Ffm

[dumbeg4]

I was told this week, in no uncertain terms, that FFM was strictly a male fantasy. Discuss.

 

[djyak]

I've been in a few FFM and really enjoyed them. A woman's touch is so different, but add a guys touch into it and it turns into a very exciting night. It's not something I do a lot, but have for special occasions like hubbys birthday. My fav is nipples against one another

 

[SissySalina]

are you sure it is a male thing
She is in charge of the activities and sissy has been involved in several FFM which meant that She was the one to want it. That is if sissy is considered the M part of FFM.

 

[BouncieCurls]

I was told this week, in no uncertain terms, that FFM was strictly a male fantasy. Discuss.

As a female I fantasize about this all the time

 

[screwher]

I was told this week, in no uncertain terms, that FFM was strictly a male fantasy. Discuss.

I don't think so. It's not written in stone but I'm sure the majority of the time when a woman fantasizes about a threesome it with another woman and a man.

 

[dumbeg4]

I would have thought that MMF would be a woman's preference. What I needed assurance for was that some/a lot would have chosen FFM and that this was not a male fantasy only.

 

[HesterP]

For a bi woman, the FMF would be ideal. If you are not bi then I suppose the MFM 3some would be best.

 

[bibethhotwet]

I can tell you that is not true. As a bisexual female I have long loved the experience of being with another woman. The first threesome my husband and I had with a girlfriend of mine was initiated by me after discussing it with her privately. Not all but yes, women do enjoy this aspect.

 

[MarriedMan100]

I was told this week, in no uncertain terms, that FFM was strictly a male fantasy. Discuss.

My wife would add her voice to the others that beg to differ; adding an additional woman to our sex was actually her idea, not mine. Made for a nice anniversary present. Even when a third partner is not available, she'll sometimes fantasize about another woman being with us when we're having sex, perhaps fucking her with a strap-on while she's giving me head.

 

[MarriedMan100]

I was told this week, in no uncertain terms, that FFM was strictly a male fantasy. Discuss.

Forgot to ask: I'm curious about the "being told in no uncertain terms" part. Who was the authority that was making this statement, and what were the circumstances of the conversation? Would you care to elaborate a bit?

 

[SaraBaras]

I've been told by bi women that sex with a woman is in many ways better than sex with a man - after all, we have the same anatomy and likely have a better idea of how to best make it tick. I have a few FFM fantasies for that reason, so I wouldn't say it's strictly a male thing.

Plus I think it would be interesting to actually watch my husband have sex as opposed to being an active participant.

 

[SaraBaras]

Forgot to ask: I'm curious about the "being told in no uncertain terms" part. Who was the authority that was making this statement, and what were the circumstances of the conversation? Would you care to elaborate a bit?

Also interested in hearing the credentials of that person.

 

[auroraborealice]

I've been involved in a number of FFM encounters, and every time, we girls have gotten so engrossed in each other, we've left the guy behind. I think that's circumstantial, though. All the girls I did this with were really more into fooling around just with me, but I was in a hetero relationship, so we included my partner as a courtesy. But he got it that we really wanted to be alone and would help us out for a while and then let us be. He usually didn't get jealous.

But, I've also fantasized for years about a FFM situation where the other woman was all about my man's cock, and we could work together to really blow his mind. I just haven't met the right combination of people at the right time for that to occur yet. But, I think a lot about joining up with another woman to drag our tongues slowly all the way up and down his cock, one of us on each side, sometimes pausing to kiss each other at the top of his cock.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

But, I've also fantasized for years about a FFM situation where the other woman was all about my man's cock, and we could work together to really blow his mind. I just haven't met the right combination of people at the right time for that to occur yet. But, I think a lot about joining up with another woman to drag our tongues slowly all the way up and down his cock, one of us on each side, sometimes pausing to kiss each other at the top of his cock.

I don't think you'll have any trouble finding the "M" part to "help out" with the scene you've described ...

