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I look through the groups and I think most people don't put that effort into it

I agree. I don’t think many put in effort to connect and be involved and just crash peoples inboxes hoping someone will eventually bite.

I have a few groups that I really enjoy and am more active in.
 
Umm .. at times my inbox is busy but 95% of the messages aren't worth answering

I like the groups and that you can send photos through private messages

I look through the groups and I think most people don't put that effort into it
I had been putting quite a bit of effort into it but with little results, except as I said from girls advertising their OnlyFans or other sites asking for $$.

I may message you on Fet and see if you find it in the mounds of messges you receive lol!! MasterHorned God, the god of wild places and beings, and Lust.
 
Just in general, if anybody wants to stalk my fet profile it's sgmhi and has plenty of pics and writing. I'm a non-sissy acting CD switch so may or may not be of interest but it'd be fun to see who has a look 😁
 
I am happy that this is sparking conversations. Hoping it makes some friendship connections.
 
Was on it a few yrs ago and the dogs aka doms were big total jerks cause I wouldn't submit just cause they said they were doms. They called names and were mean and rude. Figured if it was in the cards for me it would happen without being abused.
 
Was on it a few yrs ago and the dogs aka doms were big total jerks cause I wouldn't submit just cause they said they were doms. They called names and were mean and rude. Figured if it was in the cards for me it would happen without being abused.

Yah I get that the are all kinds of doms and subs and some couplings like degrading talk and over forceful language but not not everyone into bdsm is into that or wants that from random people. I agree that there is a group who are all over just being jerks.

Maybe that works some of time for them but I can’t imagine it does.
 
Yah I get that the are all kinds of doms and subs and some couplings like degrading talk and over forceful language but not not everyone into bdsm is into that or wants that from random people. I agree that there is a group who are all over just being jerks.

Maybe that works some of time for them but I can’t imagine it does.
I think most like to sit back in the wing’s quietly and watch
 
I am. Don't really get it either. Did have an.. interesting evening once

I’m on still too but I don’t engage regularly with people. I mostly find the value in some of the relationship groups. And even that is inconsistent and irregular. I’m not sure why but Lit feels more fast paced and consistent. I think it might be how Lit surfaces active threads and activity so I’m able to go where the action is or take a topic and make it active by posting on it.

I feel like there is a lot of activity on Fetlife I just haven’t figured out how to find it well.
 
Fet is an awesome platform to form new connections. There is many groups and loads of information to get deeper knowledge. All depend on what you are looking for. Screening process is sometimes heavy. You'll receive few interesting messages in the loads of crap you can be approched with..
 
Fet is an awesome platform to form new connections. There is many groups and loads of information to get deeper knowledge. All depend on what you are looking for. Screening process is sometimes heavy. You'll receive few interesting messages in the loads of crap you can be approched with..
I love the interactions I have had on fet... But I have blocked a few too
 
Literotica and Fet are so different it’s like two different worlds for kinksters , fetish folks and just plain old lurkers that are curious.

A paid account makes all the difference in my opinion and experience. As a male and a swinger couple the extra content you have access to and the reality that you are supporting the site is a bonus.
 
I have a Fet account. I like chatting with a lady or two. We engage in some teasing but mostly daily chat about ourselved and lovers. I emjoy some personal moments with my Friend. Fun times involving a remote control toy! hmmm :)
 
I feel like there is a lot of activity on Fetlife I just haven’t figured out how to find it well.

There is, for everyone 🙃

Picture threads, techniques discussions, meeting threads, group by location, évent posting..

You can look by fetishes, by location. You can look for close people with aligning kinks.

Some also write journals too.

Sure there are some groups that might challenge your values. Don’t engage and your journey will be better for it 🩷

Just need to dig a little. 😈
 
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