Finding a plug to wear under clothes

[touche]

Help...I am trying to find an anal plug that can be discreetly worn under clothing during the day. I want to 'train' my ass to accept my husband with less foreplay. Any suggestions?

I'd like to thank anyone for their suggestions in advance!

 

[SweetErika]

There's a stainless steel one with a jewel on the end I'm thinking people have recommended, but I can't recall the name.

I know this has been discussed at length in BDSM Talk. Some of the threads might be here (and you can do your own searching through that link; just keep the site:forum.literotica.com part the same), but if you don't find suggestions via that route, maybe the BDSM Library sticky and/or Talk regulars can direct you to the proper threads.

You DO want metal or silicone for durability, cleanliness and avoiding nasty chemicals. You'll also want to remove the plug periodically throughout the day so you don't get a massive buildup of gas.

 

[touche]

Thank you Sweet Erika! I know EXACTLY which plug you are referring too!

Since I will probably need to use the 'facilities' your suggestion to remove it a few times a day is very vaild and for good reasons. Thanks so much hun!

 

[SweetErika]

Thank you Sweet Erika! I know EXACTLY which plug you are referring too!

Since I will probably need to use the 'facilities' your suggestion to remove it a few times a day is very vaild and for good reasons. Thanks so much hun!

Good deal. I think I recall people saying it was heavy, so you may need to wear snug panties with it and want to start a thread asking about that specific plug and alternatives in the BDSM Talk forum if you don't get what you're looking for here or are in somewhat of a hurry. Y

ou'll definitely want to work up to wearing it for longer periods and try it around the house before you go out in public. When you do go out, pack a ziploc bag so you can pack it away safely should you have any problems. Likewise, bring lube with you for easy reinsertion and comfort.

What I DO know from experience is you want something that's designed to be very comfy against your anus with lots of movement. For instance, the plugs we have have a rectangular part that goes outside the body with some sharper edges, so they're not good for walking around, sitting a lot, etc. When we get one for longer wear, it'll probably be silicone or stainless and the external part will have a slimmer oval/elongated shape for comfort. Silicone is generally more comfy than hard materials because it conforms to your shape, so we may go with that vs. stainless steel.

Make sure any silicone toy you get is 100% silicone (labeling laws are sketchy, so a toy that's only 10% silicone can be called "silicone" and they don't have to tell you what the other 90% is made of).

Go for a little more girth over length, too, since your colon isn't very long and moving around with a longer plug can be uncomfortable, according to my husband.

 

[touche]

Wow, I just went and checked on the gem one... um it's a bit out of my price range...however the company I was checking had a silicone version that was much more reasonable. Thank you for all your great tips I am very excited about ordering something this next week!

 

[diamondjim]

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Wow, I just went and checked on the gem one... um it's a bit out of my price range...however the company I was checking had a silicone version that was much more reasonable. Thank you for all your great tips I am very excited about ordering something this next week!

In my story Take Me, Take Me , Now there is something you might try.

 

[Jada59]

There's a stainless steel one with a jewel on the end I'm thinking people have recommended, but I can't recall the name.

I know this has been discussed at length in BDSM Talk. Some of the threads might be here (and you can do your own searching through that link; just keep the site:forum.literotica.com part the same), but if you don't find suggestions via that route, maybe the BDSM Library sticky and/or Talk regulars can direct you to the proper threads.

You DO want metal or silicone for durability, cleanliness and avoiding nasty chemicals. You'll also want to remove the plug periodically throughout the day so you don't get a massive buildup of gas.

They sell them on Amazon. I have the small and large. Need to get the medium. I can NOY recommend the silicone one with the jewel. It's too soft and I couldn't get it in. Thank goodness because when some people got it in, the jewel popped out and the plug shot up too far, leading to a trip to the hospital.

 

[Jada59]

Wow, I just went and checked on the gem one... um it's a bit out of my price range...however the company I was checking had a silicone version that was much more reasonable. Thank you for all your great tips I am very excited about ordering something this next week!

Do *not* get the silicone one. It's bad news.

Okay, I take back what I said about the medium! I do have that and the small. Get these! Or you can get a set of three sizes.

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00KTZOJ8A/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B01HOCAXDK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Yes, they're cheap but I've had them for a couple of years and I love them@

 

[Kate_part2]

Do *not* get the silicone one. It's bad news.

Okay, I take back what I said about the medium! I do have that and the small. Get these! Or you can get a set of three sizes.

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00KTZOJ8A/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B01HOCAXDK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Yes, they're cheap but I've had them for a couple of years and I love them@

I like the one with the pink stone!

 

[bobb_sledd]

Do *not* get the silicone one. It's bad news.

Okay, I take back what I said about the medium! I do have that and the small. Get these! Or you can get a set of three sizes.

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00KTZOJ8A/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B01HOCAXDK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Yes, they're cheap but I've had them for a couple of years and I love them@

You're not going to model them for us? Bummer!

 

[whatisit84]

Slim between the cheeks

Here is a very slim base that is good for under clothing because it hides between the cheeks better.

https://loveplugs.co/collections/bu...-silicone-anal-beads-plug-with-an-anchor-base

 

[diamondjim]

Here is a very slim base that is good for under clothing because it hides between the cheeks better.

https://loveplugs.co/collections/bu...-silicone-anal-beads-plug-with-an-anchor-base

Tried this one and it made the grade. Nothing showed because the butt cheeks hid the handle. https://loveplugs.co/collections/bu...-silicone-anal-beads-plug-with-an-anchor-base Be sure not to use silicon based lubes, almost had a misstep on that,

 

[Jada59]

You're not going to model them for us? Bummer!

