females gaining weight in relationships..??

and men dont get fat? or bald? or impotent? or neglectful of their hygiene?
 
Actually,i done the reverse.

I started off fat.

And ended up thin.
 
yayati said:
why the fukk do beautiful hot bangin chicks.. start gaining tons of weight after they get into a relationship.. with someone.. hmmmm
Valid question.

They let themself's go not all but some in a stable relationship some give up worrying about how they look cause they feel secure.

Or if it's a violent relationship with a jerk of a men they start comfort eating.
 
We don't let oursleves go as such...its more a comfort zone really....you get a man.....you dont have to worry bout your weight therefore you eat more.....
 
metal_minx said:
and men dont get fat? or bald? or impotent? or neglectful of their hygiene?
The reverse is true as well I went thru a stage when I was in a stable relationship where I got fat.

Almost back to my old weight now.
:D
 
Maybe its because ones metabolism slows down after they get married?? They think they've reached all there goals and it's time to settle down??
Not all but a lot of people (both men and women) think "now that I'v got them I don't have to worrie about my body." course thats never made snes to me. I believe if you make your self unatractive then you SO will start looking at others. That may not be true but I do worrie about it and act on it.
 
solid_ said:

The reverse is true as well I went thru a stage when I was in a stable relationship where I got fat.

Almost back to my old weight now.
:D

i say you have too much muscle '-)
 
Gettin bigger is just natural for some men and women....I don't think it is a big problem in a relationship....especially marriage......as many chicken wings and sodas as I throw down I'm making sure the preacher slips in "Will you accept him...for better and for girth..." before I say I do...
 
I agree with AuTess, and Dan Hicks, who wrote:

Some people say when you fall in love
you lose your appitite
If love makes you feel that way,
Listen to what I say, dear

If love makes you give up Ham and Beans
Chicken pot pie and a lima beans
If love makes you give up buffalo wings

I don;t want love

If love makes you give up
Pizza night
Garlic mashed potatoes
(man theyre out of sight)

If love makes you give up all those things
I dont want love

I am here to say to you that I love my bread and my meat
Take a look at me and it is plain to see that
I am a man who loves to eat

So if love makes you give up sautee and pate
vichesua (sp) and stuff you have to flambe
If love makes you give up all them things
I dont want love.
 
yayati said:
why the fukk do beautiful hot bangin chicks.. start gaining tons of weight after they get into a relationship.. with someone.. hmmmm


After 3 kids (in a very short period of time) and no weight gain or even one stretch mark, I guess I'm in a position to scrutinize my husband who is falling apart (lol sorry hun, it's not as bad as it sounds). He has a slight paunch and the beginning of a bald patch on his head. Hmm....He's really letting himself go. I wonder if I should trade him in for a fresh model?
 
Having children can make a woman gain and not pregnancy weight. You cook and then tend to eat what the kids don't while cleaning up. Maybe if men did the dishes more and ate the leftovers, they'd gain a few pounds.

I say that if a man OR woman wants a slim partner, do stuff together. Gym, hike, swim, have sex more often but don't just sit there and criticize. Help each other along. And have fun doing it.
 
My goodness, yayati!

You are full of charm tonight!

;)



My ex husb gained 75 pounds in three years. Now, that he was never thin made him really too fat!


Geesh! Of course, when men face sudden large weight gain they sex drive bites the dust.

Yep. I cut him loose!

(It had nothing to do with his weight though. I am not that fickle.)
 
AusTess said:
Actually,i done the reverse.

I started off fat.

And ended up thin.

:p Well, if that's your body on your AV I wouldn't care whether you gain or lose weight if we were dating. :p
 
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