female masturbation

[ladysenza]

hey..i love masturbating and do it daily.i really want to hear about different techniques and about how other ladies do it and how often.iv got so many question id love2ask.id also love2 know about what other women fantasize about when masturbating and what gets u wet!some juicy info ladies,please..

 

[DominaDoll]

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I enjoy clitoral stimulation with a good fairly powerful vibrator and I also enjoy G-spot masturbation with a good curved G-spot toy. I masturbate daily, although sometimes take a day off. Some days I masturbate up to 5 times (got a lot of time on my hands! ) But, this is also because I do sex toy reviews, so I'm always trying to catch up on them.

Some masturbation sessions are quick fixes like fast 1-2 minute release, while other times I take my time, have a bath, light candles, and really explore my desire and try to build it to a crazy peak before letting go. Depends on my mood.

I also use arousal gels (g-spot and clitoral) once in a while to intensify orgasm. Having a good powerful vibe is important for me for clit stimulation. I can't get off just with my fingers, as it would take an eternity. I have tried masturbating with a water hose, or pressure from a faucet, but overall prefer a vibrator. My clitoris is more sensitive on one side than the other, and I have heard this is true with other women as well.

For my G-spot I like a nice firm rounded dildo with a curve so it hits my spot well. I like firm thrusting pressure. I usually squirt with G-spot orgasms, sometimes a bit and sometimes profusely, although I always pee beforehand and afterward if I can. The G-spot is only 1-2" inside the vagina so you don't have to dig too deep to hit it. When I feel I am going to orgasm I push out with my PC muscles to squirt, but often I just squirt anyways, especially if I'm really into it and turned on.

I also use a lot of nipple toys, suction sets, cupping sets, and sometimes self-bondage on my breasts as they are very sensitive to pleasure.

Sometimes I masturbate to porn (quick fixes!) and other times just to my own imagination. Both are satisfying, although I can get into my own fantasies better, rather than trying to wait for the perfect turn-on part in a movie and come just in time for that.

Hmmm. I guess that's a good start Hope that's helpful or at least interesting!

xxx
Domina

 

[Mr.G]

Plse pardon the intrusion but I'm curious. You mentioned both clitoral and Gspot orgasms. Can you / do you have multiples with clitoral and Gspot orgasms? For you which is more intense or are they just different? I'm a HUGE fan of G-Gasms and know that the biggest problem with self-induced G-Gasms is that you run out of steam - you simply don't have the stamina needed to keep doing what you're doing to keep the G-Gasms happening. Do you enjoy G-Gasms more with a partner - one who can keep 'em cumming so to speak?

Considering what a large % of the population still don't know anything about G-Spots and HOW they work this info is priceless!!!

 

[DominaDoll]

Mr. G

Hi Mr. G

Yes, I can have multiple orgasms with each, although I find it easier to have multiple orgasms with G-spot, as my clitoris gets super sensitive after orgasm, and I have to force myself to continue stimulating to carry the flow over to multiples... Although, sometimes I just have a really good multiple clit-gasm with out extra stimulation.

Yes, the hardest thing about keeping G-gasms going is the stamina. Usually by the time you orgasm your hand is tried and the orgasms takes all the energy out of you. I usually get pretty weak right after a G-gasm, so can't keep it up for more than a few multiples after that.

Definitely having more hands and lovers to help out is ideal*! Especially for G-spot, as then you have your hands for cit stimulation as well. I find it hard to do both G-spot and Clitoral at the same time so many hands are awesome!

Also, even through I could G-spot orgasm before I read Deborah Sundahl's book "Female Ejaculation and the G-spot" I have become much more skilled at it after taking her suggestions and doing the practice exercises in the book. And finally, you need to have strong PC muscles to perform female ejaculation, so doing regular kegels is very helpful.

If you have any more questions ask away. I have been doing research on the G-spot for the past few months and experimenting with my own as well as talking to other women about theirs.

 

[Coolguy96]

I'm curious...which is better, stronger and more intense...a clitoral orgasm or a vaginal?

 

[MissMDS]

Domina, if you don't have a Hitachi Magic Wand, get one. And get the curved attachment. Perfect combination for hitting your g and getting clitoral stimulation.

 

[sexysharonmilf]

hey..i love masturbating and do it daily.i really want to hear about different techniques and about how other ladies do it and how often.iv got so many question id love2ask.id also love2 know about what other women fantasize about when masturbating and what gets u wet!some juicy info ladies,please..

