slowpoking
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Actually, it's really a question of where. I could leave it at that, but I'm having an absolute blast with this situation and feel like sharing.
Our sex life has revived/taken off the past couple months, and one of the fun things we're doing is playing with toys. She's had a few over the years and never showed too much interest. Well, after she started getting frisky again she said one night that she'd like to have a toy that's a little bigger than me. That was almost enough to make me blow my wad right there.
The next day I got out the tape measure, took some measurements and headed off to the local porn shop, which has a few aisles of toys. To my disappointment, they didn't have much that met her criteria -- and I consider myself pretty normal sized. But I did find a black vibrator with 7 1/2 inches of insertable length and diameter of 1 3/4 inches.
It was one of the best purchases I ever made, in both of our opinions. We're using it a lot and in all kinds of ways -- as foreplay before we screw, to get her off after we screw (pretty hot boning her with the toy after I came in her), a few times as the sole event on nights that we focus just on her. She uses it on herself, I use it on her, both inside and out. It's got a soft skin (silicone) that she really likes, and she says it gives her a little stretch that feels great. She's having great orgasms (nothing new there), which I adore witnessing.
She's able to accommodate more than in the past. I don't know if that's because of the vibrator or just coincidental, but it's also a benefit. In the past I had to be careful not to hurt her by thrusting too hard, but now, when we're in the mood, I can hammer away without restraint.
And it keeps getting better. The other night she said she'd like to try something thicker. Which brings me back to my question. Does anyone know where to find large vibrators? I've been shopping online and am surprised at how few there are bigger than the one we're using. A lot of sites advertise large ones that are actually smaller than the one we have. I know women come in all different sizes and have different preferences, but I would have thought there were plenty of women who enjoy bigger than her current buddy.
Also, if there are ladies out there who have similar preferences and experiences, can you offer any advice about how much of an increase in size? I saw a couple products that are 2 inches. Should we consider 2 1/4? I'm sure she'll want soft skin again, and she says she'd prefer not to have the one's with balls included. (I guess those are to sit on?)
Thanks for any suggestions.
Slow
Our sex life has revived/taken off the past couple months, and one of the fun things we're doing is playing with toys. She's had a few over the years and never showed too much interest. Well, after she started getting frisky again she said one night that she'd like to have a toy that's a little bigger than me. That was almost enough to make me blow my wad right there.
The next day I got out the tape measure, took some measurements and headed off to the local porn shop, which has a few aisles of toys. To my disappointment, they didn't have much that met her criteria -- and I consider myself pretty normal sized. But I did find a black vibrator with 7 1/2 inches of insertable length and diameter of 1 3/4 inches.
It was one of the best purchases I ever made, in both of our opinions. We're using it a lot and in all kinds of ways -- as foreplay before we screw, to get her off after we screw (pretty hot boning her with the toy after I came in her), a few times as the sole event on nights that we focus just on her. She uses it on herself, I use it on her, both inside and out. It's got a soft skin (silicone) that she really likes, and she says it gives her a little stretch that feels great. She's having great orgasms (nothing new there), which I adore witnessing.
She's able to accommodate more than in the past. I don't know if that's because of the vibrator or just coincidental, but it's also a benefit. In the past I had to be careful not to hurt her by thrusting too hard, but now, when we're in the mood, I can hammer away without restraint.
And it keeps getting better. The other night she said she'd like to try something thicker. Which brings me back to my question. Does anyone know where to find large vibrators? I've been shopping online and am surprised at how few there are bigger than the one we're using. A lot of sites advertise large ones that are actually smaller than the one we have. I know women come in all different sizes and have different preferences, but I would have thought there were plenty of women who enjoy bigger than her current buddy.
Also, if there are ladies out there who have similar preferences and experiences, can you offer any advice about how much of an increase in size? I saw a couple products that are 2 inches. Should we consider 2 1/4? I'm sure she'll want soft skin again, and she says she'd prefer not to have the one's with balls included. (I guess those are to sit on?)
Thanks for any suggestions.
Slow
It's on the large side of the scale for real penises and can be quite uncomfortable for some women. Average peinses are 1.25-1.6 diameter. If you want a vibrator thicker than that, you should probably be looking at something like the vibrating Kong, the Realistic dildo. 
