Female Masturbation

[Raven]

We're just friends...really

Me and my online guy, that is. He's married, but that doesn't mean he's dead. It's only fantasy, no one's really doing anything to anyone else, aside from talking, and that's what makes it so good. It's safe, pleasurable, and no one is getting hurt emotionally.

And Tawny, the water thing has just never worked for me...I've heard of a lot of people it does work for, but alas, I am not one of them.....

 

[Mrhappy]

Wow!!!
What a great series of responses!
I knew you'd jump in there eventually Nurse. Just couldn't refuse the attraction of a wet....well, glad you finally showed up.

Southernhelle, the fruit thing brings to mind a certain lovely lady, a bottle of creme de menthe and sliced peaches. I'm sure your fertile imagination can come up with what ocurred with that combination. Suffice to say that I never quite viewed sliced peaches the same way. Nobody seems to package them quite right!

Ahhh, SpecialK....Just getting you to the point of the moisture collecting on your upper lip, can I, may I take care of that for you? Should I use my finger or...maybe my silk boxers? Well, any way..got sidetracked.

Thanks so much for all the response. This lets me know that we're lying or...???
Have fun...that's what it's all about!!!

 

[SpecialK]

heehee!!

Damn you ppl are a cool, funky group!

K

 

[XXplorher]

I once lived in an apartment building with very little room between itself, and the apt building next door. Directly across and one floor below, lived a woman (late mid to late 20’s/early 30’s), who had her blinds angled in such a way that she thought you couldn’t see through. And you couldn’t…… unless you lived in the apt directly across and one floor above hers, hehehehe.

This woman was single, and changed into her panties and the same T-shirt every night (this was in Hollywood during the summer – it’s hot!). She would generally lounge around, watch TV etc. Her bed was directly beside the window, running from the left side of the window to right, TV opposite the base of the bed - the layout was perfect…….if you lived in the apt across, one floor…. Hehehehe, you get the point.

Now, this woman had a very healthy relationship with her little pussy. Yup. She would spend hours on herself haphazardly throughout the night, EVERY night. Sometimes she would start on herself lazily, and progress – many times stopping suddenly and picking it up again maybe 20 minutes later without ever leaving the bed. It didn’t seem all that important to her to actually reach orgasm. She just wanted to xxplorherself for a while – cumming wasn’t really the objective (everytime). I was fascinated by that. She loved to turn to the side slightly, and run her hand across her ass and between her cheeks; pull her panties tight in her crack (or slip her hand underneath them. There was most times a slight variation in how she did things. It was beautiful) and caress herself there for long periods of time – not really concentrating on it, just doing it. She very much liked to taste herself. And when she really got going, her favorite (and mine) was to spread her legs wide, knees up, work her clit frantically and fuck her hungry cunny good with two fingers of her other hand at the same time. When she got to that stage, she was definitely looking to cum, and she would…….. and so would I, oh yes! She would squirm and toss her head from side to side. Fight her hands in a way, at times. It was glorious……

I can’t tell you how exciting those months were for me. I was able to observe a woman xxploring her sexuality in a manner she may never do for someone present. Not in the same manner anyway. She was doing what she would only let herself witness….. but I was witnessing it with her. I felt bad about violating her privacy like that – but I couldn’t resist it. It was like nothing I had ever experienced. Way beyond ‘Oh, I’m seeing some woman do herself!’ It was seeing her so personally, intimately…… seeing her with herself so intimately. She was free with herself, unconcerned about how her actions may look to another, cause no-one was there! I’m sweating again just thinking about it……...

I really learned a lot about ‘what is woman’ from her. And we never spoke a word to each other.

My question is: Ladies, would you say this was ‘normal’ practice for a woman? Do you find yourself with wandering hands often, when simply lounging around the house? When they wander, do you feel you need to complete the task? Or is 10 minutes of XXploration enough…….until the next time? What happens that allows you to stop? What makes you need to continue again? Do you just find your hands somehow got there – or does the thought preclude the act?

BTW, this all started when I heard her getting fucked one night, and peered out to see who was having fun (little did I know it was me who’d be having fun right along with her, SEVERAL times from that point on, once I saw the available angle. I mean, I could see her bed clearly! Love those blinds. )

If you lived at 1700 something N. Sycamore in Hollwood, mid 90’s, and always wore a dark blue t-shirt at night…………. I was watching you, sexy thing. You weren’t alone at all. I was right there working it with you – and I thank you for the pleasure, and the education. Hehehehehe)

PS That’s the first woman on the planet that has told me she tried the ‘faucet thing’ and didn’t care for it much. Any woman who hasn’t tried it – do yourself a favor….. go take a bath right now, eh. Your body will thank you. (Really Raven? Why is it do you think? I’m interested to know how it fell short for you)

 

[Circe]

I've tried the faucet but a shower head with variable speeds ("Slow, Fast, and Who needs a man") is my personal favorite.

 

[Hawksview]

what's up deb, SH - don't you have another snide remark for X?

De haut en bas....

 

[Butterfly]

well nurse you might as well jump in and answer, I did, and dang-it I was first in line. I'm still blushing that I did that. But I forgot to mention the shower massager also and your right WOW on the orgasms with that thing. If you haven't tried it do.....Just my recommendation.

Raven, enjoy girl

Yea laurel we're all buds here and much better than the annonymous.
Hey Merry Christmas all, this saturday can you believe it. Where the hell did all the time go.

 

[SpecialK]

I've tried the faucet but a shower head with variable speeds ("Slow, Fast, and Who needs a man") is my personal favorite.

ROFLMAO!! ^5 Circe!!

K

 

[Southernhelle]

hawksview, have you not noticed that only the "worthier" posts get the debate? If I find myself snoozing in the middle of a post, I don't tend to finish reading it. Hence I don't tend to respond to it. I'm not speaking for Deborah though..

