reallymeangurl6
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what are something guys fantasize about when thinking about being made to dress like a girl and being screwed like a girl? scenarios? what makes you want it?
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Shankara20
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For me dressing in fem is a choice - a preference - so, as much as I would welcome a conversation about gender play, my point of view may not be what you are looking for.reallymeangurl6 said:
Do you enjoy forcing guys to fem? If so, what about it is hot for you?
A_Kefka
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Probably the most in depth fantasy I've had about being dressed as a woman is actually a story I wrote. Heres the link to the first part. I've thought about more that happens, but haven't gotten around to writing it. Involves an old friend of hers showing up while he is dressed.
Chrissy Serves chapter 1
Chrissy Serves chapter 1
Irony_Sinclair
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As an occassional cross-dressing submissive male, I have to agree with the others and say that my feminization is more of a choice than forced. And my bisexual switch (dominant) side fully agress with Ebony that forced feminization is far too much work. But, as a mild form of play it can lead to more. I'll explain.
As a strong day-to-day Alpha male, my feminization is a deeply emotional and powerful thing for me. My awakening to this side of me occurred when Mistress ordered me to wear a pair of her panties out one time. She saw it has both humiliating and twistedly rewarding. Which it was, in both instances. But what neither of us expected was what it would awaken in me. At firstit was just the humilation and control and Mistress enjoyed it so much she had me buy my own panties. And that really cemented my desires, even though I don't think at the time I was fully aware of them.
A lot of time passed but always there was this nagging in my mind. And when she would have me wear my panties, either for a daily outing or for a scene, I began to realize the effect it had on me. And at some point I went out and bought my own real girl clothes. Beyond panties, actual clothes. What an amazing turn on!
Mistress still does not fully embrace my feminization. Perhaps embrace is not the right term. What I mean is, it is just a part of our play, not the central theme. She still very much needs me to be her man and also much of her "thrill" in female dominance is in my being totally and completely a man. And I am glad for that as I personally would not want this to be a full time part of our play. It is merely a facet of the overall power exchange we engage in
That said, to be fully dressed and then taken by her is a very powerful thing indeed. I'm a slut by nature but when I'm dressed, and even more accurately, when I'm dressed for her, I become even more a slut than usual.
There's little Mistress and I haven't engaged in but one thing is to combine my cd'ing with another male sub. She would love that. It scares me as much as it excites me. Or perhaps because it scares me it excites me.
But such genuine and honest and real and safe, et al male subs are hard to come by...
Oh and favorite thing? To get all dressed up and then she and I share a double headed dildo. Blissful.
As a strong day-to-day Alpha male, my feminization is a deeply emotional and powerful thing for me. My awakening to this side of me occurred when Mistress ordered me to wear a pair of her panties out one time. She saw it has both humiliating and twistedly rewarding. Which it was, in both instances. But what neither of us expected was what it would awaken in me. At firstit was just the humilation and control and Mistress enjoyed it so much she had me buy my own panties. And that really cemented my desires, even though I don't think at the time I was fully aware of them.
A lot of time passed but always there was this nagging in my mind. And when she would have me wear my panties, either for a daily outing or for a scene, I began to realize the effect it had on me. And at some point I went out and bought my own real girl clothes. Beyond panties, actual clothes. What an amazing turn on!
Mistress still does not fully embrace my feminization. Perhaps embrace is not the right term. What I mean is, it is just a part of our play, not the central theme. She still very much needs me to be her man and also much of her "thrill" in female dominance is in my being totally and completely a man. And I am glad for that as I personally would not want this to be a full time part of our play. It is merely a facet of the overall power exchange we engage in
That said, to be fully dressed and then taken by her is a very powerful thing indeed. I'm a slut by nature but when I'm dressed, and even more accurately, when I'm dressed for her, I become even more a slut than usual.
There's little Mistress and I haven't engaged in but one thing is to combine my cd'ing with another male sub. She would love that. It scares me as much as it excites me. Or perhaps because it scares me it excites me.
But such genuine and honest and real and safe, et al male subs are hard to come by...Oh and favorite thing? To get all dressed up and then she and I share a double headed dildo. Blissful.
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My dress up fantasies
I've been dressing up in lingerie since puberty and now I'm 47!
I love the feel of lingerie...it is very much about the tactile experience. The soft satin and lace, the firm grip of pantyhose and bra straps. Lingerie feels safe and calming, like a hug.
