First Play Party! How about you?

[Killishandra]

I just wanted to congratulate Sphynx and dragon on their first play party!

I went to my first fetish club event with my Dom and my sister sub, and it was.... electrifying! Sis and I were on the table together under a Master's wands and various blankets for about 20-30 minutes.... Our first taste of electroplay, and our first participation (either of us) in a public demonstration. Sir (Marquis) was very proud of us. We both enjoyed the sensations a great deal, even though (because? ) they got painful at times. Staring/giggling/gasping at each other, holding hands under the blanket, and feeling the electrifying touch of Sir on us (conducting the electricity from the wands through us and into him!) was a wonderful bonding experience.

Woohoo!

 

[shy slave]

I've been to a few, and will most likely go back, but it's pretty weird....

I went to 2 parties with kat and then the last one I went to, I went with another couple cause Kat had to work, so she came later. I am, offline, sort of terminally shy. It's really bad. I got pulled over for something good once and I was so freaked out and afraid of the cop (who was really a very nice man) that I ended up crying anyway. I'm that wimpy with strangers and strangers who are authority figures. So anyway, I had noticed that I don't get spaced, I don't think. But I do get sort of involved with the more intense scenes. I mean, sucked into them to a point beyond arousal. There was a Dom who is not known for being the safest player in the world here who had been hitting on me at non party functions (the club here has lots of those, munches and seminars and stuff) and I'd always said no. So there I am at this weird point beyond arousal and I found myself somewhat, oh, I don't know. Not really relaxed, but incredibly turned on and feeling almost drunk or buzzed. I had heard before of "contact highs", where if someone is smoking pot and you breathe the second hand smoke you get buzzed. too. I've never experimented with drugs before, but it was sort of like, I'm surrounded by all these feel good endorphins and PYL energy and pyl energy and there's one or two starry eyed spaced out subs drifting about and I almost thought I was getting a contact high off them! I know it sounds stupid, but that's kinda how I felt. I'm probably not describing it well. I was all in that state when the scary guy came up and started talking to me, and I almost went with him. Not out onto the dungeon floor, but home with him! Luckily, a DM was paying attention and sort of stopped it. Thank god. That night the masochist who did go home with him got hurt. He's since been suspended from the club for predatory behavior.

The last party I went to, the PYL wasn't aware that I have that thing going on, but Kat had asked him not to leave me "unattended" if they went out to play, so I went out on the floor and knelt behind them as He went after her butt with all sorts of impacty things. I was so way into it, and kat hadn't warned him how into it I get, and I was behind them. We have outstanding DM's out here and the one on duty (whom I have sort of a crush on) noticed that I was a bit, ah, loopy and grabbed kat.

So anyway, yes, I'll go again, but only when I find someone who wants to be my Keeper for the night, who won't take advantage of the situation. Most of the folks I know around here play at almost every party, and I feel bad asking them to babysit, and also kind of stupid and immature for asking for help like this. It's embarrassing to admit that I can't trust my emotions and hormones and stuff. No one else seems to have this trouble, do they?

Anyway, this contact high sorta thing I was describing earlier, has anyone else ever felt that? Or am I just more insane than we thought I was?

Grace may have a point Snowy, about your reaction being similiar to how dolf went off at the munch.
It sounds like you go much further though.
To be honest dolf scared me when she did that (actually dolf scares me anyway lol).
If people go regularly to the parties i am sure someone would not mind caring for you, or sharing the responsibility of your care.
That way you could figure out who best helps you and work out why that is.
Once you figure it out you can explain it to others so they are also aware.
It may also mean you get an understanding of how to stop yourself being sucked into an intense scene.
Its good to know that someone stopped you going home with someone unsafe though, safety is such a major issue and its not always possible to see potential trouble coming your way.

As for comments on your insanity, no, nope, never. lol

 

[graceanne]

To be honest dolf scared me when she did that (actually dolf scares me anyway lol).