 

[Hullo_nurse]

I forgot to mention...that when I'm really really horny I will "fuck" just about anything...veggies (cucumbers and carrots and corn on the cob, tools (have you ever "done" the handle of a sledgehammer?), a long thick candle, nailpolish bottle for the "little" needs, what else....tube of toothpaste. When you are desperate almost anything goes! This was before I was married & needed to xxploher things & I was chicken to go to the store to get a proper fuck-toy.

 

[Laurel]

Yea laurel we're all buds here and much better than the annonymous.

Right on... you chicks are way too cool...

Tried a carrot once, for the same reason as nurse - too young to buy an appliance, and wanted to know what penetration was like. Carrots aren't like cocks, though - thank god! That thing had no give whatsoever, coulda poked a hole in myself if I wasn't careful... Ah, youth!

 

[Lasher]

Damn, I forgot about this until I saw the last couple of posts...but then there's a lot of things I don't remember from college. I dated a girl who kinda had a thing for fruit...and she said she'd always put a condom any foreign objects she stick inside herself. Saw her do this with a banana and with a long neck beer bottle. Dammit, I miss college sometimes........

 

[Jenna]

Well there is so much to respond to here. First the question as to what gets a woman in the mood to do herself. It could be a movie, or a story, a fantasy or just a certain time of the month. For me I resort to this when I dont have a partner at the time or I just want to be selfish and pleasure myself without any hassles.

As to how, I almost always use a vibrator or a shower head, oh almost forgot the faucet. Unlike alot of the women on here I like penetration when masturbating and my fingers just dont do it. I use my fingers to rub my clit but I get a better orgasm with a vibrator.

Finally as to having someone watch I have done this but I have never had a man return the favor (I've asked but no go). I have a fantasy about this were I want the man to hide in my closet or outside my window and watch me as if I dont know hes there. I get to play the exhibitionist and he gets to play the vouyer.

 

[Matt]

Lasher, I'm envious! =)

 

[Slutgirl]

I find it difficult to masturbate, almost embarrasing. I guess that goes back to my childhood and all the things that happened there.(but that's another story.) BUT, we have a jacuzzi tub and I don't have any problem getting relaxed and then getting in front of the jets and letting the blast take care of things for me. AWESOME experience.

 

[Guest]

I've always enjoyed watching women pleasure themselves. A man can learn so much if he pays attention vs. just getting hot himself.
I hadn't thought of the reverse - she watching me - until I got the request from a long time lover. Seems her husband wouldn't so she asked me one night when her monthly visitor made her uncomfortable for other activity. She had me lay on a couch on my back. She sat on the floor, very near to my activity. A little ackward but I rose to the task. When she started breathing heavy, I knew how much this meant to her. I could equate my pleasure watching to her eyes staring intently, inches away from me. When I finished, she gasped a little then cleaned up the major part with kleenex. However, she was excited enough to clean the most sensitive part with a cat bath. Very enjoyable!!

 

[Guest]

Hmmmm..still waiting for SpecialK's respsonse....she left me <and various other parts> hanging.

 

[Dakota]

hmmmm, well, Me personally I don't use toys. Maybe its just the realization that it isn't real?? I don't know. Call me oldfashion. I do slide my fingers inside my pussy but i mostly concentrate on my clit.

I usually fantasize. My fantasies are very vivid because of my imagination so thats usually what i do

 

[Endlessly]

I grew up in a really sexually-repressed environment, so masterbation has always been really difficult for me to talk about; I'd read catholic literature saying masterbation was a sin, and such.. But darn it, sometimes it seemed like the only way to beat serious insomnia. Hell, two months ago I would NOT have been comfortable replying to this.. But I had a brief relationship with a wonderful partner who really liberated me in alot of respects.

Why do I masterbate? Like someone said, sometimes just the feeling of "I NEED to cum." Sometimes a really hot erotic story, sometimes to release pent-up energy and frustration-- the whole insomnia thing goes along with that. I really am turning beet red here, because the last few guys I was physically involved with could not keep up with my sexual appetite.. the last one even suggested there was something wrong with me.

So, for these reasons, I'm not sure if this response is 'normal' like you wanted..

I prefer rubbing my clit to orgasm; for me, at least, the pleasure is more intense than inserting something. Then again, I'm pretty much a virgin, and I'm really tight, so insertion hurts sometimes. When I'm REALLY horny (THERE's a phrase I never thought I'd be using on a bulletin board), sometimes inserting a pen (it's sad, one finger really fills me up-- I guess I never have to worry about being disappointed by a man's size *G*) really intensifies orgasm for me. Not really moving it around, but just the feeling of having something in there.. maybe pressing it against the back wall.

Like I said, I'm fully aware that probably the only thing 'normal' in this post is that I masterbate. *chuckle*

 

[XXplorher]

Don’t close those shades too tight, Jenna. I’m lookin’ for ya………

yowsa!

 

[Jenna]

Thanks XXplorher I'll be sure to leave the blinds open in the future.

 

[XXplorher]

Endlessly, there’s nothing wrong with you. If there is – I’m seriously fucked! What’s more satisfying than good sex? Hmm? Just wait till you upgrade form that bic pen! Hehehe

Jenna – no, thank YOU. I’m going out for a stroll later…….

 

[Mrhappy]

Hey Xxplorer...you're a money making sort of guy.
Do you think we could replicate this bent up old dick Deborah left me with in her millenium chapter?? Maybe the ladies might discover some new masturbatory techniques??

 

[Deborah]

We should cut if off, make copies and market our new product GET BENT!!!

 

[Mrhappy]

oooooh deborah! A little close to the quick.
Are you taking ball busting to new heights? Or is this intimacy at a level I've yet to experience?