Anal penetration is the ultimate expression of my submission, allowing another person to penetrate me and control me in the lost intimate way. I lose myself in the experience.
My ultimate scene is to be dressed in lingerie, blinded folded, on my back in a four poster bed with my arms resrained. Pillows raise my pelvis, exposing my tiny clit stick and tender rose bud for your control.
I have no desire to be a woman or to have sex with men. I only play with women and our D/s roles may shift back and forth, although 75% of the time I am submissive. And yes, on a day to day basis I am an alpha male, a Leo no less!
Thanks for the opportunity to share.
I've been dressing up in lingerie since puberty and now I'm 47!
I love the feel of lingerie...it is very much about the tactile experience. The soft satin and lace, the firm grip of pantyhose and bra straps. Lingerie feels safe and calming, like a hug.
Anal penetration is the ultimate expression of my submission, allowing another person to penetrate me and control me in the lost intimate way. I lose myself in the experience.
My ultimate scene is to be dressed in lingerie, blinded folded, on my back in a four poster bed with my arms resrained. Pillows raise my pelvis, exposing my tiny clit stick and tender rose bud for your control.
I have no desire to be a woman or to have sex with men. I only play with women and our D/s roles may shift back and forth, although 75% of the time I am submissive. And yes, on a day to day basis I am an alpha male, a Leo no less!
Thanks for the opportunity to share.
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For me the biggest parts of the mind game are
1) getting off on someone making me do something so obviously "dirty" and outrageous 2) identifying with the sexy, slutty, and submissive feminine side of my personality - let's face it, in our culture being feminine is very closely associated with being submissive - so for me, to really feel submissive means wearing women's cloths and getting fucked like a woman.
3) the anal aspect - for me the idea of someone taking me anally somehow symbolizes both of the above thoughts plus I have always gotten super turned on by anything to do with my butt - go figure.
Scenario wise there are too many to mention, but I will relate one real life story - when I was in high school my step mother starting putting her panties in my underwear drawer - I kid you not. I never said anything to her about it and she never said anything either, but I did start wearing them and for years my fantasy life revolved around her coming into my room, telling me to pull down my pants so she could see the panties, and then tying me down and having her way with me. Nothing hotter for me than a hard ass woman in control...
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1) getting off on someone making me do something so obviously "dirty" and outrageous 2) identifying with the sexy, slutty, and submissive feminine side of my personality - let's face it, in our culture being feminine is very closely associated with being submissive - so for me, to really feel submissive means wearing women's cloths and getting fucked like a woman.
3) the anal aspect - for me the idea of someone taking me anally somehow symbolizes both of the above thoughts plus I have always gotten super turned on by anything to do with my butt - go figure.
Scenario wise there are too many to mention, but I will relate one real life story - when I was in high school my step mother starting putting her panties in my underwear drawer - I kid you not. I never said anything to her about it and she never said anything either, but I did start wearing them and for years my fantasy life revolved around her coming into my room, telling me to pull down my pants so she could see the panties, and then tying me down and having her way with me. Nothing hotter for me than a hard ass woman in control...
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Really really want it
I have a need to be dominated by my wife. I will dress up in her lingerie and fantasize about her taiking me gently and passionately. I love the feel of a teddy with a thong back it just feels so good as it rubs my backside and when I add the fishnet stockings man what a thrill. I would love for my wife to take a strap on and make love to me that is my ultimate fantasy. I got her to try it once but she said it felt bad to her. But wow did it feel good to me. I fealt like I was giving her something that I hadn't given anyone else and really sharing myself with her. It is the most submissive thing I think I can do for her. I think the need for it comes from the fact that I do most of the foreplay. She hardly ever eats me it is always the other way around. Don't get me wrong I totally love to eat pussy but it would be nice if it went both ways a little more often. One thing I found that really helps is a game I found made by penthouse called sweet surrender. I have written some of my own game cards and added them to the game. The cards I write help me tell her what I want her to do to me and they really help. Thanks for the post.
I have a need to be dominated by my wife. I will dress up in her lingerie and fantasize about her taiking me gently and passionately. I love the feel of a teddy with a thong back it just feels so good as it rubs my backside and when I add the fishnet stockings man what a thrill. I would love for my wife to take a strap on and make love to me that is my ultimate fantasy. I got her to try it once but she said it felt bad to her. But wow did it feel good to me. I fealt like I was giving her something that I hadn't given anyone else and really sharing myself with her. It is the most submissive thing I think I can do for her. I think the need for it comes from the fact that I do most of the foreplay. She hardly ever eats me it is always the other way around. Don't get me wrong I totally love to eat pussy but it would be nice if it went both ways a little more often. One thing I found that really helps is a game I found made by penthouse called sweet surrender. I have written some of my own game cards and added them to the game. The cards I write help me tell her what I want her to do to me and they really help. Thanks for the post.
