Fingering?......

[KinkyIn403]

I've fisted my wife before - the first time at her request. After that it's like... cool - you love this and I get to play with your pussy! One thing that works really well is to fuck first. I'll cum inside her and then use the cum as lube when I fist her. Switch between full fisting and 4-fingers in with the cum coated thumb on her clit and she's pretty much in orbit.

 

[Firebrain]

I've had a baby and my hip aren't exactly narrow...there's no way his fist is getting in there. I did five fingers once and felt like I would split at any moment. I have a pretty good pelvic floor [flexes]

 

[andhotman]

Well, I did have the good fortune to be with a woman who was so turned on by fisting porn that she just had to experience it.
If that is your goal, I can relate a few things I learned in the process of "helping" her >
If you're just wondering how you stack up against other women, the answer is (of course) - great! If you're happy with one finger, you're set. If you're fascinated with "more", read on...

1. You WILL stretch - to a point - but it takes time, effort, and patience. You'll need to be consistant, and not let more than a day or two go by without working on it. If it takes a month or six weeks, so what? Does a month of experimenting with your pussy every day sound bad to you or your lover?
2. Lube, lube, lube, lube, lube.
3. If the budget allows, buy some nice tapered jelly-type toys of various diameters, and work your way up. When you can take a good, serious fucking with one, do so and then try some nice slow strokes with the next larger. The next day, start off with the smaller one and finish off with the larger. (Remember, you not only have to get used to having something bigger inside you, you also have to get used to cumming with it in there!)
4. If you get to a point where you want to try a hand, a tight-fitting surgical type glove will help. It smooths over the edges of fingernails and just generally slides easier.
5. If you get to a point where it is genuinely and consistantly painful to take anything bigger than what you're "working out" with, then you have gone as far as you are going to go. (Unless you're into the painful part, but you still don't want to go beyond what's barely tolerable, because you don't want to damage things!)

It took about a month before the woman in question (a very MOTIVATED submissive) got a real beginning-to-end fisting. Now she's nuts for it! Just for the record, she does regular kegals, and can still get quite a grip on something pencil-sized. It's like martial arts - you can be strong AND limber

Whatever you do, have fun and pleasure!

 

[fgarvb1]

I can actually say that I have fisted a woman before.

She seemed to enjoy it and it was her ideal.

I can't say that it did much for me...

 

[okeeboy1]

been there done that

when my wife would get really excited i could get up to my wrist inside of her and stroke her uretrus. the thing is you need to get out of her get out before her muscle contract and you are stuck and it is going to hurt to get out.

 

[Sweet_Pea24]

Fuck, fuck, fuck a duck.
Screw a kangaroo.
Finger bang an orangutang.
Orgy at the zoo!

 

[Sweet_Pea24]

What childbirth is that, exactly? It's exceedingly rare for a woman to have a baby that quickly, and even the labors that are quicker are usually not all that fast because they start overnight or when a woman's exerting herself.

And if they are I hope the Dr. is wearing catcher's gear!

Here comes the baby... STEEEEEEEE- RIKE!

 

[Sweet_Pea24]

yes. with practice the entire fist can fit inside her folds.

Shit! God that sounds painful....

 

[Sweet_Pea24]

But in a nice way... some women find pain and the feeling of being filled and stretched a huge turn on. Others, not so much. When my wife is really turned on she can tolerate huge amounts of pain and loves being stretched to the limit.

LoL - Well I'll leave it to the ones who like it. I wouldn't wanna try it, but then there are people who wouldn't want to try my fetishes either I suppose. To each their own...But I still say it sounds painful.

 

[deskuser]

Never been fisted but a guy I met on a night out did 3 and his little finger up my botty whilst I was giving him a bj. Sent me loopy that did.

Gosh it was 13 yrs ago.

 

[shewantsmore]

ive had 4 fingers in me and felt full then

 

[Sweet_Pea24]

A nice girl like you has fetishes? I'm shocked!

LoL oh yeah - but I blame the hubby, it was he who led me from the path of innocence into the darkened path!

Actually, I have already been on one thread, a porn thread where I offended some people with them. I mean seriously, I don't think they're that perverse compared to some of the links that were there, but some people do.

When I was studying sex (from an academic psychological stand point I mean) I heard it said that if you can fathom it, then there's a fetish for it.

To me anything is fine as long as you're not hurting anyone and it's consensual, I just want everyone to be happy in their sexuality whenever possible. I mean if people want to play their games (my hubby and me certainly have our games) like rape and incest etc. you can play it with out messing anyone up in their heads. Ya know? You just have to find someone with common interests.

Anyway - I nearly forgot to add that that's why I was hoping I hadn't offended anyone. I've always been fascinated by the study of sex - any kind of sex. From both the psychological and sensual stand points. What makes this or that turn these people on and then turn around and shock and offend these people?

LoL - But I don't want to hijack anyone's topic. Sorry to veer off the path like that. LoL Maybe one of us should make a separate thread sometime?

 

[Sweet_Pea24]

Never been fisted but a guy I met on a night out did 3 and his little finger up my botty whilst I was giving him a bj. Sent me loopy that did.

Gosh it was 13 yrs ago.

