Female Survey

[coach]

I am in the process of writing a book on how people felt the first time they had sex.
I like to hear from everyone, but I am mainly intrested in how it was for the first time for women.
Was the guy scared, were you scared. How clumbsy was he.

thanks for any help!

If you dont want to post please send me an email.

thanks again.

 

[Sammyjo]

I kept saying no, but he wouldn't listen.

 

[Guest]

 

[teresafannin]

My first time was with a high school boyfriend. It was okay, we were both so nervous, both virgins & neither one of us enjoyed it very much. It only hurt a little & wasn't that big a deal for either of us. Boring, huh? I was just glad to have gotten it out of the way.

 

[Alyrahh]

Mine was also with a highschool boyfriend, I was a virgin, he wasn't. It was extremely painful and he was pretty rough. It wasn't a spur of the moment thing for me, I had made the decision to have sex with him and actually planned the night. Once penetration began I was suddenly second guessing my decision! Sitting and walking the next day were a tad uncomfortable.

 

[Stormystarr]

My first time was scary and exciting at the same time. He had had sex before, so it wasn't a big deal for him, but I must say, he was very caring and considerate of how I felt about the whole thing. He kept asking me if I was sure I wanted to make love to him, of course I did! I didn't bleed like most women do, I still have no idea why I didn't, but it only hurt for a few minutes because he was so gentle with me. After that fateful night, needless to say I was hooked!!!

 

[Always]

can't say...
nothing to talk about.

 

[Juliangel]

My first time was awful. I had just turned 7 and was raped by a 40 year old man who was supposed to be a friend of the family. I tore, screamed and cried but he wouldn't stop.
~~>on a side note, my mother never noticed anything was wrong with me even though it went on for 5 years.

The first time I willingly was with someone I was 14 and he was 15. He was a virgin and thought I was too. He was gentle, caring, and so sweet. It was amazing I had my first orgasim and learned sex could be a mutual thing and feel good.
He had the most amazing sky blue eyes and I loooked into them the entire time, not closing my eyes once. His name was Kyle and my relationship with him was a big step in getting over my past. I remember him fondly and even had a dream about him last night.
If it weren't for him I have no idea if I would have the life I do now. I love my husband and my children but I also know that I still love him. We never really broke up we just drifted apart and he will always have a special place in my heart.

 

[Jade]

Part of me is hoping that certain people here will answer b/c I am uber curious about their answers!

Not to name any names but.... April, Nicole, Svedish Chef, Angelique, Expertise, Bushido, Killmuff, Gaucho, DCL, Lasher...

(I know it is a female survey but... worth a shot)
Anyway!
..........

[Edited by Jade on 09-15-2000 at 11:36 AM]

 

[Honeywetlick]

Hasn't there been a thread similar to this one already?
Am looking for it now, but can't really be too bothered.

My first time was planned. He was 18, and I was 17. I didnt bleed, it wasnt painful, it was nice. We were both virgins, and it bought us closer together.

(Ok, found the other thread..it was called 'What do you remember')



[Edited by Honeywetlick on 09-15-2000 at 02:35 PM]

 

[OUTSIDER]

Youth has vigor but age has experience, and in sex I'll take experience.

I was thirteen and she was sixteen and the sex was god awful, no forplay some bad kissing and I had to be quick before her parent's came home, I don't wish to be unkind but I blame her after all she was the older and not a virgin.

I like many men am puzzled that women spend so much time moaning about how bad men are but when asked if they like a certain thing or what they want they become mute, a shame realy as nothing makes me happier than to please my partner.

They say you never forget your first time but I'm trying real hard.

 

[Neoapril]

Outsider, I'll try and explain to you. And it is a shame, really. To start off with, boys are taught different than girls. Especially those with older parents. Those older parents were brought up to believe that "nice girls don't", and if you talk about sex, then you're a slut. That attitude often gets passed down to the unsuspecting, innocent children, who are then stuck with those outmoded ideas. It's a lifelong handicap, and a very difficult idea to shake.

Hopefully somebody else will elaborate on this, because I've pissed myself off, and I don't want to talk about it anymore.

 

[Naked Hunny]

Ok i hardly ever answer these threads so i have a question!! If someone is raped as a child does that constitute a first time or by first time are you referring to consensual sex?

 

[OUTSIDER]

"PARENT'S SUCK" all you can hope for is to grow out of the programing.

I wasn't raped and I posted to the thread even though it was supposed to be for the lady's to show that although the man almost always get's to cum it doesn't make a great moment for the guy either and little boy's often get their head's fucked up by their parent's just as bad as the girl's.

Classic line's from my dad:- "stop crying you little poof",
"what do you mean you don't like neddle's" ( this said as he stick's a darning neddle in his arm by way of a demonstration).

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Jade... interested in me .... well where is yours

Show me yours!!!!!