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My Mistress demands that I wear panties when She fucks me, and I mean She fucks me. She would never allow me on top, and always fucks me as She slaps me, pulls my hair and calls me names.
Her feminization of me includes her general attitude towards me & the pantie thing. She never lets me be totally nude, I have to have panties on! I love the feel of stockings too!
She also has me lay down and She kicks my cock and balls through sheer silky panties!
I am also a very manly guy, but my Mistress loves to take charge of me and make me her pantyboy!
Her feminization of me includes her general attitude towards me & the pantie thing. She never lets me be totally nude, I have to have panties on! I love the feel of stockings too!
She also has me lay down and She kicks my cock and balls through sheer silky panties!
I am also a very manly guy, but my Mistress loves to take charge of me and make me her pantyboy!
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rbijon said:
Phew...You guys are seriously bringing out the switch in me. I believe I'm naturally sub but damn that's hot.
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Ditto here, rbijon, I love your Domme... nice to hear from some guys like me out there!
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rbijon said:
Do tell...how do I flip the switch?
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A lot of good thoughts here. I share most of them in some form or fashion, the comments of omniavincet and rbijon, especially. I'm another stereotypically-overachieving alpha male by day but submissive part-time cross-dresser by night (or when the opportunity arises). I've been fascinated by cross-dressing and gender play since before puberty. I would sometimes fall asleep thinking of pretty clothes and dream I was a girl.
Flash-forward about 28 years from that point, with a LOT of growing and exploring since then (especially over the last seven years or so), and this Friday night will be the culmination of a long-held femme fantasy that I've had since damn near forever. Friday is my birthday and we are getting together with a couple that my wife and I swing with, one of the few who knows all about our kinky sides and favorite fetishes. The two women are naturally dominants and the other man has dom-ish tendencies that his alpha-female wife will not let him explore much in the bedroom.
So, Friday night the women are going to dress me and do my makeup, pick out my clothes (I have a decent selection of clothes - not huge but a few different outfits suitable for the night) and dress me. Afterwards, I am to be the servant and party favor/slut for my own birthday party - I will serve and service the three of them however they like, bring them drinks, offer myself to them, etc. I may be fucked or used or played with by the three of them in any way they wish. I may or may not be allowed to cum, but if I am, I've been promised I "may regret it."
I can't wait!
Flash-forward about 28 years from that point, with a LOT of growing and exploring since then (especially over the last seven years or so), and this Friday night will be the culmination of a long-held femme fantasy that I've had since damn near forever. Friday is my birthday and we are getting together with a couple that my wife and I swing with, one of the few who knows all about our kinky sides and favorite fetishes. The two women are naturally dominants and the other man has dom-ish tendencies that his alpha-female wife will not let him explore much in the bedroom.
So, Friday night the women are going to dress me and do my makeup, pick out my clothes (I have a decent selection of clothes - not huge but a few different outfits suitable for the night) and dress me. Afterwards, I am to be the servant and party favor/slut for my own birthday party - I will serve and service the three of them however they like, bring them drinks, offer myself to them, etc. I may be fucked or used or played with by the three of them in any way they wish. I may or may not be allowed to cum, but if I am, I've been promised I "may regret it."
I can't wait!
being with a woman that enjoys sissy, slut or sub play is essential to my enjoyment of those kind of scenes...
it could be her voice whether cruel, mean or mocking but she should be confident....her heart should pound harder...her sexuality enhanced by being in control...
i've been dressed and made up, leashed, forced to eat ass...verbally humiliated and forced to blow her strap on while two men watched in disgust...i was even mounted by a woman who used me for a urinal....
i've been spanked, fucked and spit on...and i loved it...the visual image, the scents, the sounds and sensations cemented in my memories give me something to remember and smile about...and look forward to the next time too...
cuckolding would be my next fantasy to act out but it'll probably never happen..to be forced to watch and then participate by eating her cream pie or sucking his cock or even being ordered to take his cock up my ass would made me so damned happy...smile
it could be her voice whether cruel, mean or mocking but she should be confident....her heart should pound harder...her sexuality enhanced by being in control...
