Finding Your Sexuality Poll

[Guest]

 

[BlackShanglan]

I'm bi. I think I realized it when I was about four years old and equally crushing on Wonder Woman and Han Solo at the same time. I'm not "experimenting" or trying to be trendy. I'm also not really gay and in denial due to society's pressures. I'm, uh, greedy. I fucking want it all, 'kay?

Just please, God, tell me that you still have both costumes.

As for sexuality - hmm. I'd have to work out a gender first. Sounds like too much work to me.


Shanglan

 

[OhMissScarlett]

My sentiments exactly. At the risk of having SummerMorning accuse me of "infantilism" again, to quote Queen, "I want it all and I want it now!" Of course, that's not practical, so I will settle for all of it little bits at a time.

We take what we can get.

 

[OhMissScarlett]

Just please, God, tell me that you still have both costumes.

Shanglan

Hahaha. You know it, baby.

 

[CharleyH]

Just please, God, tell me that you still have both costumes.

As for sexuality - hmm. I'd have to work out a gender first. Sounds like too much work to me.
Shanglan

I am still confused about why we must pick a gendered sex partner. Bi-sexual? Or is it simply a natural state of things that men especially deny until they go to jail? lol

 

[minsue]

I knew in my early teens that I was 'different', but didn't know what to do about it. Dated one guy and married him, partly because it was the thing to do, and partly because I actually enjoyed being with him. We had a mainly happy 32 year run, produced two wonderful sons, but in the end, parted amicably.

In my heart, I always knew it was women who did it for me, and once I could no longer hide from that fact, it was just a matter of time before I had to do something about.

That something was firstly admitting it to my two closest friends, then writing and posting on here. And look what that brought me? The love of my life. The one I'd been searching and hoping for.

 

[BlackShanglan]

I am still confused about why we must pick a gendered sex partner.

Wait ... wait ... does this mean you're looking for a non-gendered sex partner?

Be still mine heart.

 

[OhMissScarlett]

I am still confused about why we must pick a gendered sex partner. Bi-sexual? Or is it simply a natural state of things that men especially deny until they go to jail? lol

Exactly. "Horny" is my only sexual preference.

 

[minsue]

I have no idea what I am and no desire to label it. From puberty to late teens I was convinced that I was gay. Then I fell in love with a girl.

I have the biggest non-sexual crush on you.

 

[BlackShanglan]

I have no idea what I am and no desire to label it. From puberty to late teens I was convinced that I was gay. Then I fell in love with a girl.

What an eminently sensible liar you are.

 

[CharleyH]

Wait ... wait ... does this mean you're looking for a non-gendered sex partner?

Be still mine heart.

Hm, I need a really good poem right now, don't I.

I have done it again.
One year in every ten
I manage it -

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I used to consider myself bi-amorous, but lately I find myself more on the lesbian scale of things. My mum used to tell me that I dated men because all my friends did..and maybe that was a truer statement then even I realised.

After 3 babies and countless long term relationships with both sexes, I think of myself as gay. But the reality is I am probably still considered bi to most people.

 

[cheerful_deviant]

I've never had any doubt I'm straight. I've always liked women. I like the way they look, I love the sound of their voices, I like the way they think and feel. Both ways.

Generally I don't even like men as people. Testosterone addled jackasses most of 'em.

This pretty much mirrors my thoughts as well. In the real world I don't tend to get along wih men all that well. I have few friends who are male and tend to end up talking with the women at the parties I go to. Not romantically, just because I get along better with them.

 

[kendo1]

This pretty much mirrors my thoughts as well. In the real world I don't tend to get along wih men all that well. I have few friends who are male and tend to end up talking with the women at the parties I go to. Not romantically, just because I get along better with them.

I tend to end up talking to the women. Less chance of talking about football with them.

 

[cheerful_deviant]

I tend to end up talking to the women. Less chance of talking about football with them.

Football, basketball, hockey, NASCAR...

 

[kendo1]

Football, basketball, hockey, NASCAR...

Tends to be more: sex, sex, sex...
You know what women are like. They like to talk about it, but-

 

[Liar]

I have the biggest non-sexual crush on you.

Why, I think you just made my day.

 

[Liar]

I think I'm gonna start a new definition.

Pi-sexuality. Free lovin for 3.14 different genders.

 

[BlackShanglan]

I think I'm gonna start a new definition.

Pi-sexuality. Free lovin for 3.14 different genders.

And imaginary numbers.

 

[Belegon]

I'm straight, but....

look, I'm attracted to people not plumbing. Is there a guy out there who interests me? Well, not that I'm aware of at the moment. But if I fell in love with another guy, I think I would move past the physical questions in time. Sure, there would be some weirdness.

But I think the first time with a girl was pretty weird too....wonderful, but weird...I just don't think of it that way now. I'm sure at the time it was different.

 

[Alessia Brio]

I'm also not really gay and in denial due to society's pressures.

Amen.

 

[lil_elvis]

Straight. Never had any desires or feelings to be otherwise.

Kind of like CD, I prefer talking to women. Not that I don't talk sports with the guys, I just find it easier to discuss personal matters with women. I'm not looking for sex with them, I just find it easier to communicate with less fear of being judged, more often finding the trust and intimacy returned. I've never tried to analyze why this is so, just accepted it.

 

[Guest]

I'm a dyke. Also known as a Lesbian. Im gay. Never wanted a man in my life Wait lemme check.

Yup still as gay as can be

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

We take what we can get.

Well stated. I have made a point of not lying to potential partners about my orientation (or lack of orientation, as some might put it). My slave knows that I'm bi and finds it very arousing (I guess the thought of 2 men together does something for her like 2 women together does for me). I don't find all people attractive, despite being a swinger. There are some men and many women that I do, but quite a few of both that I don't. I tend to lean more toward women than men, but all it takes is SOME interest in my own sex to qualify as bi.

 

[Pure]

picky picky

just for the record, one's 'sexuality' is not exhaustively, or even mainly, defined by the gender(s) you like to fuck with.



PS. I think perhaps CharleyH has made the same point above, in her inimitable way.