ExploringTheFun
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- Oct 4, 2012
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I am a male Dominant, who has been in the BDSM scene for well over a decade. During this time I have owned and trained females and couples (where both parties were either a submissives or slaves, switches or one was the dominant over the other). I have worked with all different types of people, housewife's, students, parents etc. While understanding that others might not know of this side of them or even understand the deep yearning of this. I have done training in both on line and in real life. I am only currently looking for an on line relationship and in the future this might change.
From my own experiences, from both within and outside the BDSM scene. I believe that however young or old we are, we are always learning, experiencing new aspects of your own life, pushing your soft limits and more. This is done through interactions with other people (who you know or complete strangers within the world), your day to day home and work environment.
From all these areas and my experiences as a Dominant, I hope that I can show you that I have got wisdom, imagination, trust, my attention, equal balance of kindness and cruelty, along with a level head.
There are two areas of the BDSM scene that I am currently looking to form a relationship, with the right female or couple. First is being taught about the general BDSM scene. This is such a wide area of knowledge. I am interested in, but not limited to:
Control (sexual and/or vanilla) including sexual pleasure and orgasms control/denial, pain and pleasure, clothing, day to day activities etc
Discipline
Rituals/Positions
Bondage including Self Restraint, removal of senses etc
Rules
Spanking
Teaching to pleasing me
With any of the above areas that I have listed, or that you might be interested in discussing with me. There are always areas that need to be worked on. I can only give so much, and guide you through it. If you are not open and talk with me about the thoughts that are going through your mind during or after a session. It could hold yourself back, or even not understand what all your feelings or thoughts mean. If you close up on me, how can you experience the new aspects of your life, what you are learning etc. I have with previous females and couples brought a balance between their vanilla and non vanilla life's.
The sessions can be completed through instant messaging like MSN or Yahoo messenger, or else through emails. I find that for the best type of experience that it needs to be completed through a messenger and emails. If we are doing a session through messenger, it will be done in real time and we are both reacting from the other person and seeing how the session will go. With emails, I would set you a session to complete and you email me back after you have completed it telling me how it want.
The second area is assigning tasks. This can be a good way to touch a toe in to the BDSM scene, or where you only have X time during a week or every few weeks to complete tasks. If you are new and not too sure, if this is for you. Then this could be a good way to try it out.
The tasks can be done in the same way as I previous explained. Either through messenger or else through emails with detailed reports. All tasks that are set, will be within the agreed areas. These agreed areas can included what I have listed above, and it could also included humiliation.
This could include making you get on to your hands and knees. Getting a broom or mop and putting one end against a solid object and the other end in to yourself. Where you will start to fuck it until you cum, or even using your fingers after X time to bring you over the edge.
Another possible task, could be when you are watching a game of football. Every time your team gets points you may masturbate for one minute. Every time the other team gets points, you have to self spank yourself for each point they received. At the end of the game, if your team win you may cum. Otherwise you may not.
If you are interested, please either contact me through PM here or at my email address ExploringTheFun-Yahoo-com (Adding @ and . where required)
From my own experiences, from both within and outside the BDSM scene. I believe that however young or old we are, we are always learning, experiencing new aspects of your own life, pushing your soft limits and more. This is done through interactions with other people (who you know or complete strangers within the world), your day to day home and work environment.
From all these areas and my experiences as a Dominant, I hope that I can show you that I have got wisdom, imagination, trust, my attention, equal balance of kindness and cruelty, along with a level head.
There are two areas of the BDSM scene that I am currently looking to form a relationship, with the right female or couple. First is being taught about the general BDSM scene. This is such a wide area of knowledge. I am interested in, but not limited to:
Control (sexual and/or vanilla) including sexual pleasure and orgasms control/denial, pain and pleasure, clothing, day to day activities etc
Discipline
Rituals/Positions
Bondage including Self Restraint, removal of senses etc
Rules
Spanking
Teaching to pleasing me
With any of the above areas that I have listed, or that you might be interested in discussing with me. There are always areas that need to be worked on. I can only give so much, and guide you through it. If you are not open and talk with me about the thoughts that are going through your mind during or after a session. It could hold yourself back, or even not understand what all your feelings or thoughts mean. If you close up on me, how can you experience the new aspects of your life, what you are learning etc. I have with previous females and couples brought a balance between their vanilla and non vanilla life's.
The sessions can be completed through instant messaging like MSN or Yahoo messenger, or else through emails. I find that for the best type of experience that it needs to be completed through a messenger and emails. If we are doing a session through messenger, it will be done in real time and we are both reacting from the other person and seeing how the session will go. With emails, I would set you a session to complete and you email me back after you have completed it telling me how it want.
The second area is assigning tasks. This can be a good way to touch a toe in to the BDSM scene, or where you only have X time during a week or every few weeks to complete tasks. If you are new and not too sure, if this is for you. Then this could be a good way to try it out.
The tasks can be done in the same way as I previous explained. Either through messenger or else through emails with detailed reports. All tasks that are set, will be within the agreed areas. These agreed areas can included what I have listed above, and it could also included humiliation.
This could include making you get on to your hands and knees. Getting a broom or mop and putting one end against a solid object and the other end in to yourself. Where you will start to fuck it until you cum, or even using your fingers after X time to bring you over the edge.
Another possible task, could be when you are watching a game of football. Every time your team gets points you may masturbate for one minute. Every time the other team gets points, you have to self spank yourself for each point they received. At the end of the game, if your team win you may cum. Otherwise you may not.
If you are interested, please either contact me through PM here or at my email address ExploringTheFun-Yahoo-com (Adding @ and . where required)
