First gay experience.

[DG_Heracles]

Your av...your details...the idea of you wanting a sexy man to notice your thickness and the sneakiness of it. It's so exciting for me to picture it all.

No touching or anything involved, it's just the excitement of it.

You know like when you were first dating and the kisses were incredible and your face got all hot and got butterflies? That is what I miss....

So, the excitement of you being turned on by watching and playing just sounds so fun to me.

You nailed it. I get the same feeling in my gut any time I see a new, attractive guy who looks like he might be interested as I did when I was dating. Add to that the thrill of doing the forbidden.


It is an amazing experience to be wondering if a man in the shower or sitting in the steam room or sauna is interested. Then to see his penis slowly get thicker and longer as yours does the same....The rush is unbelievable.

What can be safer? It is really quite amazing how respectful everyone is of boundarys. I certainly have had guys reach for me but as soon as I shake my head they retract. Most seem quite ok with watching each other.

 

[DG_Heracles]

Remembers how it all started for sexyman...meeting online, a little innocent chatting. Here we are, cuddling while we await news from the gym.

I hope they post before we get ourselves into trouble here.

I certainly hope you two were able to get into some trouble.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[francefriend]

My first time on here, but I've been a chatter for years.
Thanks for all this DG - I just wish it could happen to me.
Wouldn't be able to stick with the 'no touching' rule though...you really are something else.

 

[DG_Heracles]

I really like the way you put this, the idea that what you do can have an immediate and desireable effect on the man watching you, all without physical contact! Also, the manner in which you adjust your body, position, action, constantly seeking to get a reaction.

I am quite a control freak myself so I can imagine being in exactly this sort of situation where I want to control/adjust a man's reaction to me and watch his sexual excitement peak as a direct result of my action at a distance, yet while still yielding to its unpredictability and the danger of being caught.

I once used a videotape of me fucking myself with dildos and butt plugs to seduce a young man who soon (very soon after) became the first man to fuck me up the ass. I enjoyed watching him watch my self on the screen, observing his cock get harder and harder in his pants and his tongue flick over his lips.

Yeah, it is a control thing. I love the process of gaining control. That, combined with the risk, is what's erotic. Well said.

The video / web cam. An unexplored frontier. I would be interested in hearing more about this.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[DG_Heracles]

Over the course of a year or so I'd made that tape, not really thinking that I'd show it to anyone - instead it was just a way for me to heighten the sexual excitement that I was already getting from fucking myself with all these anal toys. I felt that the camera was a good enough substitute for the audience I only vaguely realized I wanted... latent exhibitionism, or maybe not so latent, since I did like playing with male friends as a young teen... prancing about naked and with a hardon.

I ended up showing the video to two people I eventually had sex with. In the case of the young man who took my m2m virginity we'd been exchanging emails for quite some time and had finally agreed to meet to consummate. It was in my apartment that I showed him the video, as an ice breaker, after we'd spent time relaxing around each other in the living room. Immediately after he saw me in the video spray cum all over my face after having jacked a butt plug in and out of my ass at length I invited him to take a shower with me, and that shower was the lead in to the real sex.

The woman I showed the tape to was a friendly neighbor... I thought I would see what showing her the tape would lead to. No big surprise - a few weeks later I went over to her apartment wearing jeans, a t-shirt, and no underwear, and after some very intriguing banter that led to awkward silence, I decided to make my move. In a few smooth motions standing looking at her sitting on her couch I took off my shirt (she smiled with a very surprised look on her face), my jeans, and exposed my very hard cock to her (she gasped, wide eyed). We had some stupendously satisfying evenings in her bed...

Both times I suppose I knew what I was doing, which was taking things bit by bit toward my goal of seducing them, and in the case of the young man, allowing him to use me as a receptacle for his lust and cock.

Have you ever thought of creating the same scenerio via web cam?

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[DG_Heracles]

Yes, I have wanted to do nasty things in front of a web cam, but I haven't found anyone yet who fits the profile I want, which is essentially someone who is a good writer and who shares some of my kinks. That would be the person I would enjoy doing a show for/with, because there would be more to the show than just whatever I (or he) happen to be doing to my cock or ass: I want there to be a longer term mental element where we can build a sequence of scenes.

The other issue with doing this in front of a web cam is that it's much harder to set the scene right, from lighting, camera angle, background, video and sound quality. The tape I made of myself took a bit of work to set up the way I liked, or rather in a way that didn't take away from what I hoped was the central subject matter. ;-) As you can probably see, this is the control freak showing his true colors again...

Finally, it would be hard to use a web cam to turn someone on and then get into some action on the spot.

You are a control freak. I like it.

Nice story. I read it while sitting in a very public place and had a difficult time controling my "excitement".

