Fetishes and Kinks Improving with age.

shrek100

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Quick question.
As you get older have your fetishes and kinks increased? Mine have and so has Mrs Shrek's. I have always had many fetishes and Kinks, but these seem to change with time.
When I first got with Mrs Shrek, she was so sweet and innocent, I have created a monster lol. we now love to push our boundaries.
 
Yeah, I have a lot more kinks today than I did when I was younger.
 
Yes significantly! We were just talking about this recently how many of the things we now enjoy regularly would have never been considered by either of us in our younger years
 
For sure. As you get older, leaving things undone is not an exciting prospect. Plus life experience opens new doors that I never would have thought about twenty years ago.
 
Me and my girls kinks have definitely become more and more naughty. We used to think doggy style was naughty....now we role play threesomes! Wtf, who'd a thunk! Lol
 
I would say they, and my ability to share them with my husband, have increased over the years. I think the same is true for him too.
 
I didn't think I had any real kinks until recently...it seems I must have, or at least have had them but supressed them for a number of years!
 
Mine definitely do. If only my wife's did too *sigh*

Mine have just got more and more kinky, my SO.. well, less and less interested... so I have a FWB to chat to and play with, and Lit saves me regularly!! Occasional lapses when travelling for work are good too...!
 
We don't think it is unusual to keep pushing the envelope. And we keep finding new ways to do that.
 
yes yes...like a find aromatic cigar...the longer is sits with other stick in your humidor, the better the become

Even Mrs K, has accepted her anal fetish isn't to be denied
 
Definitely.

Love and sex are like any other drug: you build up a tolerance over time, and need to up the ante to keep getting that screaming buzz.
 
I think you are all right.
I look forward to seeing what the future brings :) in the last 5 years our Sex lives has really improved. Maybe not so often but better sex lol
 
Quick question.
As you get older have your fetishes and kinks increased? Mine have and so has Mrs Shrek's. I have always had many fetishes and Kinks, but these seem to change with time.
When I first got with Mrs Shrek, she was so sweet and innocent, I have created a monster lol. we now love to push our boundaries.

They have most certainly increased.
I think we become more comfortable with ourselves and our partners as we get older.
I tell my wife, we would have gotten in a lot of trouble if we were of our current mind sets when we were younger.
 
Mine have. I noticed it around the time I turned 50. It started with some light BDSM with my wife (flogging, whipping with a belt---both top and bottom); then I began to become very turned on with the thought of bi-sexual threesomes (never was curious about cock when I was younger). I'm not sure why these suddenly reared their heads. Any thoughts?
 
Mine have. I noticed it around the time I turned 50. It started with some light BDSM with my wife (flogging, whipping with a belt---both top and bottom); then I began to become very turned on with the thought of bi-sexual threesomes (never was curious about cock when I was younger). I'm not sure why these suddenly reared their heads. Any thoughts?

Shit we are in trouble then, ours started recently in our late 30's!

It may have something to do with the natural aging process and curiosity about what we may have missed and what to explore "before it's too late"?...or maybe just when we were younger we were too wrapped up in just getting to and having sex that was enough and now that's gotten "usual"enough that we start looking for extra ways to make it more ? Either way we definitely are enjoying it!
 
Absolutely agree with this... at least for myself.

I was in my late 30's when I became interested in a variety of kinks that even a few years prior I would've thought was too 'weird'. Back then even anal sex with female partners was too far out there.

At this juncture I'm open to pretty much anything... light bdsm, 3sums (particularly bi-3sums), t-girls. And even if I haven't done it, I'd be more open to trying it. (i.e., pee-play, age-play).

Maybe it's a product of maturing and being comfortable with my sexuality.

Have only one regret: that I didn't start sooner.
 
Maybe it's just me, but it feels the older I get the more sex is getting better, and opening up to more possibilities
 
Wife and I are in early 40s are are experiencing the same thing. She visited a strip club with me twice this summer and received private lap dances each time with me watching. I'm lucky! I wonder what's next?
 
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