Female Masturbation Techniques

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As far as style goes, I'd have to say that mine is rather plain. While it definitely works for me, and I wouldn't say that I'm bored, really, I'd just like to learn a few more manual, toyless techniques for getting myself off.

I'm a "massager," I guess you could say. Generally, the index, middle and ring fingers of my right hand circle, swirl and rub my clit until I explode. I may be dense, but I'm honestly not aware that there is another way to go about it. Obviously, changing finger number and rub direction can be different, but, to me, it amounts to roughly the same.

I want to try new things.

What else can I do with my hands to change up my routine?
 
spread said:
What else can I do with my hands to change up my routine?

I've known a few women who occasionally would stroke their clitoris with an ice cube. They said the alternating sensations of cold ice and warm fingers was mind blowing.
 
There are lots of different techniques.
You haven't mentioned anything about insertion - which is something you might enjoy trying.
 
Since you're a 'massager' you might enjoy humping a pillow or cushion. I's not really a toy, and it's not your hand either, but it feels good anyhow.

I rarely insert my fingers in my vagina (they're not long enough!) to masturbate per say, but I do dip them in and smear my juices on my lips. The almost-touching-my-clit-but-not-quite-enough-to-get-off is a turn on in itself, if you're into frustration.

'Play' with your clit; push it from side to side, pinch it, tap on it, slap it. I don't know how sensitive you are though, so slapping might be a little extreme, but pushing it from side to side gently can feel quite good.

Press your lips together and 'jerk off'. Instead of rubbing horizontally on your clit, rub it vertically, trapping it between your lips.

Do not underestimate the joys of anal play; with your 'free' hand, simply stimulating the area around your anus can feel real nice. I know some people aren't into that though, so it might not work for you.

Do tell us about your experimentation :)
 
bisexplicit said:
You haven't mentioned anything about insertion - which is something you might enjoy trying.

Oh! I suppose I should have mentioned that I'd like some new hand techniques to supplement my vibe or dildo penetration. Whoops!

You all are very helpful! Thanks much!
 
My fave for the fastest and most powerful is to put a small vibe on my clit, my thumb in my pussy and my index finger is free to play with the outer rim of my ass... or i have my do that for me... works well it the bath tub too :p
 
I definitely need G-spot stimulation for a good orgasm. Therefore, inserting a finger is a must!

Sometimes, if I'm just lazy, I'll rub myself up against something until I get off, like the arm of a couch or a pillow or something.

Just rubbing my clit doesn't do it for me.
 
i only rub my clitoris to get myself off, for some reason inserting a finger seems to hurt, i wonder does it have anything to do with the fact i am a virgin? anyone know? lol... :confused:
 
i'm a humper. I've only gotten off on my back a total of three times in my life...

I use both my hands to make a stationary point of pressure, place clit (most of the time with lips covering it) on top of fingers, flex butt mucles... often moving my legs wider and closer contract the mucles intensfying it... Having something inside me (vaginally or anally) gets me off faster.
 
ladylove: a friend of mine has exactly the opposite problem. you two should compare notes. :>

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ladylove1968 said:
woohoo I love doing this . I sometimes use toys . But my fingers still work. What I would like to know is can someone tell me how to acheive orgasm from penatration alone I am 37 and have never had this wonderful experience.

For some women, it really just isn't possible to achieve orgasm from penetration alone. I would say exercise your kegel muscles, though, that may help -- but it really isn't something all women can do. In fact, the norm is not being able to rather than being able to.
 
xshyxaznx said:
i only rub my clitoris to get myself off, for some reason inserting a finger seems to hurt, i wonder does it have anything to do with the fact i am a virgin? anyone know? lol... :confused:

One finger (if you've ever used a tampon) shouldn't be an issue.
Are you relaxed? What position are you in?
 
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