay magazines, and the guy at the counter was a sissy gay who told him about lube and sold him some. After rimming me he used the lube which made it easy to glide into my hole with much lessened friction, there was still some pain don't believe it all goes away with lube as it just makes any pain less and kind of like ripping a band-aid off the pain is quick but it also goes away much quicker. After that we fucked several more times until he had to go back to college.
Hope this helps you and don't be afraid of the pain if you embrace it it actually makes it quite a bit hotter once it disappears.
My 1st time was back in the 1970's so long ago, I was 18 or 19 and even though he was smaller, maybe around 5 or 5 1/2", we didn't know much back then and tried it with only the spit and cum covering on his cock after I gave him a blowjob. I can tell you the pain was incredible and we had to stop, thank God he was a good friend and he didn't plow in and continue since I was in pain and in a very vulnerable position. The following time he had visited an adult bookstore, yes he was too young to be there but they never carded us when we went there to look at the gay magazines, and the guy at the counter was a sissy gay who told him about lube and sold him some. After rimming me he used the lube which made it easy to glide into my hole with much lessened friction, there was still some pain don't believe it all goes away with lube as it just makes any pain less and kind of like ripping a band-aid off the pain is quick but it also goes away much quicker. After that we fucked several more times until he had to go back to college.
Hope this helps you and don't be afraid of the pain if you embrace it it actually makes it quite a bit hotter once it disappears.
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Mine first guy hurt a little. We were both virgins and had zero experience. He was large. We used Vaseline (please don't). Eventually we figured it out and it was fine. Fast-forward 7 years to my next guy, and I was ready. I'd spent a lot of time with solo anal play, working up to larger and larger plugs and dildos. I suggest you do the same. Not only will it not hurt, but you'll know if you actually want something at least as big as a cock in there
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This is a hot description. As a prospective bottom I want to experience it all, including the pain. I think that will add to the hotness. Giving yourself over to another man.
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My first time was pleasant and not painful. The guy that got my cherry was gentle but assertive whispering that he was making me his bitch as he stroked in and out at a maddeningly slow pace. He knew I was his bitch when I started fucking back and spraying cum all over the sheets. For a few months he had me many times and he was right... he made me his bitch with that first slow, gentle, teasing fuck...
Thank you. She’s beautiful inside and out!
Yes it hurts first time, take it very slow and stop a while when ur partner says it hurts. He will get used to it and can take all of it, then you can fuck him and cum in him. It is wonderful, best sex there is. Use a condum, you can get a prostate infection from scat.
depends on your idea of what "gain" is exactly... pain can be a sign of tears in your anus. Now, if you don't know what exactly is in your fecal material, maybe your personal education isn't as complete as it should be.
I think you are confusing pain with injury. A little pain (without injury) can be erotic. Actual injury is never erotic.
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