Finding out your spouse was a slut...

[Stone_82]

Have you ever discovered your spouse was a slut in the past?

How did you react? Anyone know that sick feeling in your gut but at the same time that arousal that fuels fantasies?:

 

[bicuriouscd]

I divorced mine and I was glad to be free of her drama .

 

[Stone_82]

I divorced mine and I was glad to be free of her drama .

That is totally understandable. I know everyone had a past but sometimes it's hard to get over them.

 

[RDRUMMER]

My wife slept around quite a bit a few years ago before we met. It's never bothered me and I often ask her about her past sexual experiences

 

[STRC]

I alway tell my SO, "you are so good, I don't care where or how you learned it just don't stop doing it".......

 

[policywank]

Have you ever discovered your spouse was a slut in the past?

How did you react? Anyone know that sick feeling in your gut but at the same time that arousal that fuels fantasies?:

Were you a slut in your past or would you have been if given the opportunity?

 

[cabin69]

nothing wrong with a fun loving wife. its all the better

 

[FGB]

Yeah well, that is better than finding out she was in her younger days, but now she is plain Vanilla now and not much of that!

Another reason we are no longer married...

 

[screwher]

My wife

If I were to find out my wife was a slut before we got together I'd be pissed. Not because of the amount of cocks in her pussy, mouth, or ass before me but the dishonesty that would be involved. We got together quite young and she only had one lover before me. We were up front and honest with each other from the start.

The ironic thing now, fast forward many years, is I'd like for her to now start gaining new sexual experiences. She did drop her panties for another man years ago and I love for her to do it again.

 

[midwestmomlvr]

I don't know if I would consider it worthy of being called a slut or not, but I was very surprised to learn that my wife had sex with nine different guys before we met in the early 90's. Like most guys I was a bit jealous at first but any jealousy was quickly overtaken by curiosity wondering what types of things she had done with these guys. As it turns out, she was (and still is) very vanilla....saying that 5 of her encounters were simply drunken one night stands in college and the 4 other guys were long term boyfriends. Although she never did anything out of the ordinary with them (intercourse and the occasional blowjob) it turns me on like crazy when I imagine someone else fucking her or her sucking someone else's cock. Sadly though she is still VERY vanilla and we rarely have sex anymore.

 

[Halan1969]

people in glass houses? How much purity do you have? Or are a double standard person for "Guys IT'S OK" but women are held to a different standard.

My wife was a slut for me but that just means we had a full and happy life. She enjoyed love as much as I did, we shared many different things and never got to all of them on the list, but she was willing to do everything together. Treasure what you have. lost mine like a switch turning off.. That quick.

 

[mark_j]

She still being a slut with you as the object? If not I would ask when and where she got that purity pill..

 

[jomar]

Were you a slut in your past or would you have been if given the opportunity?

She told me four, but info that dribbled out over time didn't add up and and we had fun one session with a crop getting to the truth. She is not in the 30 by 30 club, but is in rare atmosphere statistically.

I suspect I would have been a slut if born female, and if I had things to do over again as a male.

 

[followmenow6969]

My wife and I were VERY VERY experienced before w married.. Totally honest and love each other and our sex life ROCKS

 

[gregy70]

Were you a slut in your past or would you have been if given the opportunity?

I would of been if given the opportunity. Men don't get the same opportunity & I recall being envious of women at times.

 

[downforce]

My wife was, and I dig the hell out of it. I have her tell me about some of her encounters and it always gets me hot thinking about/imagining her fucking someone else. Ive never really had any hang ups about what girls did before I got with them, Im enough of a realist to know that they had sex before we got together.

Even though I explained above that I like hearing about my wife's encounters, I generally dont care about how many people someone has been with. I know I chased a lot of tail before her and I got together, why should I be hypocritical and get bent about her sexual past?

 

[little cletus]

I'm just annoyed that her experimentation phase ended before she met me.

 

[Kitty]

That is totally understandable. I know everyone had a past but sometimes it's hard to get over them.

How is this a fetish? Perhaps if you've ever caught your woman cheating, and you join in? Every

single


time.

Then that's just an open relationship.

 

[hornydesibitch]

if i get married..am sure my hubby will find out!!

 

[Kitty]

You're never getting married muh dear.

 

[SCcouple1990]

I know all about my wife's past sexual encounters and enjoy hearing about them. We were upfront and honest early in our relationship about what we had done before we got together. If I didn't know about her past, and found out much later in a long term committed relationship, I probably would not be very happy.

 

[CindyCD478]

I knew she was when I married her, that's why I fell in love. She still is and so am I.

 

[policywank]

I don't see why this is such a big deal for guys but I know that it is. This is probably a statement of the obvious but we have no right to expect or SOs to have held out for us. I see the issue of honesty - she said she had limited experience and it was a lie - and struggle with anyone who is dishonest.

Although I would ask men to consider whether she was given a reasonable chance to be honest. If she had told you of her experience would you have called her a nasty name and dumped her? That is still no excuse as it is your right to choose your partner even based on a narrow minded view of her past. But that kind of rejection is something that would be a strong deterrent to honesty - like I said it is no excuse but if you know in your heart that you would have been an asshole about it perhaps you can relate to her somewhat selfish lie.

 

[klippert]

Mrs K came out of her shell in college...she said at one point she crossed into the Slut realm...then stepped out. I'm glad she has some good and bad experiences.. learning moment in life. When I met some of her University girl-friends, and the whispers started (this happens when they get together)...she told them, "he knows""and it actually turns him one"..

If there is one consolation to all of it...We'er not from the same town..even the same State. so It's not like having dinner and sitting on the other side of the room is some dude she'd had it off with...

 

[MatthewVett]

Well, I once dated a happy ending masseuse, so I already knew that she was a bit experienced, but it didn't bother me much. She didn't go further than handjobs while we were dating, and all of her practice made for some mindblowing orgasms, so it wasn't a bad thing, to me.