showybabee
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I am wondering if anyone has any advice on meeting another woman. I am bi-curious and extremely shy. I have fantasies about being with another female that I would like to explore.
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Hi lickerish, I am from CA. How about you?
Hi lickerish, I am from CA. How about you?
Judging from my observation of my wife, meeting women doesn't seem to be a problem for women. You all seem to gravitate toward each other and once yo start to talking there is no subject that is taboo. I know that my penis size and how I shave in the pubic area have been topics of open discussion. If you ae bi-curious, finding a circle of women seems to be your first step. A couple of glasses of wine and there seems to be no telling where the conversation might lead. Throw the topic out there as a question "have you ever wanted to?". You might not get the response you are looking for right away, but something tells me the phone might ring on an evening when it isn't "girl's night out".
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lol..
<---- Oregon
and Twylo's kinda right.. I have a good friend who, when we are out partying at bars and we want to keep the scuddy guys off, we pretend we're 'together'.. she sits on my lap, hold hands, sit close, etc.. She's straight and doesn't know I'm curious, but I DO notice other like-minded girls watching me more... lol, it's a trip.
lol..
<---- Oregon
and Twylo's kinda right.. I have a good friend who, when we are out partying at bars and we want to keep the scuddy guys off, we pretend we're 'together'.. she sits on my lap, hold hands, sit close, etc.. She's straight and doesn't know I'm curious, but I DO notice other like-minded girls watching me more... lol, it's a trip.
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too bad
Lickie....You and Twylo are both right. But I have one problem. I just moved into this town and I know absolutely no one. I have friends who live an hour away and they come up here every other weekend. We all have been friends for years and they have no idea of me being bi-curious. I guess what I am basically looking for is someone who wants to "experiment" and have no emotional ties, but on the other hand, be a friend, too. I have played the "girlfriend" act and it turned me on. However, my girlfriend has made it clear that she was not interested in women. Darn.....
Lickie....You and Twylo are both right. But I have one problem. I just moved into this town and I know absolutely no one. I have friends who live an hour away and they come up here every other weekend. We all have been friends for years and they have no idea of me being bi-curious. I guess what I am basically looking for is someone who wants to "experiment" and have no emotional ties, but on the other hand, be a friend, too. I have played the "girlfriend" act and it turned me on. However, my girlfriend has made it clear that she was not interested in women. Darn.....
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Start with a close friend...
Man what a question... heheh.
Well alot of girls will tell you alot of things about this subject. Everyone has their own way of doing things, and in some cases, it just happens.
For me, my desire to do it was just too damn much. =) So I started tickling my best friend alot when she slept over... or 'practiced' kissing with her... talked about masturbation, masturbated together, then I masturbated FOR her.... etc. etc... you can do the rest of the math.
Truth is there's no real WAY to get with another girl. Follow your instincts, be sensitive to the other girl's feelings or limits, and just do what you can. You'll probably be surprised at the results. =)
showybabee said:
Man what a question... heheh.
Well alot of girls will tell you alot of things about this subject. Everyone has their own way of doing things, and in some cases, it just happens.
For me, my desire to do it was just too damn much. =) So I started tickling my best friend alot when she slept over... or 'practiced' kissing with her... talked about masturbation, masturbated together, then I masturbated FOR her.... etc. etc... you can do the rest of the math.
Truth is there's no real WAY to get with another girl. Follow your instincts, be sensitive to the other girl's feelings or limits, and just do what you can. You'll probably be surprised at the results. =)
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Well...if you must know...
Don't know how well this will go over in the US, but here in Europe there are lots of genuinely "bi" escorts who indulge the desires of women who are just curious or who want a little extra spice once in a while with their male partner. The male partners don't seem to mind either.
Sex is a consensual game played by adults and inviting another woman to play and then paying her is just another game. It has the advantage of not endangering personal friendships and not requiring any emotional attachments.
You shouldn't have any trouble finding a suitable partner in California. Just search on the web for escorts in your area. Just a hint...these are not prostitutes who troll the curb and they are not "cheap". Expect to pay anywhere from $500 to $2,000 for a few hours to a full night. These women are professionals. Many are educated and/or working models.
It goes without saying that safe sex is the order of the day. These women don't take chances and are probably safer than somebody you meet or know on chance. At least you know, without a doubt, that they are promiscuous.
Just a possibility to consider...
Don't know how well this will go over in the US, but here in Europe there are lots of genuinely "bi" escorts who indulge the desires of women who are just curious or who want a little extra spice once in a while with their male partner. The male partners don't seem to mind either.
Sex is a consensual game played by adults and inviting another woman to play and then paying her is just another game. It has the advantage of not endangering personal friendships and not requiring any emotional attachments.
You shouldn't have any trouble finding a suitable partner in California. Just search on the web for escorts in your area. Just a hint...these are not prostitutes who troll the curb and they are not "cheap". Expect to pay anywhere from $500 to $2,000 for a few hours to a full night. These women are professionals. Many are educated and/or working models.
It goes without saying that safe sex is the order of the day. These women don't take chances and are probably safer than somebody you meet or know on chance. At least you know, without a doubt, that they are promiscuous.
Just a possibility to consider...
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Thanks for all the advice. Desire, there are plenty of escort services out here. I guess I don't have the courage to actually call one. (and put some $$$ into it) However, I can't expect to explore if I don't do anything about it, right?
Thanks for all the advice. Desire, there are plenty of escort services out here. I guess I don't have the courage to actually call one. (and put some $$$ into it) However, I can't expect to explore if I don't do anything about it, right?
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It's all...
...part of the thrill. After all, you're a grown-up and don't really need permission anymore!
...part of the thrill. After all, you're a grown-up and don't really need permission anymore!
Seeing as you are in Cali
you may also want to try the personals in the more progressive newspapers. In NYC we have the Village Voice and the Free Press, and there are a plethera of ads for bi-curious experimentation, as well as ads for friendships. Usually you can call and listen to messages the ad placers record, and pick and choose to your liking.
you may also want to try the personals in the more progressive newspapers. In NYC we have the Village Voice and the Free Press, and there are a plethera of ads for bi-curious experimentation, as well as ads for friendships. Usually you can call and listen to messages the ad placers record, and pick and choose to your liking.
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Feel exactly as you
I'am 32, in my peak, and I am so ready to get down with another woman's juices in my mouth. I'am in Winnipeg right now, and Toronto later. I'am so ready for this to happen.
I'am 32, in my peak, and I am so ready to get down with another woman's juices in my mouth. I'am in Winnipeg right now, and Toronto later. I'am so ready for this to happen.
Do you have any "guy" friends that you can trust? If so, you might tell them about your curiosity and they may know a girl that has the same curiosity as you. In my situation, I had a "guy" friend that was married. He and I could talk about anything and everything. I told him that I was bi'curious and asked if his wife was. He said "yes" and that put everything in motion. We started going out (the 4 of us) and with a little coaxing and a few drinks, we were able to relax enough to do it. The guys watched, which was a requirement on my "guy" friends part. My husband didn't mind either way. To make a long story short, she and I can't do anything (even go shopping) without her husband (my friend) thinking we are having sex. He's insecure and thinks she might like being with me more than him!!!!!!!!! So.....I'm looking for someone else, and it's not easy!!!!!