See, I can do three. I can tell I'm filled up and it's pretty stretchy, hurts a little but not really bad. But when you think about doubling those puppies up, I'm not even sure how you'd get MY fist started into one, much less a man's.

A fist though...Isn't that like close to baseball bat width?

 

[Sweet_Pea24]

annnddddd 100!

 

[shewantsmore]

i surpose if we can give birth then taking a fist should not be a problem but would it be enjoyable,giving birth certainly was not

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

1. You WILL stretch - to a point - but it takes time, effort, and patience. You'll need to be consistant, and not let more than a day or two go by without working on it. If it takes a month or six weeks, so what? Does a month of experimenting with your pussy every day sound bad to you or your lover?
2. Lube, lube, lube, lube, lube.
3. If the budget allows, buy some nice tapered jelly-type toys of various diameters, and work your way up. When you can take a good, serious fucking with one, do so and then try some nice slow strokes with the next larger. The next day, start off with the smaller one and finish off with the larger. (Remember, you not only have to get used to having something bigger inside you, you also have to get used to cumming with it in there!)
4. If you get to a point where you want to try a hand, a tight-fitting surgical type glove will help. It smooths over the edges of fingernails and just generally slides easier.
5. If you get to a point where it is genuinely and consistantly painful to take anything bigger than what you're "working out" with, then you have gone as far as you are going to go. (Unless you're into the painful part, but you still don't want to go beyond what's barely tolerable, because you don't want to damage things!)

Excellent post!

The only thing I would add: IF he gets his whole hand inside you (up to the wrist) allow him as much time pulling his hand out of you as he took putting it in. You might be a little swollen and if you orgasm while his hand is inside you it can make you much tighter. If either of you get impatient and he pulls his hand out too quickly it could really hurt.

 

[Sweet_Pea24]

Excellent post!

The only thing I would add: IF he gets his whole hand inside you (up to the wrist) allow him as much time pulling his hand out of you as he took putting it in. You might be a little swollen and if you orgasm while his hand is inside you it can make you much tighter. If either of you get impatient and he pulls his hand out too quickly it could really hurt.

OMFG! I never even thought about getting it back out.

 

[PhilGarlic]

last time

The last time I fingered my wife, she complained that my wedding ring was causing her discomfort, I replied "its not the ring its my wrist watch

 

[teknight]

OMFG! I never even thought about getting it back out.

Have some forethought, not just foreplay! Sheesh!

 

[infid3l]

Fisting / Stretching

If you want to be able to take more fingers or larger items into your vagina, I have some tips.

I had to work up to it, and then once I got there, I found that when I don't keep using larger items, I lose the ability to take them, and have to work back up to it again. It doesn't just stay all stretched out.

I did perineal massage. Besides being able to enjoy the awesome full feeling being able to take on big stuff gives you, there are other benefits, if you wanna have kids; perineal massage and stretching with big toys helps a gal not tear or have to get an episiotomy when it's time for giving birth.

The average circ. of a newborn's head is 13.5", if needed it squishes / molds a bit smaller; even if you can't take a toy that's near that big, if you're prestretched (along with all the other changes that loosen things up in there before childbirth) it's that much less stress on the tissues. I'm sure it also gives the mate something fun they can help with (helping prepare for the delivery in a fun way).

Just FYI - According to my mate, from the times when I couldn't do fisting, to when I could take huge toys, to now, he says he can't tell the difference when we're making love - he claims my vagina still feels the same on his penis... I do keigels a lot and think it's at least partly because I keep my muscles toned. I get a lot of comments on vids and stuff that people think they'll or their mate will get all loose and floppy and stay that way. That's not been our experience or the experience of other couples we've talked to about fisting/using big toys. The skin seems stretchier, but when I look at vids/pics from when I was still around teens/20s I just don't look different down there; Infid3l claims I don't feel different either.

If anyone has any questions, ask away... or PM.

 

[JoyceMarieL]

Dildo Use

K....question just curious how many fingers can a guy possibly get into a females vagina? Im wondering if its possible to get all 5 fingers in there and if so how the hell do you do it?

I have a Pyrex dildo (2.5" dia) and find it very difficult to take it vaginally on a regular basis. Liberal use of KY-Jelly and a partner, who is patient and engages in extended foreplay allows me to engorge, which makes penetration less painful. I fear continued use of it will dimish my tightness. However, I do love that feeling of my vagina being so satiated and that hard glass intrument pressing against the walls of my vagina.

 

[micky4play]

yep - varies...

K....question just curious how many fingers can a guy possibly get into a females vagina? Im wondering if its possible to get all 5 fingers in there and if so how the hell do you do it?

I have one friend that 5 fingers would be NO problem.....and others that 2 is uncomfortable....

 

[Abbymorgan]

Four fingers with 5 or 6 different women. Never had any complaints..

 

[simpleman911]

Three

Three fingers feels wet and full> I know four will fit but she says no. Id like to find a woman who loves to be eaten but maybe only two fit. I know shed be young. Maybe 21 and only a few encounters? LOl
pm me to discuss
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[Scotsman69]

I tried to fist my partner once. She wanted it. I think I went too fast, and when my hand was in her cunt up to my bottom thumb-knuckle it hurt her and I backed off. I shouldn't have. She told me afterwards that she wanted to try again, but so far we haven't.

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