finding a girl for my girlfriend

[dark_darkling]

Looking for some help, we have been looking around for ages on loads on sites to try and find a girl to join myself and my girlfriend for a threesome. Unfortunately we are not having much luck due to the sites being so damn extortionate for a membership, however without this you can't even view messages that have been sent to you.... so basically I asking is there any ladys on here in the south west uk (Dorset) area that would possibly consider joining us. Below is a little about us and a little about what we are looking for
We are a fun loving and very adventurous couple, and are looking for a lady to join us for a threesome, my girlfriend has had girl on girl experiences before and now we want to be able share these experiences. Nothing majorly weird or wonderful and no pain just a straight up sexual threesome

Please if anyone is interested comment and I shall message you directly
Thanks B.

 

[SweetErika]

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Your girlfriend should do all of the posting and communicating. If/when you meet a lady that appears to be a good prospect, you can all get together via phone/skype, then for coffee or a drink to see if everyone has chemistry. For most women, "I'm looking for a girl for my girl" is a huge red flag. After all, if said girlfriend/wife is that interested, why isn't she looking and communicating with women herself?

Also, I'd suggest avoiding conflicting messages. The title of this thread, for instance, implies your girlfriend is looking for a girl. However, then you go on to say you want a threesome, and really, that could mean multiple things. Are you planning on playing or having sex with the other woman? Are you open to sticking to your partner? Are you open to just being there/enjoying watching? If you're open to NOT touching the other woman, you should say so, because sex with a guy is a dealbreaker for a lot of women. Maybe you could be open to just watching and playing with your partner yourself; you can always renegotiate future dates if everyone's amenable.

Finally, have you considered you might be posting ads the wrong places and not utilizing all of the resources you have at your disposal correctly? Women who are willing to join couples are notoriously difficult to find, and you're probably unlikely to find them on sites like AFF. You might, however, have much better luck if you evaluate what you're putting out there (e.g. how appealing are your ads?) and you are willing to be flexible. For instance, are you willing to travel quite some distance to meet someone? Are you willing to start looking at couples vs. single females? You'll have a greater chance if you look at the (quasi) swinging community as a possibility. That doesn't mean you have to swap with another couple, just that you might be open to having another guy there watching, playing with his own partner, trading threesomes, etc. You could probably find someone pretty quickly if you're willing to figure something out with another couple who's seeking a similar arrangement. Add some needles to your haystack to increase your chances, if possible.

That said, you should never proposition women who make it clear they're only interested in meeting other women. That's a waste of their time, and yours. Stick to women and couples who indicate they're open to at least having another guy there.