First Experience With Another Man

[mpeters]

To recap for those who don’t know my story: married about 18 years, no sex for 10 (see my long post elsewhere if you want to know details). Back in July or so I took a look at a picture thread of trans women and got very turned on, which took me some time to process. From there it was pointed out that a mouth is a mouth, and since I was interested in being with a trans woman, I figured I should see how I feel about being with a man, so I’ve been trying to get sucked off by one.

So after literal months of guys flaking on me, last night someone finally showed up. He was an older guy who hadn’t had any experience with it, but wanted to try sucking dick. Well we got into the back of my van (which wasn’t as comfortable as j thought it would be, I’m feeling it now), and I pulled down my pants and shorts so he could fondle me until j was hard. I was nervous but also excited to finally try this out. He wanted to jerk himself while sucking me so I’d brought lube and paper towels.

Now, normally I take a very long time to cum, so I figured that would be the case here. He put some lube on me and started giving me a hand job instead of sucking me, but at the moment I didn’t care… it has been ten years since I’d been touched and it felt fucking good. So good that I came in less than ten minutes (I haven’t shot off that fast in forever… the excitement of the forbidden might have had something to do with it). He wanted me to shoot on his dick so he could use it as lube for him, but there wasn’t enough time for me to manage that. He came, cleaned up, asked me if I wanted to fuck him in the ass but I passed… I’m not sure I’m ready for that step yet. He left and I later sent an email about it, but he hasn’t responded yet. I suspect he was hoping things would go further than we’d agreed to.

So still haven’t been ducked off yet… but I did have my first experience with another guy.

 

[Excitabletom]

The best part of the experience is when you return the favor! I understand the nerviousness, but once you grab a cock, feel it, you will want to suck it! It just gets better each time! Enjoy the times together with another man's cock!

 

[mpeters]

Right now at least, I don’t have any desire to do so, Excitabletom. Maybe eventually, but not now.

 

[Wanking_Frank]

Your situation was not so different from mine except my desires went more toward working another man’s cock more than them working on mine.

Hope you will keep pushing those boundaries.

Finding another woman to start a relationship is difficult especially with kids and at my age, everything is so complicated and online dating is such a load of shit.

Or you go on a site like doublelist or grindr or something and if you’re willing to be versatile you can hook up with a guy in less than an hour.

 

[mpeters]

Or you go on a site like doublelist or grindr or something and if you’re willing to be versatile you can hook up with a guy in less than an hour.

I’ve been using Doublelist, my big issue there is timing, there are limited times I can meet up and those don’t seem to be good times!

 

[One_ping_only]

To recap for those who don’t know my story: married about 18 years, no sex for 10 (see my long post elsewhere if you want to know details). Back in July or so I took a look at a picture thread of trans women and got very turned on, which took me some time to process. From there it was pointed out that a mouth is a mouth, and since I was interested in being with a trans woman, I figured I should see how I feel about being with a man, so I’ve been trying to get sucked off by one.

So after literal months of guys flaking on me, last night someone finally showed up. He was an older guy who hadn’t had any experience with it, but wanted to try sucking dick. Well we got into the back of my van (which wasn’t as comfortable as j thought it would be, I’m feeling it now), and I pulled down my pants and shorts so he could fondle me until j was hard. I was nervous but also excited to finally try this out. He wanted to jerk himself while sucking me so I’d brought lube and paper towels.

Now, normally I take a very long time to cum, so I figured that would be the case here. He put some lube on me and started giving me a hand job instead of sucking me, but at the moment I didn’t care… it has been ten years since I’d been touched and it felt fucking good. So good that I came in less than ten minutes (I haven’t shot off that fast in forever… the excitement of the forbidden might have had something to do with it). He wanted me to shoot on his dick so he could use it as lube for him, but there wasn’t enough time for me to manage that. He came, cleaned up, asked me if I wanted to fuck him in the ass but I passed… I’m not sure I’m ready for that step yet. He left and I later sent an email about it, but he hasn’t responded yet. I suspect he was hoping things would go further than we’d agreed to.

So still haven’t been ducked off yet… but I did have my first experience with another guy.

I've seen your posts from various threads and am aware of your challenges but I can't tell you how happy I am that you were able to experience what you did especially after years of no physical contact whatsoever.

To think after so many flaking on you and whatnot, someone finally showed up and got you off in that short time!!! Sounds like a good experience and like I said I'm happy for you.