The thought you put into the scene, lighting, background etc... is admirable. There is nothing more irritating then the attitude of "show me your cock". I love the seduction aspect (which is evident from the general feel of this thread) that you strive to acheive. This creates anticipation that makes the end releif much more satisfying.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[DG_Heracles]

I'm thrilled you appreciate it! As I said before you have a talent yourself for describing the uniquely interesting aspects of sex in a (partly) public place. ;-)

Speaking of controlling excitement in public places, I've been so horny following this thread that for several days now I've taken to wearing various thongs under my jeans at work. Right now I have on my backless black thong; it has just a black velvet-like elastic around my waist; from the front hangs a black fine mesh fabric pouch with an short elastic strap that is wrapped around my balls and the base of my hardening cock. There is no fabric covering my butt cheeks or crack. Once in a while I'll head over to the washroom, enter a stall, and spend some quality time adjusting my cock, stroking it to full hardness, dropping my pants down around my ankles and lifting my shirt up under my chin, my hands caressing my entire exposed body. Late in the evening when no one else is here I'll do the same in my office, wondering if the custodians are working anywhere near my office, because I think I wouldn't quite have the time to reclothe myself completely even if I heard the door opening. Even so, I would have to try to conceal the rather large bulge in the front of my pants.

In idle moments at my desk I imagine a fine looking man surprising me during one of my self-exploratory moments, legs up on my desk bent at the knees, shirt and jeans on the floor, asshole exposed, the black fabric pouch tenting and damp from my pre-cum oozing.

Pervert!

You posted this several hours ago I hope you were able to get off since then. I am imagining you sitting at your desk, like you described, shooting several long ropes of come on your bare chest. Hopefully you didn't get caught.

I am resesting the urge for releif, saving it for my wife when she gets home. She isn't going to know what hit her.

You, my friend, need to get to the gym and hit the steam room. I am convinced you can make something happen. Then you need to tell me about it.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[DG_Heracles]

You're not so bad as a pervert yourself, and it takes one to know one. ;-)

For some reason I haven't felt the need to cum when I do my 90%-naked-self-stim thing at work - the greater entertainment is in sustaining the sensation and sexual excitement throughout the day without letting it interfere too much with my work. Maybe I'm just saving it up for when that susceptible young man walks in my door catching me in the act...

Did your wife enjoy what you brought home?

How much does she know of what goes on when you visit the steam room, and is it her stipulation or yours that there will be no touching? When I visited a gay bath one evening it was mostly deserted so I wandered around, checking out what little was going on. I hadn't brought any condoms or lube with me, so even had I encountered a nice looking man I took a fancy to, I would likely not have engaged in anything (although I might have, if he had some of his own). That is how I stop myself from engaging in any physical touch. If, however, I got to the point where I *did* bring condoms and lube, that's when I would be committed to doing the real nasty.

If I were visiting your steam room, I would probably bring along an extra towel draped over my arm. Underneath it I would be holding a small tube of KY and a realistic flesh colored dildo. Once the eye-contact and self-stim action began with a fellow steamer, I would bring out the goodies, lube up the dildo, kneel on the bench, bend over and fuck myself with it in front of my watcher, keeping my eyes on him to observe the reaction.

Yes, my wife is who stipulated the no touching rule. I like it. It keeps things interesting and creative.

The gay bath house doesn't interest me. It is too easy. You have to work a little harder in the regular gym and I like that.

The dildo in the steam room would be hot. You better be able to hop off that motherfucker as soon as the steam door opens. Or maybe you could just completely lower yourself onto it, sitting there quietly untill any unwanted intruders leave.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[DG_Heracles]

When you're in the steam room having fun with a guy and the door opens, just how much time do you have to cover up and try to look innocent? I'd laugh if I walked in and found two guys trying hard to look away from each other, towels hastily tossed over bulging crotches, in the middle of moving to opposite sides of the room or bench.

If you are smart and calm, you have all the time in the world. At this particualr steamroom the door is clear. This doesn't present a problem due to the condensation that always covers the glass. Even when there is low steam in the room, there is enough moisture on the glass to prevent anyone on the outside from having a clear view of the inside. Anyone on the inside, on the otherhand, can see the image of someone approaching the door on the outside. This gives ample opportunity to assume the standard steam room lounge position.....

 

[DG_Heracles]

Even after the door has been opened, there is time to conceal any masterbatory actions (is that a word?). I always keep the room filled with steam. This way it takes some time for eyes to adjust upon entering the room. Maybe not enough time to change places but plenty of time to put your hand where it is supposed to be. The key here is to do it slowly and calmly. Any frantic motion will immediately be detected for what it is; a scramble to cover up (I learned this the hard way).

I love the task of keeping the room steamed. I use it as part of the seduction ritual. Once I am fairly certain I have a willing participant on my hands, but maybe before either of us has made any blatant moves, I will casually leave the bench, walk over to the hose and start watering down the steaming element. I am sure my friend can see my partial erection and I make sure there is some bounce in my step. Nine times out of ten he will reveal himself to me. This will quickly bring my cock into full arousal.

