Finding the Prostate.

alexandraaah

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Sorry if this has been asked before.

I'm curious if there's a certain technique, like with a woman's G-spot or if it's a free for all scavenger hunt type thing.

How do you know if you've found it?

Is it by his reaction or is there something specific that you can "feel?"

Thanks.
 
If you insert your finger just past your second knuckle or so and make a sort of "come here" gesture curling your finger up toward his belly button, there's a kind of a round bump. That's the prostate on the other side of the rectal wall.
 
Ice Princess said:
If you insert your finger just past your second knuckle or so and make a sort of "come here" gesture curling your finger up toward his belly button, there's a kind of a round bump. That's the prostate on the other side of the rectal wall.

Thank you IP! It sounds very much like finding a woman's G-spot.
 
dreamer0919 said:
It is...and OOOOHH goodness, finding it can be fun.

I'll report back at my first opportunity.

<insert some devlish type emoticon here>
 
I think your instinct was right that you would know when you touched it by his reaction... ;)
 
agreed...

Just recently my gf and I tried this and I wasn't sure she had the right spot, but there was DEFINITELY a different feeling. Then when there was a large leakage of pre-cum I knew it was the right spot.

PowrDragn
 
I've had my finger in myself before, just so I can feel the mechanics of it all when orgasm hits. I rarely want to distract myself enough to study it all, but there are significant goings-on in there. The prostate seemed to harden (everything seemed much firmer at orgasm) and I felt the pulse of my orgasm ...

Well - masturbating normally lets me feel this, but there was something more to it. I had my cock in one hand and my prostate under the fingers of the other; the orgasm simply felt much larger, and it was strongest in my prostate before it was strongest in my cock.

I couldn't stop thinking about it for a whiles afterward. Hadn't done it since - trying to keep your fingers in there during orgasm and trying to keep track of all the sensations during orgasm is a bit of a distraction.

At least someone in your position, alexandraaah, can take a somewhat more objective stance.
 
When you first find the prostate, he may not react the way most women seem to react to the G-spot being found. He may just feel a new, "weird" sensation; it'll be very different for him. You'll know you've found it though-- it's a firm sphere about the size of a marble.

I've found I can cum from nothing more than prostate stimulation; don't even have to touch my cock.

WARNING: Don't rub/poke it too much or too hard, especially at first. You CAN bruise it, which can be very very unpleasant.

Enjoy!
 
DuckLover-when I first found my G-spot (which was fairly recently), I also wasn't sure I had found it.

That's part of how, in retrospect, I knew I had found the elusive little bugger.

It just felt different...a sensation, an essence, more than a concrete feeling.

I know just what you mean.
 
Well draaah if you're looking for a volunteer to practice with give me a call. I'm officially avaliable now.
 
dreamer0919 said:
Well draaah if you're looking for a volunteer to practice with give me a call. I'm officially avaliable now.

Oh babe, I'm sorry.

I'm alternately sorry and relieved for you, I suppose.
 
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