giraffdonkey
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I am pretty sure i am piss poor at fingering, so anyone who would be able to give me detailed and discriptive tips and techniques on it would be very helpful. If you would rather email me, feel free.
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Lust Engine
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I think the most important technique in fingering is communicating. Ask your partner!!! Only your partner know what feels good to them; any advice that Lit members give is from their own experiences (& I highly encourage members to do so!) and hopefully not with your partner!
Be very frank & upfront with your partner. Let them know that you want to please them. Let them know that their pleasure is a huge turn on to you and for them to let you know what feels good and what doesn't.
There's no magic formula to fingering. Each person has their own unique likes & dislikes. It's up to you to be receptive & open to those hints.
And you're probably better than "piss poor at fingering". Have a little confidence in yourself. That confidence will come through too.
Be very frank & upfront with your partner. Let them know that you want to please them. Let them know that their pleasure is a huge turn on to you and for them to let you know what feels good and what doesn't.
There's no magic formula to fingering. Each person has their own unique likes & dislikes. It's up to you to be receptive & open to those hints.
And you're probably better than "piss poor at fingering". Have a little confidence in yourself. That confidence will come through too.
DriveSouth
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You simply
Must read this thread...
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=54890
Lot's of good info here.
Must read this thread...
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=54890
Lot's of good info here.
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Exquisite thread DriveSouth!
Hopefully those are the more technique oriented tips that you're looking for.
Again, good luck & have fun!
Hopefully those are the more technique oriented tips that you're looking for.
Again, good luck & have fun!
giraffdonkey
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Just Basic Details
I appreciate the responces so far, but i would like some just plain details. Example "first play with the clit...", etc. The other thread is more stories and such, once i know the basics i can expand on my own. Thanks!
I appreciate the responces so far, but i would like some just plain details. Example "first play with the clit...", etc. The other thread is more stories and such, once i know the basics i can expand on my own. Thanks!
scoperella
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the basics?
If I may...
there are no basics!
It would be so much easier if there was a definite handbook on how to do anything in bed (kiss exactly 28 times ... massage breasts 2 minutes ... suck each nipple 29 seconds each ... etc.) ... but how boring would that be?!?!
Really, just ask the person you're with. And don't be afraid to ask while you're doing it to her, ie - "Does this feel good", "Do you like this", etc. The most important thing I could tell you about fingering is to make sure she's wet and wanting. Kiss her. Touch her (her hair, back, stomach, breasts, etc.). She should be breathing hard and moaning before you even go anywhere near her pussy. Then talk to her, and listen to her. Her words, her moans, her gasps, her sighs, and her body ... the intake of her breath, spreading her legs a little further, rotating her hips, etc.
Good luck.
If I may...
there are no basics!
It would be so much easier if there was a definite handbook on how to do anything in bed (kiss exactly 28 times ... massage breasts 2 minutes ... suck each nipple 29 seconds each ... etc.) ... but how boring would that be?!?!
Really, just ask the person you're with. And don't be afraid to ask while you're doing it to her, ie - "Does this feel good", "Do you like this", etc. The most important thing I could tell you about fingering is to make sure she's wet and wanting. Kiss her. Touch her (her hair, back, stomach, breasts, etc.). She should be breathing hard and moaning before you even go anywhere near her pussy. Then talk to her, and listen to her. Her words, her moans, her gasps, her sighs, and her body ... the intake of her breath, spreading her legs a little further, rotating her hips, etc.
Good luck.
michaelmt1
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Re: the basics?
Do what I did ask her to masturbate and watch and learn
Mike
Do what I did ask her to masturbate and watch and learn
Mike
Don K Dyck
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giraffdonkey said:
Hi GD, Oh the energy of youth and the drive of hormones!!
Have you heard the story about the two bulls, the young bull and the old bull, who walk over the brow of the hill and see a lucerne flat full of young heifers, just waiting . . .
The young bull says excitedly, "Let's rush on down there and get into a few of them!!!" (pant, snort, roooar)
And the old bull replies," Naw . . . . let's just walk down slowly . . . and get into ALL of them!!!
Take your time GD, go and read BOTH of DriveSouth's TWO threads which contain much wisdom, then read Mr Gs "Try This and Report Back" and every other thread with a five star rating . . . then maybe, just maybe, you'll absorb enough wisdom to make your g/f a very happy lady . . .
You won't learn the knowledge found in these Lit threads from any book, from any doctor, or I suggest from any short term relationship with a person your own age . . . you will learn and gradually understand what is required to be a sensually educated male, if you take the time to read ALL the posts by experienced people prepared to share their wisdom on the Lit threads.
Enjoy - life can be a pleasure with this knowledge!!
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formula...
I've had some women tell me to use this formula...
One finger is not enough.
Three fingers are too many.
Two fingers full the gap just right.
Most women don't seem to argue with this logic too much.
The one thing I will say though is that many women like to have their clit licked while being fingered.
PowrDragn
I've had some women tell me to use this formula...
One finger is not enough.
Three fingers are too many.
Two fingers full the gap just right.
Most women don't seem to argue with this logic too much.
The one thing I will say though is that many women like to have their clit licked while being fingered.
PowrDragn
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