find someone for a threesome?

[LuvlyMaiden]

Sorry this is my first post and thread lol but me and my boyfriend are both interested in having a threesome with another girl. The problem is finding someone to have a threesome with and how to bring it up to said person. Any help or advice is greatly appreciated

-Maiden-

 

[Blue_Duck]

My girlfriend and I had a mutual friend that helped us make a threesome. We all three were very close. He was my best friend and I broached the subject with him. Granted, I think it is easier to find a guy wanting to participate in a threesome...but it seemed easier for me to approach him with the idea since he was my friend. He had been in the same room with me and my girl while I made out with her...so he had seen some somewhat intimate moments between us...that certainly made it a little easier setting things up. I would have no idea how to broach the subject with a stranger.

 

[roomfor1more]

The threesomes we have had were mfm threesomes and it is easier to find guys for this. My understanding is unless you know a single female that is interested in having a threesome with you then you may have a long-time finding them due to the fact they can be quite rare, hence the nickname for single females interested in threesomes being unicorn. If you are looking for a single female then you may want to consider finding a m-f couple where the male, of that couple, wants a voyeur role or a m-f couple that is interested in allowing the f to participate in a threesome with you. Should you opt for the latter option then be prepared that the couple may expect you to reciprocate with your wife joining them for a threesome. Other options such as escorts / prostitutes are expensive, illegal in most jurisdictions including Las Vegas, the risk to personal safety, and the risk that have some type of STD/ STI do not warrant the risk. Another option that does not warrant the risk is inviting a co-worker and in this tough economic time it does not warrant the risk to your career.

 

[Ex Princess]

Sorry this is my first post and thread lol but me and my boyfriend are both interested in having a threesome with another girl. The problem is finding someone to have a threesome with and how to bring it up to said person. Any help or advice is greatly appreciated

-Maiden-

I had an FFM threesome once. I remember it was with my friend and her boyfriend. It had always been a fantasy of mine to be with another woman and recently my friend and I had discussed it. We probably had this discussion several times over a two week period about being with women and how the idea turned us both on. I think because we were both so teased over the idea it made it easy for her to ask me one night after we had a couple of drinks in us.

I would say, pick a girl you are attracted to and friendly with. Have sexy conversations around the topic of being with a girl and see how receptive she is. Let her do most of the talking and warm up to the idea. It worked for me.

 

[axbycz]

good way may be

i think that best way may be once you trace a girl whom you want to have 3s...then oyou can ask her to be in the room watching you guys having sex...once she is comfortable after 1 or 2 times..then u can ask her slowly to join...

 

[~Haze~]

The threesomes we have had were mfm threesomes and it is easier to find guys for this. My understanding is unless you know a single female that is interested in having a threesome with you then you may have a long-time finding them due to the fact they can be quite rare, hence the nickname for single females interested in threesomes being unicorn. If you are looking for a single female then you may want to consider finding a m-f couple where the male, of that couple, wants a voyeur role or a m-f couple that is interested in allowing the f to participate in a threesome with you. Should you opt for the latter option then be prepared that the couple may expect you to reciprocate with your wife joining them for a threesome. Other options such as escorts / prostitutes are expensive, illegal in most jurisdictions including Las Vegas, the risk to personal safety, and the risk that have some type of STD/ STI do not warrant the risk. Another option that does not warrant the risk is inviting a co-worker and in this tough economic time it does not warrant the risk to your career.

You're making things way too complicated. In fact, most of the advice offered in this thread is making things way too complicated. It's really not that hard. Keep it simple...alwAys be honest and open with anyone you meet. Start off with a lie or acting deceitful will only make things more difficult ad you get to know each other.

Just start small and link it through. The first issue is what kind of woman are you and your partner attracted to. Once you've figured that out.... where are you most likely to meet a woman you are both attracted to?

From there, just be casual, keep your eye out for a woman you find attractive and approach the way you would of you were single. Approach (approach together).... chat....flirt.... see if there is a connection. Again, just act as if you're (you or your partner) flirting and trying to pick someone up by yourself. Don't over think it.

Once you think there is a connection - you're both attracted/comfortable with who you're talking to, you can start to mention what you're hoping for. Just relax when you do. Be flirty, casual, fun... don't lay it on too thick and don't apply any pressure.

You should have decent luck. If it doesn't work the first time, don't get discouraged. Keep at it.
Good luck.