I usually am just thinking of cumming. I like my fingers rubbing my clit and dipping a finger inside. Back and forth thing. The glass dildos are best if you warm them. Expensive though.

If I want several orgasms, rubbing my clit does it---soft to a little rough. I also like to use the glass dildo inside me while I sit on a pillow using my hand to do the fucking motion. Each insertion hits a different spot.

But, mostly I like to lay and play with my clit and nipples. I do spread my legs and just rub and touch what feels best. And, I love tasting myself.

I have a Sybian but that takes time to set up. If I want an evening of just sex by myself, that's the best one. It'll make you cum and cum and cum.

 

[sexysharonmilf]

I'm curious...which is better, stronger and more intense...a clitoral orgasm or a vaginal?

Clitoral for me.

The Sybian though is the most intense for me toy-wise. Yes, I call him a cute name. It is close to the best fuck I ever have had. Why? It doesn't stop and doesn't cum. There is an attachment that can simulate cumming in you. It came and I just kept on sitting.

A good Sybian for you girls will run about $3,000 with all the attachments. It can almost replace a lover. Most are about 50lbs or so--no need to worry if you are plump.

The glass dildos are made for you will run $500-$1,000. You chose all the little designs on it. If you try one, you will hate any others. The glass is real slick and I let my juices make it fun. Mine is 8' and 3' thick. It takes me about 5 minutes to work him in. Hold it inside when you cum if you want a blast. Your pussy might just push it out so be careful where you play with it.

 

[DominaDoll]

@Coolguy96 For me G-spot orgasms are more powerful and last longer. They leave me trembling and weak, whereas clitoral are more like a sneeze or sometimes a good electrifying shock LOL

@MissMDS Thanks for the tip. I have a Hitachi & attachment as well. I recently got a new vibrator that is actually more powerful than the Hitachi, the Fairy Wand. It is smaller and much more intense. I have a review on my blog for it

@sexysharonmilf I love glass dildos too. Excellent cool texture. Some of them are very affordable, like those made by Ruby Glass which are hand made. I haven't tried the Sybian though but MUST check it out! Yowza! Isn't that a "fucking machine"?

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

Simple is best, I reckon...I just lie back, open my legs, and gently but firmly stroke my clitoris.

 

[Smygtittaren]

I've given a few women tasks and challenges, and I like to tell them tro try new things when masturbating. From what they tell me they seem to cum very hard if they tease themselves for a long time, start in the morning and continue as often as possible during the day. Then at night take the time to build up the orgasm and then try to stay as close to cumming for as long as possible..

Kind of the opposite is to ask them to try to cum as many times as possible, they usually cum harder and harder. And when they think they can't cum again I tell them one more and it usually works

 

[Be_happy]

Hi.... I also have a Sybian, for almost 6 months now...I LOVE the orgasms it gives me. I also use a glass dildo to stimulate the g-spot prior to "riding". When I do that it (Sybian) has made me ejaculate....I never did that before so I am very happy! As far as how often I masturbate, at least 3 times week.

 

[Naughty_Neko]

I've masturbating less frequently recently (been really busy). But when I do, I generally go with clitoral stimulation-- two fingers pressing down with varied pressure moving in rapid circles-- I really don't do any penetration. I also like to play with my nipples. I don't have many toys, just one vibrator, which I just use on my clit.

As for position, I usually just lay on my back, legs spread.

 

[missofdarkness]

the best way to reach a very strong orgasm , is to use electrode g spot and anal 1 you'll cum over and over and over

 

[Mysty61]

I am a frequent masturbator - about 3-4 times a week. I lay on my back, legs spread and move my fingers around my clitoris mostly in a circular motion. I use my spit for lubrication until my flow picks up then I dip my fingers in and spread it around. I also like to play with my nipples while stimulating myself. I have a glass dildo which I insert on many occasions, as other have said a glass dildo is special, but it does need some attention to keep it in. I also use my rabbit vibrator probably more then fingers, and like that very much. I have tried and tried to get a G-spot orgasm but have not had any success, although I do have tremendous orgasms when my partner works my G-spot. I too have a Sybian which is an unbelievable machine which also produces G-spot orgasms for me. I have had this machine for 4-5 years now and I think it cost me about $1,700 with attachments and everything. No doubt like everything else it has gone up in price. I think masturbation is a wonderful activity and should be an important part of everyone's life - I love it. One of these days I would like to explore masturbating with electric impulses.