 

[mpeters]

I've seen your posts from various threads and am aware of your challenges but I can't tell you how happy I am that you were able to experience what you did especially after years of no physical contact whatsoever.

To think after so many flaking on you and whatnot, someone finally showed up and got you off in that short time!!! Sounds like a good experience and like I said I'm happy for you.

Thanks, just wish I could make something happen more often!

 

[mpeters]

Well this sucks, tomorrow I will have a rare Sunday afternoon completely free, wife and kids (except one) are all going to be gone, oldest works nights so he won’t know if I’m home or not … and I can’t seem to get anything set up at all! Those who were interested aren’t returning emails…. Nothings happening with new contacts… dammit!

 

[PFWilly]

Well this sucks, tomorrow I will have a rare Sunday afternoon completely free, wife and kids (except one) are all going to be gone, oldest works nights so he won’t know if I’m home or not … and I can’t seem to get anything set up at all! Those who were interested aren’t returning emails…. Nothings happening with new contacts… dammit!

Seems like a common problem. Have you tried networking on Silverdaddies? It’s been more successful for me than other websites. Keep after it.

 

[Uncut1969]

Well this sucks, tomorrow I will have a rare Sunday afternoon completely free, wife and kids (except one) are all going to be gone, oldest works nights so he won’t know if I’m home or not … and I can’t seem to get anything set up at all! Those who were interested aren’t returning emails…. Nothings happening with new contacts… dammit!

Hope it works out for you

 

[mpeters]

Have you considered Reddit? That has worked for me in the past.

I’ve had about the same lack of success there too.

 

[JusticeGrey]

After years of crossdressing, trans porn, and dildo riding, I decided I finally needed to try out a man for real. I went on Craigslist and ended up finding an older guy who wanted his cock sucked (I was mid-20s, he was in his 60s). His ad had a picture of his 7 inch uncut cock and I decided that was the one. It was thin and curved quite a bit to the left.

He greeted me at the door in a bathrobe and led me to the couch in the living room. He looked a bit like John waters, skinny body, little moustache, and all. He asked me if I'd done anything like that before and I truthfully told him no. I think he liked that it was my first time, and he was very softspoken, gentle, and encouraging. He asked me to untie his robe, so I did and his limp dick was laying there in his lap. I told him I'd never seen an uncut cock in person and asked if I could touch it. He, of course, said yes.

He let me explore his cock and I began to suck him. He told me how good I was doing, asked if I liked his daddy dick, etc. He warned me when he was going to cum and quickly got me a towel to clean up the mess of spit I'd made of my face.

 

[TheF1x3r]

So good that I came in less than ten minutes (I haven’t shot off that fast in forever… the excitement of the forbidden might have had something to do with it)

Best thing about guys, especially cum loving guys....

You don't need to hold it in, nobody enjoys 20 minutes on their knees on a hard surface (like people say they do, but you know... gets a bit boring for both parties)

Guys who like loads probably don't care if you last 5 minutes; for them the thrill is being the receptacle.

I wish I had someone at the office... I like action there, but I also got stuff to do. And I also reload kinda quickly.

 

[Jeph77]

Best thing about guys, especially cum loving guys....

You don't need to hold it in, nobody enjoys 20 minutes on their knees on a hard surface (like people say they do, but you know... gets a bit boring for both parties)

Guys who like loads probably don't care if you last 5 minutes; for them the thrill is being the receptacle.

I wish I had someone at the office... I like action there, but I also got stuff to do. And I also reload kinda quickly.

Better to catch you early in your " shift".

 

[mpeters]

So in a bizarre turn of events today… I was supposed to have this afternoon free, wife was taking the kids to an indoor water park for the day, leaving me with a free afternoon (had to do my weekly shift watching my post-hip replacement mother, who helped me remember my dad was only seven years older than I am now when he passed away - and that’s not the twist). So when I was relieved of duty, I found out that they were already getting ready to head back home, with one stop on the way. I had tried to arrange something for the afternoon but got no confirmations, so decided to get a massage, so on the way home I literally went to the first place found to get a 60 minute full body massage… and got the happy ending experience, which I had not expected at all until it started happening, fortunately I had enough to cover the extra tip (she was damn good at it too, I couldn’t see what she was doing but I’d never felt anything like that in my life before). So that’s something off my sexual bucket list anyway!

 

[TheF1x3r]

Better to catch you early in your " shift".

