First Foursome - Advice Please!! !!

[CollegeCouple82]

Hey guys my boyfriend and I are looking for advice.

We went to dinner with a great couple a few nights ago and now we are planning on meeting this coming weekend for fun fun fun!
It will be my first bi experience and I'm very excited to taste a pussy. My boyfriend is also looking forward to fucking her... it is going to be a lot of fun!!!! Enough said!

We want to hear your experiences... good and bad - maybe we can learn something from it. Also anything from what to wear (or not), ideas to break the ice... to positions (I want to get double teamed and filled).

Don't let us down guys!

 

[ExtacyCouple]

My best advice is to just have fun and go with the flow. Do what feels good and keep in mind that you will be seing your partner with another person and him vice versa.........talk about that and make sure your feelings are out in the open. If he looks like he is having a great time with the other girl don't freak out and get jealous.....that's why you guys are there and he is doing what he is supposed to be doing....having a good time.

Have fun!

 

[CollegeCouple82]

Thanks for the reply! My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and about a year ago we started talking about this. We've had lots of talks and we are ready! I'm really excited!! Can't wait!

Anybody else have some advice or tips?

 

[Quint]

Are you sure you can trust the other couple? Have all four of you been tested for STDs recently? Are they happy with each other? Have they done this sort of thing before, and if so, did it end well?

Will the male in that couple be looking to play with your boyfriend, and if so, is your boyfriend okay with that? Even if they aren't playing, will being in a room with another male impede his desires?

Are you both perfectly clear on the limits you want for each other, e.g. "no shared body fluids," "no X kind of intercourse" etc.? Make sure there is no confusion about who can and can't do what with whom.

Repeat advice about jealousy. It didn't affect my relationship with T at all because a.) I didn't play with the other male, and b.) neither of us have any jealousy about the other playing with other females. Make sure this will contribute to your relationship, not detract from it.

Above all, have fun. Keeping a playful atmosphere made the most recent one I've been in infinitely better. If we hadn't been able to giggle about occasional goofups, I would not have had as a good time as I did.

 

[DuckLover]

Run a search (bottom right corner of the screen) for "threesome" and "group." The topic of group sex has been discussed in depth several times and a lot of great advice is already included there. Not to mention the fact that it's a lot of very hot reading!

Good luck, have fun, and please tell us about how it goes!