Sorry.

 

[SimonDoom]

OK, I'm curious: what makes a particular plug "discreet" or "appropriate" for wearing during the day? As someone who has been on the giving but not receiving end of plugs, I'm curious. Most of the plugs I've seen and dealt with would not be visible under clothing. I'm interested in whatever specific input anyone is willing to provide on this. Is it a matter of how securely it remains in place and how dependable it is?

Curious, too: over time, does it get tiring? Or does one adapt and get used to it and not notice it after a while? Does it matter how big it is?

 

[Scareltt]

Women’s clothing...

OK, I'm curious: what makes a particular plug "discreet" or "appropriate" for wearing during the day? As someone who has been on the giving but not receiving end of plugs, I'm curious. Most of the plugs I've seen and dealt with would not be visible under clothing. I'm interested in whatever specific input anyone is willing to provide on this. Is it a matter of how securely it remains in place and how dependable it is?

Curious, too: over time, does it get tiring? Or does one adapt and get used to it and not notice it after a while? Does it matter how big it is?

First let me say, I’ve never kept a plug in longer than maybe two hours.

The round jewel base or the ring base are much more discreet. I could see a tee-base being noticed.

Dudes do check our women’s butts...

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Curious, too: over time, does it get tiring? Or does one adapt and get used to it and not notice it after a while? Does it matter how big it is?

It’s been quite a while since I was required (consensually, of course) to wear plugs during the day for extended wear. I could wear the small and medium Doc Johnson’s with no issues. But when I wore the large one? While I definitely would get used to it being there, there were quite a few times when I needed to take it out for bio break and then clean it and reinsert it and the reinsert was agonizing, there was a definite ache from the full day wear.

 

[Aphroditiac]

OK, I'm curious: what makes a particular plug "discreet" or "appropriate" for wearing during the day? As someone who has been on the giving but not receiving end of plugs, I'm curious. Most of the plugs I've seen and dealt with would not be visible under clothing. I'm interested in whatever specific input anyone is willing to provide on this. Is it a matter of how securely it remains in place and how dependable it is?

Curious, too: over time, does it get tiring? Or does one adapt and get used to it and not notice it after a while? Does it matter how big it is?

Something that you can sit in and it won't hurt or dig into flesh of your cheeks. I don't like princess plugs for outside wear, because most have sharp edges around the jewel part that hurt and dig into your skin after a short while. Silicone with a curved base, or glass that has a smooth, rounded base, are more comfortable safe. The only downside to glass is, don't sit down fast on a wooden chair, because you make an audible "clonk".

 

[Scareltt]

That click!

Something that you can sit in and it won't hurt or dig into flesh of your cheeks. I don't like princess plugs for outside wear, because most have sharp edges around the jewel part that hurt and dig into your skin after a short while. Silicone with a curved base, or glass that has a smooth, rounded base, are more comfortable safe. The only downside to glass is, don't sit down fast on a wooden chair, because you make an audible "clonk".

That sound.. imagining someone plugged at a small gathering. Everyone hearing an odd click every time the wearer sat down. Maybe a few friends in on the joke... what a fun idea!

 

[Lily Peg]

Help...I am trying to find an anal plug that can be discreetly worn under clothing during the day. I want to 'train' my ass to accept my husband with less foreplay. Any suggestions?

I'd like to thank anyone for their suggestions in advance!

you want one that doesn't keep popping out so need to wear a tight thong to keep the bp in and requires some ass cheek practice! Lots to choose from so it's about trying out a few I guess that suits your body. Good luck!

 

[Aphroditiac]

you want one that doesn't keep popping out so need to wear a tight thong to keep the bp in and requires some ass cheek practice! Lots to choose from so it's about trying out a few I guess that suits your body. Good luck!

Can't say I have ever had trouble with them randomly popping out unassisted. In or out seems to require some force.

 

[beckiefalwell]

Why be discreet?

Help...I am trying to find an anal plug that can be discreetly worn under clothing during the day. I want to 'train' my ass to accept my husband with less foreplay. Any suggestions?

I'd like to thank anyone for their suggestions in advance!

Knowing a little outline of something showing would keep you on your toes, so to speak. Oui?

 

[SissySalina]

For starters you could try this type
https://www.extremerestraints.com/plum-drop-starter-anal-plug.html

The shape of the end hides well and the narrowness at the end holds in very well. This one is sized for starters but you can explore a lot more with other sizes as long as the end is the same shape.

 

[t_platz4]

N-Joy

I would recommend the NJoy stainless steel plugs. I have 2 sizes and the medium one seems to stay in even if I go for a run. The extra large... just wow. They are designed not to be noticeable since the handle is vertical and fits between your cheeks perfectly.

 

[beckiefalwell]

That sound.. imagining someone plugged at a small gathering. Everyone hearing an odd click every time the wearer sat down. Maybe a few friends in on the joke... what a fun idea!

I agree. Being discovered by others or the chance of being discovered is always a thrill.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I agree. Being discovered by others or the chance of being discovered is always a thrill.

You women are naughty! I love it!!!