Doulton
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(I feel like there must be a better term than "dirty talk," but can't think of anything else that doesn't sound like a prudish euphemism)
This is a thread asking for women to tell me what sort of dirty talk they like. I'm prompted to ask because of a story I'm writing, but also because I'm interested in general. In my story I have no problem with the women's dialogue to the men, cause I know what I like to hear. But guessing what women want is quite different. Of course different women like different things, so if I forget to make that allowance often enough in this post, forgive me.
Men can feel free to post as well of course, but as I'm not interested in turning you on and can more easily get into your heads you're of less value to me.
In general, I find that I'm interested in hearing about women's bodies, and not so much in hearing them talk about mine. The word pussy is probably the most erotic in existence as far as I'm concerned, and hearing a woman use that word is always exciting. Hearing her talk about my cock is less so (though of course if she's begging me to put my cock in her or something similar, that's hardly going to be boring
). That's something other men could comment on I suppose, is the same true for you? Do you prefer hearing her talk about her own body to yours?
For women, I'm wondering is the reverse true? When we talk dirty to you, are you more interested in hearing about our cocks and bodies than hearing us talk about your bodies? I think for most women the most important thing (or at least one of the most) is to hear about how much we want you. How hard you're making us, how strongly we want to lick/kiss/stroke/fuck you or certain parts of you, how beautiful and sexy you are. My instinct when doing this would be to talk about your body and what I want to do to it, because that is where my mind would honestly be, but would it be a mistake to focus on your body so much? Again, I ask this because if a woman were to go on about my body, it would be of less interest to me than if she talked about her own.
Sluttiness is a common and important factor in much of talk, or that's the impression I get. In my limited experience it seems to me that most (possibly the vast majority?) of women like some to be told that they are slutty/whorish/nymphos etc. at least to some degree, and at the right time. Can you expand on this at all?
And what about come/semen etc.? This is maybe more of a general turn-on question than in issue of talk, but how many women like to hear us talking about coming on/in you, or even beyond that? eg. "I'm gonna cover your face in my cream, make it all sticky" etc. (I'm guessing that one is going to vary a lot woman to woman)
I had some more specific questions but I'm drawing a blank right now. May add more as I think of them or in response to other posts.
So please give me what you have: generalisations of course, but also specific examples if you can think of them. Maybe if we get a good number of examples I can put them into a poll to ask what people like best.
P.S. Sorry if this has all been done a hundred times before; I tried to look up other posts on the subject but the search function wasn't working for me.
This is a thread asking for women to tell me what sort of dirty talk they like. I'm prompted to ask because of a story I'm writing, but also because I'm interested in general. In my story I have no problem with the women's dialogue to the men, cause I know what I like to hear. But guessing what women want is quite different. Of course different women like different things, so if I forget to make that allowance often enough in this post, forgive me.
Men can feel free to post as well of course, but as I'm not interested in turning you on and can more easily get into your heads you're of less value to me.
In general, I find that I'm interested in hearing about women's bodies, and not so much in hearing them talk about mine. The word pussy is probably the most erotic in existence as far as I'm concerned, and hearing a woman use that word is always exciting. Hearing her talk about my cock is less so (though of course if she's begging me to put my cock in her or something similar, that's hardly going to be boring
). That's something other men could comment on I suppose, is the same true for you? Do you prefer hearing her talk about her own body to yours?For women, I'm wondering is the reverse true? When we talk dirty to you, are you more interested in hearing about our cocks and bodies than hearing us talk about your bodies? I think for most women the most important thing (or at least one of the most) is to hear about how much we want you. How hard you're making us, how strongly we want to lick/kiss/stroke/fuck you or certain parts of you, how beautiful and sexy you are. My instinct when doing this would be to talk about your body and what I want to do to it, because that is where my mind would honestly be, but would it be a mistake to focus on your body so much? Again, I ask this because if a woman were to go on about my body, it would be of less interest to me than if she talked about her own.
Sluttiness is a common and important factor in much of talk, or that's the impression I get. In my limited experience it seems to me that most (possibly the vast majority?) of women like some to be told that they are slutty/whorish/nymphos etc. at least to some degree, and at the right time. Can you expand on this at all?
And what about come/semen etc.? This is maybe more of a general turn-on question than in issue of talk, but how many women like to hear us talking about coming on/in you, or even beyond that? eg. "I'm gonna cover your face in my cream, make it all sticky" etc. (I'm guessing that one is going to vary a lot woman to woman)
I had some more specific questions but I'm drawing a blank right now. May add more as I think of them or in response to other posts.
So please give me what you have: generalisations of course, but also specific examples if you can think of them. Maybe if we get a good number of examples I can put them into a poll to ask what people like best.
P.S. Sorry if this has all been done a hundred times before; I tried to look up other posts on the subject but the search function wasn't working for me.
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