firefighter02
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Ok, at the urging of a good friend and with some trepidation for asking this, here we go...
I am a mid 30's male who has had about 10 partners over the course of my "sexual life". Out of those 10 partners only one was ever able to give me oral sex until I finished. It isn't that the others haven't tried, it just didn't happen. (And no, I don't remember anything that one girl did really different from the rest before you ask...other than I masturbated a lot less back then LOL)
My current gf is finding her wings so to speak sexually, and her fantasy is to give me a blow job to conclusion. (And she promises not to be a spitter.. Extra A for effort there in my book)
My concern is that past experience has shown that this can be a problem with me, and I don't want her to feel that she is doing something wrong or worse not good enough if I don't cum. I would hate for her first attempt to be her last attempt, and to lead to a little bit of doubt in her mind about her ablility to get my "fire engine" going so to speak.
Is this all in my head? Should I warn her ahead of time? Or should I just hope to god that it works and she doesn't end up with a nasty case of lock-jaw. Any thoughts?
Thanks
FF
I am a mid 30's male who has had about 10 partners over the course of my "sexual life". Out of those 10 partners only one was ever able to give me oral sex until I finished. It isn't that the others haven't tried, it just didn't happen. (And no, I don't remember anything that one girl did really different from the rest before you ask...other than I masturbated a lot less back then LOL)
My current gf is finding her wings so to speak sexually, and her fantasy is to give me a blow job to conclusion. (And she promises not to be a spitter.. Extra A for effort there in my book)
My concern is that past experience has shown that this can be a problem with me, and I don't want her to feel that she is doing something wrong or worse not good enough if I don't cum. I would hate for her first attempt to be her last attempt, and to lead to a little bit of doubt in her mind about her ablility to get my "fire engine" going so to speak.
Is this all in my head? Should I warn her ahead of time? Or should I just hope to god that it works and she doesn't end up with a nasty case of lock-jaw. Any thoughts?
Thanks
FF