 

[megacockladonsslut]

Not a male only fantasy at all. I have one that includes having another woman suck on his cock as I grab the back of her head and slam it down to his balls and holding her down till she almost passes out and repeating this till he cums. That is one among many that run around in my head

 

[auroraborealice]

Not a male only fantasy at all. I have one that includes having another woman suck on his cock as I grab the back of her head and slam it down to his balls and holding her down till she almost passes out and repeating this till he cums. That is one among many that run around in my head

Wow, that sounds like fun!

 

[auroraborealice]

I would have thought that MMF would be a woman's preference. What I needed assurance for was that some/a lot would have chosen FFM and that this was not a male fantasy only.

I'd be equally game for MMF or FFM, but they are two very different experiences! Still, I will admit that most of the FFM situations I think about in a realistic sense are really situations where I'm into a girl who has a boyfriend or husband, so the threesome aspect is a way to get around that complication--gotta at least let the guy watch, and if he's willing to contribute to the effort in a constructive way, he's welcome! It's nice to be sexually adaptable.

 

[dumbeg4]

Forgot to ask: I'm curious about the "being told in no uncertain terms" part. Who was the authority that was making this statement, and what were the circumstances of the conversation? Would you care to elaborate a bit?

It was during an rp with a woman. I had offered a plot twist by introducing another female player and got slapped down immediately with the statement that ffm was strictly a male fantasy. I had never considered this before and needed your help.

 

[SaraBaras]

It was during an rp with a woman. I had offered a plot twist by introducing another female player and got slapped down immediately with the staement that ffm was strictly a male fantasy. I had never considered this before and needed your help.

Hold up.

Are you male? Then wtf? That WOULD be your fantasy....

Sounds like someone's just not comfortable with the thought of another woman (and that's fine, we all have our preferences) but if you're male and you're a part of the role play - sorry, I'm just scratching my head here....

 

[dumbeg4]

Also interested in hearing the credentials of that person.

I don't want to bad mouth someone behind their back but the other player was easily offended, touchy and after a week she had got as far as poking me in the arm. I tried to write effusively, with style and some care for her wishes but would get a one sentence reply, usually on the lines of "give me time". I ran out of patience eventually.

 

[dumbeg4]

Hold up.

Are you male? Then wtf? That WOULD be your fantasy....

Sounds like someone's just not comfortable with the thought of another woman (and that's fine, we all have our preferences) but if you're male and you're a part of the role play - sorry, I'm just scratching my head here....

I was actually trying to give her more satisfaction. A read of her posts told me that she was bi.

 

[auroraborealice]

I don't want to bad mouth someone behind their back but the other player was easily offended, touchy and after a week she had got as far as poking me in the arm. I tried to write effusively, with style and some care for her wishes but would get a one sentence reply, usually on the lines of "give me time". I ran out of patience eventually.

So, it probably just wasn't the right fit. That doesn't mean your fantasy isn't valid! I'm sure if you're patient and respectful, you'll find someone here who is more compatible with your desires.

 

[dumbeg4]

Hold up.

Are you male? Then wtf? That WOULD be your fantasy....

Sounds like someone's just not comfortable with the thought of another woman (and that's fine, we all have our preferences) but if you're male and you're a part of the role play - sorry, I'm just scratching my head here....

Not sure what you are saying. Is it that cos I am a male and introduced the possibility of a ffm scenario it must therefore be my/male fantasy? I also fantasise about mmf, gangbangs, orgies,fm, but that doesn't make them male fantasies..just mine.

 

[JackOffer]

We have done all the different combinations and FFM is a great experience, but as a bi guy I personally prefer MMF, or even more M's. The more cock the better.

 

[Doctor Joe]

But, I've also fantasized for years about a FFM situation where the other woman was all about my man's cock, and we could work together to really blow his mind. I just haven't met the right combination of people at the right time for that to occur yet. But, I think a lot about joining up with another woman to drag our tongues slowly all the way up and down his cock, one of us on each side, sometimes pausing to kiss each other at the top of his cock.[/QUOTE] - Auroraborealice

I have to say this is one of my hottest fantasies! Bring a friend to my office, would you?