 

[kaycee217]

I am a frequent masturbator - about 3-4 times a week. I lay on my back, legs spread and move my fingers around my clitoris mostly in a circular motion. I use my spit for lubrication until my flow picks up then I dip my fingers in and spread it around. I also like to play with my nipples while stimulating myself. I have a glass dildo which I insert on many occasions, as other have said a glass dildo is special, but it does need some attention to keep it in. I also use my rabbit vibrator probably more then fingers, and like that very much. I have tried and tried to get a G-spot orgasm but have not had any success, although I do have tremendous orgasms when my partner works my G-spot. I too have a Sybian which is an unbelievable machine which also produces G-spot orgasms for me. I have had this machine for 4-5 years now and I think it cost me about $1,700 with attachments and everything. No doubt like everything else it has gone up in price. I think masturbation is a wonderful activity and should be an important part of everyone's life - I love it. One of these days I would like to explore masturbating with electric impulses.

Nice post

Do you really think 3-4 times per week is "frequent?"

 

[jason28053]

I am a frequent masturbator - about 3-4 times a week. I lay on my back, legs spread and move my fingers around my clitoris mostly in a circular motion. I use my spit for lubrication until my flow picks up then I dip my fingers in and spread it around. I also like to play with my nipples while stimulating myself. I have a glass dildo which I insert on many occasions, as other have said a glass dildo is special, but it does need some attention to keep it in. I also use my rabbit vibrator probably more then fingers, and like that very much. I have tried and tried to get a G-spot orgasm but have not had any success, although I do have tremendous orgasms when my partner works my G-spot. I too have a Sybian which is an unbelievable machine which also produces G-spot orgasms for me. I have had this machine for 4-5 years now and I think it cost me about $1,700 with attachments and everything. No doubt like everything else it has gone up in price. I think masturbation is a wonderful activity and should be an important part of everyone's life - I love it. One of these days I would like to explore masturbating with electric impulses.

what do you think about while you are doing it?

 

[Mysty61]

Nice post

Do you really think 3-4 times per week is "frequent?"

It depends om how you look at it. More then once a week, less then once a day. Would regular sound better I am open to suggestions

 

[kaycee217]

It depends om how you look at it. More then once a week, less then once a day. Would regular sound better I am open to suggestions

Oh no, no suggestions from me.

 

[Firebrain]

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[WA_cop]

Hello ladies,

Just wanted to say thanks for all the tips and hints it never hurts to learn...

 

[Firebrain]

Also

hey..i love masturbating and do it daily.i really want to hear about different techniques and about how other ladies do it and how often.iv got so many question id love2ask.id also love2 know about what other women fantasize about when masturbating and what gets u wet!some juicy info ladies,please..

we all know you're a guy

 

[mmm_elliemae]

for me, i masturbate daily. sometimes twice. i prefer using my vibes (the best being when i use one on my clit while i use my g-spot stimulator). from time to time i'll use my fingers.

 

[chromecockring]

Forgive the intrusion as I'm a guy here, but as a fan of this- do any of the ladies here like mutual masturbation?

There have been some pretty amazing sessions my GF and I have had masturbating for one another. It's just fun sex play for the both of us and we think it can be naughty as all hell at times. I also think it takes a fair amount of pressure on either of us to perform and it's still a huge turn-on to see the opposite person climax. It also gives our exhibitionistic side as well as our voyeuristic side a chance to enjoy. Personally I love showing off for her as she's turning me on and vice versa; I love putting on a hot show for her as well. She gets to use all manner of toys and I only wish there were more things I could do to stimulate her visually.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

I love to masturbate, for a while I mainly used a vibrator on my clit, but found that my clit was becoming overstimulated and I could only cum with a strong vibe. Happily i discovered (at about the same time) my gspot and the fact that I love to watch myself and that I love to have my nipples in pretty strong clamps and can now bring myself to multiple with relative ease spurting quite alot.
Someone asked about intensity. If i have a clit O solely from a vibe it is hugely intense, but i become very sensitive immediately after and dont want any further stimulation, whereas G's seem to be quite a different beast and I can (with help) have many (30+) over 4-5 hours and still be up for more, and the intensity seems quite different, less the clitoral stepping off a cliff followed by BANG! and more rollercoaster with lots of peaks.

Whats better ?...... they are all good!!!