As I spray water, I make sure he has a good profile view. As I am spraying I will let the hose bump, rub and lift my cock. I swear there are times that I am so horny by this point that I could make myself cum. By this time, he is certain to be stroking.

Its been a few days, I need to get to the gym.

 

[TransJason]

Trans gay

Hi,

My first encounter was when I was 18. I am trans an luckily was very masculine looking after puberty hit, and more so as I had high androgens i.e male hormones. Only priblem no dick !

So I packed a cock and would go to gay clubs and dance and snog and feel up etc

Anyhow I got to know a few guys due to sucking cock and we met again and again a s a three some, me sucking their cocks etc. Somehow I explained my situation and was surprised when they didnt bat an eyelid, they said "you look like a guy and you are a guy !"...I went backl to one of the guys house with them and after a slight awkward few minutes we took off outr clothes, I had a tight stretcht lycra top that sqquashed the boobs down, not that i had much anyhow and a soft cock in a harness. and jock over it so to be honest I didnt look that much different.

One of the guys wondered if they could both fuck me at once, so he lay on the edge of the bed and I sat on hus cock and the other guy slide his cock up my arse, wow !...it was incredible and they could feel the others cock inside me so it was amazing for them as well, also a cunt squeezes different to an arse and they both said how much they enjoyed the different sensations as they swapped over and tried it.

I got fucked in every position you can imagine it was out of this world.

after that I was quite popular at the club !

The next encounter was in the clubs toilets when an older guy heavey set man in his late 50s got me in a cubicle, he had the biggest cock I had ever seen..another first time wow !...he said he had never fucked a woman so wondered what a cucnt felt like so did me doggy style, god it stretched me out, and he was groaning and making the happiest noises ! he fucked my butt as well and said the expeineces where different, bith great but very different.

From my side anal is more intense and I prefer that. i have had full SRS now and dont have the vagina opening as i have a woring penis and can do my own fucking !

It was an interesting time and I cant say I regret anything, but I am really happy to be a total physical man now.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[padiman]

Even after the door has been opened, there is time to conceal any masterbatory actions (is that a word?). I always keep the room filled with steam. This way it takes some time for eyes to adjust upon entering the room. Maybe not enough time to change places but plenty of time to put your hand where it is supposed to be. The key here is to do it slowly and calmly. Any frantic motion will immediately be detected for what it is; a scramble to cover up (I learned this the hard way).

I love the task of keeping the room steamed. I use it as part of the seduction ritual. Once I am fairly certain I have a willing participant on my hands, but maybe before either of us has made any blatant moves, I will casually leave the bench, walk over to the hose and start watering down the steaming element. I am sure my friend can see my partial erection and I make sure there is some bounce in my step. Nine times out of ten he will reveal himself to me. This will quickly bring my cock into full arousal.

As I spray water, I make sure he has a good profile view. As I am spraying I will let the hose bump, rub and lift my cock. I swear there are times that I am so horny by this point that I could make myself cum. By this time, he is certain to be stroking.

Its been a few days, I need to get to the gym.

DG

Sure would have liked to have been in that sauna and watched you make some steam. I would have been steaming already.

My first time was in an adult video arcade.Hadn't heard about gloryholes until I happened into a both with one. Usually, I just watched some porn and jerked off and left. This time was different and I discovered mm sex for the first time. Wonderful.

 

[DG_Heracles]

What is the non-masturbatory (lol) etiquette for steam rooms? Do you normally keep a towel wrapped around your waist? If so, is your interested friend seeing your cock harden under a towel, or have you by this point removed or "forgotten" the towel, so as to give him the best view possible?

All of the above my friend.

I at least try to put on the appearance of having some respect for those patrons that are in the locker room for legitimate health related reasons. If there is anyone in a non cruising mode, I do nothing. I shower, shave and leave. Having a towel with me at all times helps with this.

I usually start with a towel on. If someone appears to be interested I will myself a hardon. If they are interested they will more than likely notice it under my towel. If they aren't interested they probably will not notice. Once I have established someone is interested I may lose the towel, or just open it. Depends on the mood. If I lose it, its never far. It is what I will use to cover up (slowly) should soneone else enter the sauna or steam room.

Biggest suggestion is to be subtle at all times. Blatant cruisers are an anoyance.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[DG_Heracles]

I love the idea that you can just will one like that. Now THAT is control! If I were in that situation I would probably be fighting one the entire time. Allowing my cock to grow hard would be a relief more than anything else.

For the rocord, my cock is hard right now. I was just reading about masturbating in front of strangers in the Playground and it was totally erotic.

Immediately it is difficult to control my erection. At that point I just keep covered untill I have an idea what the atmosphere will be like. After I have been in the steam room for 15 minutes or so it is easier to control. It settles into a semi-aroused state. From this point it is easy to get to full erection once a willing partner has been identified.

 

[DG_Heracles]

Don't blink ABG, this won't be here long.

This is the result of the masturbating in front of strangers thread.

 

[binary1980]

nice DG

 

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