fingering your partner

[isshogai7]

just curious-how many girls like to finger their male(or female)the partner in the ass during sex?What do you like about it?

Thanks in advance for the answers!I wish to all the forumites the best of times!

 

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[ApplesMcgee]

definitely good

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[asenath]

I've done it... it was interesting. I lubed up my finger and slid it in nice and slow while I played with his cock and gave him head. When I hit his prostate I rubbed my finger over it... it didn't feel like anything really. I asked him to tell me when I hit it. Maybe once I get the hang of this sort of thing I'll be able to find it on my own.

He loved it and wants me to do it again.

 

[James G 5]

I've had wonderful success with anally stimulating ladies while I went down on them
Amazing additions to their orgasms & all
I've had a few people try it with me & it does nothing for me
I like being rimmed but something up inside doesn't HURT it just doesn't do anything < shrug >

 

[Alvaro]

.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

it drives' my lurver crazy

 

[billwindows]

my partner usually cums twice as much then she normally does when i finger her ass while going down on her but i have had people who had no reaction. depends on the person i guess.

 

[Prime]

I've done it to myself, and loved it. most intense orgasms i've ever had

 

[English Lady]

my husband loves it when I finger his ass and I must say i enjoy it too,can be really really intense. sometimes too intense, you have to know when to stop!

 

[Noor]

I like to do it when they least expect it, sometimes to push them over the edge ; )
I use my own juices for lube, if my nails are long a glove.

 

[lilpriss]

I'm willing to do this... I think it's another fun place to delve into... it's also one of those things that not all guys are into...

How can you tell whether or not to go there? I mean, some guys (especially in the south) have the impression that their partner will think they're gay. Which is silly... but hey... I guess you just push things a little further each time, and when his sphincter takes the end of your finger off you might wanna stop.

But seriously, I feel that turnabout is fair play, he wants to explore me and I get to do him !!!

 

[sco_72]

I've fingered my wife while we were having sex, but I've never had it done to me. I would let my wife finger my ass if she wanted to try it.

 

[Lust Engine]

But seriously, I feel that turnabout is fair play, he wants to explore me and I get to do him !!!

What's good for the goose is good for the gander right?

Oh, did I use the word "goose" in a butt play thread...oops!

 

[lilpriss]

Goose! I whole heartedly agree...

 

[Lust Engine]

Goose! I whole heartedly agree...

Nice way to keep those hands warm on a cold March morning huh?

 

[Noor]

How can you tell whether or not to go there? I mean, some guys (especially in the south) have the impression that their partner will think they're gay.

What I do is look into his eyes as I gentlely touch him there, and if he stiffens or freezes I ask "okay?" Guys will usually tell you how they feel, if he says I don't know then I just carefully rim him when we have sex until he seems more comfortable, which make take weeks. Usually after awhile they are pushing themselves into your finger
No, is of course no and unless asked I don't try again.

 

[katiekat]

I haven't really done this much, but i agree with Noor, you just work your way up to it... Maybe start by just grabbing their ass, and rubbing it, or rubbing their perienum (sp?), and seeing how they respond. People who are very into anal, or very against anal would tend to have stronger reactions to this kind of gentle stroking. If they make nice noises, keep going, if they tense up stop. If they don't have a strong reaction, keep going, gently, until you get a definite opinion. Maybe, stroking closer to their anus, then rubbing/ rimming it, etc before slipping a finger inside...

*smiles* have fun!
Katie

 

[James MacGregor]

I can't say that fingering is all that and a bag of chips, to Me anyway. But, when she presses her finger against that spot between My balls and ass while sucking Me? WOO HOO!!!

 

[nicholasgreek]

My contribution

We have tried it with my wife and her orgasm was very intense .
We also have tried it with me while either in 69 or just head . The results on me differs depending on my sexual arousal of the momment .

Whenever we feel like it we do it .

 

[likaway]

just do it!

I'm with Katie on this one. Just do it...but if he or she is shy, you may want to lead up to it with a little gentle play...touching the anus, or kissing the hole, or tongue it a bit..or a finger gently pushing in. Lot's of fun there but go slow at first, till she/he tells you to push it in. Love, Lisa

 

[paintergrl]

People react one of two ways, once you start they either enjoy it and want more, or don't like it. I personally now finger my ass while I masterbate, and both men & women who I have been with enjoy it, for men the prostate is the spot you want to hit, massage that & they become putty. Women, we either like it or not, and there really isn't any big tips for us, everyone is different. But go for it, try it out, you might enjoy it.

 

[DuckLover]

A fan

I enjoy both giving and receiving anal fingering. Interestingly, it usually feels better when I finger myself than when a partner does it. <shrug> Recent experience is an exception though; maybe it's because anal play is a new element in our relationship, maybe she just has 'the touch.'

 

[Latinababe]

I did it for the first time with my partner a few months back. I enjoyed it and thought it was erotic but he seemed kinda uneasy. I think I need to do it more so he can be more comfy with me Btw he did like it just felt very different for him!

 

[hotstik69]

It feels soooooooo good!!

My lady often does it to me while she's giving me head. I absolutely love it. I often finger myself when I masturabate also. Just be sure to use some good lube like Astroglide.