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reddevilron

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i would like to begin by saying.. I have never had any sort of experience that owuld be classified as BDSM or even borderline for that matter.. ( is talking dirty borderline??? )

I remain really not interested, ok maybe a little curious, in extreme BDSM. But I wonder how one would begin to experiment with such things. I know the obvious answer would be to find a partner who is into such things and let then take the reins... well I doubt anyone here goes around with big signs advertising their fetish.

What I am looking for is other people's first time experiences with their reugular partners. So if you may,, please post your first time experiences ( do let us know how you went about convincing your SO or the other way if relevant)

cheers..
 
I'm personally am having a hard time thinking of a first in D/s. I think we just sort of slid into BDSM so naturally and graduatlly that is all sort of blurs. Then again when I'm not in charge of the scene it all blurs for me anyway, if it goes well. I'll keep thinking though, provided my head doesn't explode.

Somewhere not long ago, Adante talked about his first time. I wish I could remember the thread. That was very fucking HOT!!! I went and bought a clothes line at the dollar store the very next day.

Fury :rose:
 
Master Gil told me of His first experience - an ex g/f rang Him and wanted to come and visit, when she got there she told Him she had been very naughty and needed to be punished. She had a bag with her containing ropes and a ping pong paddle :D Needless to say He took to it like a duck to water - that was about 10 years ago now :)

Me as a sub - I'd always had a shy submissive nature, I remember as a child wanting to be the one captured and tied up when we played cowboys and indians ;) I had no BDSM experience at all when Master and I met, but we discussed it heaps online when we were preparing to meet and there were a couple of phone calls where we did some light play so I could get a "feel" for being dominated :p The phone was no substitute for the real thing however! Two years into the relationship we live together 24/7 and even though He will deny it ;) the dynamic has graduated outside the bedroom in some ways, little things like serving His meal first or getting Him things when He asks for them.
 
reddevilron said:
I doubt anyone here goes around with big signs advertising their fetish


Actually, this is one of my fetishes.


As for the first time story, I've probably got one somewhere in the depths of my memory. I'll try to piece something together and get back to you later.
 
Rather than re-invent the wheel, I'll just link here to one of the first posts I made to lit...

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=13945704#post13945704

This is not the "first" scene I ever did, but it was an early one, and it remains the most vivid in my mind. This was from a time before I knew what BDSM was, or even that there were a LOT of people with similar inclinations. Enjoy!
 
Evil_Geoff said:
Rather than re-invent the wheel, I'll just link here to one of the first posts I made to lit...

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=13945704#post13945704

This is not the "first" scene I ever did, but it was an early one, and it remains the most vivid in my mind. This was from a time before I knew what BDSM was, or even that there were a LOT of people with similar inclinations. Enjoy!

That was a GREAT write up and one of my favorite threads ever!!!

Fury :rose:
 
That really was a great write up...

Thanks to all you guys who responded to this thread.. I hope we keep hearing from more people.. and more from people already here...

thanks again everyone...

cheers..
 
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