i've been dressed and made up, leashed, forced to eat ass...verbally humiliated and forced to blow her strap on while two men watched in disgust...i was even mounted by a woman who used me for a urinal....
i've been spanked, fucked and spit on...and i loved it...the visual image, the scents, the sounds and sensations cemented in my memories give me something to remember and smile about...and look forward to the next time too...
cuckolding would be my next fantasy to act out but it'll probably never happen..to be forced to watch and then participate by eating her cream pie or sucking his cock or even being ordered to take his cock up my ass would made me so damned happy...smile
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We've done some of that, and I have suspicious thoughts about the rest of it for Friday night. We'll take lots of pics, I'm sure . . .
(Too bad Lit probably won't let us post the best ones
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gingermango said:(Too bad Lit probably won't let us post the best ones
there are ways around that if you use an image host site and link the pics here. I do it all the time as in this post - click on the photo and it will get larger.
https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=23347230&postcount=5882
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gingermango said:A lot of good thoughts here. I share most of them in some form or fashion, the comments of omniavincet and rbijon, especially. I'm another stereotypically-overachieving alpha male by day but submissive part-time cross-dresser by night (or when the opportunity arises). I've been fascinated by cross-dressing and gender play since before puberty. I would sometimes fall asleep thinking of pretty clothes and dream I was a girl.
Flash-forward about 28 years from that point, with a LOT of growing and exploring since then (especially over the last seven years or so), and this Friday night will be the culmination of a long-held femme fantasy that I've had since damn near forever. Friday is my birthday and we are getting together with a couple that my wife and I swing with, one of the few who knows all about our kinky sides and favorite fetishes. The two women are naturally dominants and the other man has dom-ish tendencies that his alpha-female wife will not let him explore much in the bedroom.
So, Friday night the women are going to dress me and do my makeup, pick out my clothes (I have a decent selection of clothes - not huge but a few different outfits suitable for the night) and dress me. Afterwards, I am to be the servant and party favor/slut for my own birthday party - I will serve and service the three of them however they like, bring them drinks, offer myself to them, etc. I may be fucked or used or played with by the three of them in any way they wish. I may or may not be allowed to cum, but if I am, I've been promised I "may regret it."
I can't wait!
Wow....as you well know we want a full detailed post....what an adventure.....I hope you are dressed very slutty....I would be....heheheeee
I've sooo wanted to do this, and my wife knows it, but she's just not the very creative type so it will probably always remain just a fantasy.
But basically I'd like to wear a pair of her panties and be blindfolded and then we would mentally switch roles. Something about being blindfolded makes it easier to imagine me as a woman and her as a man. I want to have her behind me, reaching around in front of me and grabbing my pecs as if they were breasts. I want her to squeeze them and kiss them and tease them and twist them. Then I'd want her to put me on all fours and do me doggy style with a strapon. She'd have to spank me and then fuck me in the ass with the dildo while she calls me nasty names (slut, whore, bitch, etc.). And I'd want her to treat it like a revenge thing--like her getting back at me for all the times I've been sexually cruel to her (which I haven't, but it's part of the fantasy). She'd say things like, "How do you like getting fucked for a change, you little cunt?!" Nasty stuff like that.
But basically I'd like to wear a pair of her panties and be blindfolded and then we would mentally switch roles. Something about being blindfolded makes it easier to imagine me as a woman and her as a man. I want to have her behind me, reaching around in front of me and grabbing my pecs as if they were breasts. I want her to squeeze them and kiss them and tease them and twist them. Then I'd want her to put me on all fours and do me doggy style with a strapon. She'd have to spank me and then fuck me in the ass with the dildo while she calls me nasty names (slut, whore, bitch, etc.). And I'd want her to treat it like a revenge thing--like her getting back at me for all the times I've been sexually cruel to her (which I haven't, but it's part of the fantasy). She'd say things like, "How do you like getting fucked for a change, you little cunt?!" Nasty stuff like that.
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rbijon said:Wow....as you well know we want a full detailed post....what an adventure.....I hope you are dressed very slutty....I would be....heheheeee
Well, it was a fun adventure to be dressed and prancing in front of everyone (well, all three of them) at my little party last night, but it was a bit anticlimactic (pardon the pun). We didn't really do any bi-play at all - I think the idea was very exciting to him but nerves took over.
Still, it was exciting to be dressed and to get to be my "other self" for new people. It was progress.