*sigh* This is a thread about play parties, not dolf's driving! *shakes head*

 

[bronntanas]

So anyway, yes, I'll go again, but only when I find someone who wants to be my Keeper for the night, who won't take advantage of the situation. Most of the folks I know around here play at almost every party, and I feel bad asking them to babysit, and also kind of stupid and immature for asking for help like this. It's embarrassing to admit that I can't trust my emotions and hormones and stuff. No one else seems to have this trouble, do they?

Anyway, this contact high sorta thing I was describing earlier, has anyone else ever felt that? Or am I just more insane than we thought I was?

I don't think it's immature at all; it's pretty brave to be that honest with yourself about this. Pretty damn smart, too. Next time I'm over there, I'll go with you if you want me too.

Now then, yes, I've felt it too, and I love it. I don't play in public, but when you do go to a party with a PYL and then go for a private encounter, it's mind-blowing. As for your sanity, you're pretty out there, babe! But I think you probably knew that.

 

[Guest]

My first play party was '77 or '78, Ek - how old ya feelin' now?

Younger than you... But thats not sayin too much, now is it?

Either way, I'm starting to feel like we need to start the "Old Dom/me's Home".

Nurses in white vinyl anyone?????

 

[Esclava]

First play party ... hmmmmm ...

The first time I publicly played with another was about a month ago. I was at a swing party and the Switch I serve on occasion was paddling me. It was starting to turn painful enough to safeword out of when someone said, "Oooooh, Let L finish her!"

So, the paddle changed hands and the entire scene changed direction. L took the paddle and began to rub the furry side around my asscheeks. Then the she delivered her first stroke. It was light, but hard enough to sting. But then she did something different ... she used her fingernails to distribute the sensation so the impact was not all felt in that one spot. The warmth of the distribution made me moan. The next blow fell on the opposite cheek and the same rubbing dispersed the pain. L rained many strokes from the top of my asscheeks to the bottom and all over the surface of my round, brown ass and with each stroke, my arousal meter went a little higher.

I never squirmed to get out of the way ... I wanted to feel each stroke - each sting. L continued to spank me - her paddle rising, falling and connecting with every round inch of my ass cheeks - in the crease and up to my sensitive clit. I was only able to tolerate 5 minutes of paddling from the Switch, but L paddled me for almost 20 minutes before I went into orgasm - cum gushing down my leg. It was incredible and I've spent more time with them since that spanking and ...

They invited me to attend and serve them at my first dungeon party tomorrow night.

Perhaps I'll come back and tell you how that goes ... wish me luck ...

Esclava

 

[shy slave]

First play party ... hmmmmm ...

The first time I publicly played with another was about a month ago. I was at a swing party and the Switch I serve on occasion was paddling me. It was starting to turn painful enough to safeword out of when someone said, "Oooooh, Let L finish her!"

So, the paddle changed hands and the entire scene changed direction. L took the paddle and began to rub the furry side around my asscheeks. Then the she delivered her first stroke. It was light, but hard enough to sting. But then she did something different ... she used her fingernails to distribute the sensation so the impact was not all felt in that one spot. The warmth of the distribution made me moan. The next blow fell on the opposite cheek and the same rubbing dispersed the pain. L rained many strokes from the top of my asscheeks to the bottom and all over the surface of my round, brown ass and with each stroke, my arousal meter went a little higher.

I never squirmed to get out of the way ... I wanted to feel each stroke - each sting. L continued to spank me - her paddle rising, falling and connecting with every round inch of my ass cheeks - in the crease and up to my sensitive clit. I was only able to tolerate 5 minutes of paddling from the Switch, but L paddled me for almost 20 minutes before I went into orgasm - cum gushing down my leg. It was incredible and I've spent more time with them since that spanking and ...

They invited me to attend and serve them at my first dungeon party tomorrow night.

Perhaps I'll come back and tell you how that goes ... wish me luck ...

Esclava

Hi Esclava

Thought you'd gone walkabout

But looks like you have been having too much fun to post

Did you go to the dungeon party??

*Sits waiting for the details*

 

[snowy ciara]

I think it's tonight. Not that I'm living vicariously through my friends who are getting some, not at all...