find that lost 'flame' here

Big Bair

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WE all have the one that got away or we were so shy that we couldn't make it happen. Well if we are here then we are past that, I hope.

So let's ask and see if that special someone from the past is here.

For me is was a girl from Elizabeth North, SA about 1975. If you are here I would love to hear from you.

mraxis@hotmail.com
 
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wasn't really my first love, but my very best male friend in high school, meade county if he is here. would love to talk with you again.
heather
 
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I have absolutly no one I can think of Id like to contact from my past.

am i weird? or unloveable? lol
 
"Bubbles|"

AKA (B.L.B.)
Last seen in Fort Lauderdale.
 
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I had a mad crush on a guy i use to go to school with can't tell ya how many laughs we had it was the greatest:D
 
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I know she's not here, but... if T.C., who I met in Arizona, comes from Colorado, and lives in California is here... I still care.
 
Hmmm... interresting thread.

Suppose I will join in.

I wish I could contact (name removed) of Kingston/Hull UK.

If ur out there... I still think about you on rainy days.

~WOK
 
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(I've posted about this before on another forum)

I found my lost love, from whom I'd been separated (at age 16)by two sets of imposing parents when they decided we were "too serious." My dad moved us across the country in part to move me away from this boy. Fast forward 28 yrs and 2 failed marriages later. After always wondering what happened, I finally found him through the internet. When we started corresponding, we found, among other things:

we'd married on the same day, one year apart

we both had 4 children

both named our daughter the same name

both been estranged from the 2nd child at the same time for a period of 3 yrs -- and reconcilled with that child the same week

we'd dreamed about the other person when that person was under a severe stress in their life; i.e., in trouble

and the one that convinced him we'd had a "parallel existence" -- I only liked to play one video game -- for years and years -- and it was his favorite (must be a guy thing -- I didn't think that was that big a deal).

Yes, we discovered that all the feelings were still there. We both truly admired what the other had done with their life and found we were more compatible as adults than we'd been as teenagers. Yes, we had an affair. It was the best time of my life. I'll never forget the first time we made love; as he entered me I said, "Welcome home," and it was. It was absolutely the best it could ever be. It was also the most devestating time of my life as we realized that our lives would not work out together. In the end, all ties were severed and I tried to find a way back to the living.

I was truly grateful for the validation of my earlier feelings -- that we would have been terrific together, and our parents were wrong. I was grateful for the knowledge that I was capable of being cherished by a very good man; and that gave me the strength to finally disengage from a disasterous and abusive marriage. If I had to do it over, I don't think I would change any of it.

All I can say is that while I urge you to live from your heart, be careful what you wish for, as the answer may not be the one you seek.
 
I was in my Senior yr at NorthEast High School, North East, Md (1968) and met this super guy (he had already graduated)... I would very very much like to hear from him again- he was really special!
 
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well i went to classmates.com and found my best friend but in order for me to email him or read everthing he has posted i have to pay and i just don't have that kind of money and if it isn't going to be worth it. so has anyone else done that and does it really work, you know able to contact them. wish there was someone out there i could use their account one time, any takers. well if i find anything out or get the money to do it i will keep everone up to date.
 
oh the memories

(name removed) from New Mexico, the first woman I was ever with intimately. Last seen (by me) in Charlottesville, VA. She unleased a tiger in me. ;)
 
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(name removed) from a taxi ride in California. The one that got away.
 
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Hi all, cute thread, great idea.

I have some concerns about privacy, so I'm going to do a little bit of editing and ask that you don't put any names, first or last from now on.

Just put enough identifying information so that they would know you were talking about them, but no one else would!

Thanks everyone, I know you understand.

Have fun and follow up if you reconnect with anyone!
 
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