I mean if someone were working in the same office building... let's just say they'd get enough protein.

 

[TheF1x3r]

So that’s something off my sexual bucket list anyway!

You know, I've never gone for one and the idea never appealed to me before.

Everyone I know who has had one has told me it was really good though...

 

[mpeters]

You know, I've never gone for one and the idea never appealed to me before.

Everyone I know who has had one has told me it was really good though...

Maybe it was the element of surprise there that did it for me… completely unexpected!

 

[TheF1x3r]

Maybe it was the element of surprise there that did it for me… completely unexpected!

haha yeah, I can imagine it was a surprise if you didn't ask for it!

I wonder if s/he realised after starting and was like "well.... it'd be even weirder if I stopped"

 

[mpeters]

haha yeah, I can imagine it was a surprise if you didn't ask for it!

I wonder if s/he realised after starting and was like "well.... it'd be even weirder if I stopped"

I don’t know… there was kind of a language barrier there, maybe I misunderstood something she said?

 

[slipprywenwet]

I don’t know… there was kind of a language barrier there, maybe I misunderstood something she said?

.....

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Very hot.

Simular to my very first time too. I was divorced, bored, horny, and found my self at an adult bookstore.
I thought the video booths were only for watching movies! Another guy gave me a blow job I still remember today.
When I got ready to cum, he just broke off making love to my cock long enough to say, "give me everything".
Really amazing mixture of nervousness, pleasure, smells, and relief to give me a #10 orgasm.

I have had a lot of ABS video booth experiences. They're pretty good places to get or give a blow job. The guys are there mostly for that reason. And they are much safer than anonymous "out in the wild" hook-ups. The cocksuckers will avoid causing a scene because they are usually regulars, somewhat known to the store clerks, and also identifiable because of the lobby security cameras.

The process is simple. Go to the booth, put on a video and wait. Any video will do, but a gay sex video is the better choice. If there's a door, don't lock it and it's best to leave it open a little bit. Pretty soon another guy will try it. Oh, by the way, it's also best to have your cock out and stroking it a little. When he enters, make eye contact. He will probably sort of "ask" what you are looking for, but mostly he's looking to suck cock. You will have to decide whether or not you want him to suck your cock and answer accordingly.

Best thing about guys, especially cum loving guys....
You don't need to hold it in, nobody enjoys 20 minutes on their knees on a hard surface (like people say they do, but you know... gets a bit boring for both parties)
Guys who like loads probably don't care if you last 5 minutes; for them the thrill is being the receptacle.

I've had quite a few great blow jobs in ABS video booths and as TheF1x3r said above, the cocksuckers aren't disappointed if you cum quickly, because they are sucking for the "reward".

I avoid sucking cock because I'm afraid of disease, but I would certainly indulge if I felt safe. If you are looking to suck cock, look for a wedding ring to be the safest. They are mostly guys like me and you who need their cocks sucked and their cum swallowed and can't get that at home.

If you want to read about my real life experiences at Adult Book Stores, check out my story published here on Lit.
https://literotica.com/s/my-trips-to-the-store

 

[regina75]

my first was when i was at buisnees meeting and the guy next to me started rubbing my leg I didnt say anytjing as i knrew what he wanted
after the meeting i drove him back to his work place and unzipped me and went down till i cummed and he swalloed
i asked him he wanted me to do him but said no. iwould haved loved to keep seeing him.
iwass marriedabout 5 years at he time
in Hs school there was a gay kid amd we both wanted it but never gota chance as his father came out to the garage
afew years after i was married and getting a medical twst and was laying on the table and an older guy was storking my hair an dthe next thing he unzippeed me and started playing with it

i had to go back a year later and the same thing happened. iasked if he wanted to go down but didnt want a nurse walking in.
this time he had his penis out and i dropped my hand and played with it
after that as i got older i so wanted to find some one to do but couldnt find anyonethat i wanted to do.
now if iwasnt remarried iwould have no problem

 

[Travler99921]

Probably the most unusual thing about my first experience was that I did it with my wife's approval and even encouragement. As much as i enjoyed having my cock sucked I found that sucking cock was what I really enjoyed.

 

[TheF1x3r]

Probably the most unusual thing about my first experience was that I did it with my wife's approval and even encouragement. As much as i enjoyed having my cock sucked I found that sucking cock was what I really enjoyed.

Was she present when it happened?