Christhecat
Experienced
- Joined
- May 26, 2003
- Posts
- 36
Maybe it's not necessarily BDSM per se, but ...
I've come to realize reading stories on this site (or observing other fetish-oriented media) that pretty much never do heterosexual females have foot fetishes where the desire is to handle/lick/etc. male feet (compared to having it done to themselves). Plenty of guys sucking toes areound here, but the ladies just aren't doing it.
I would have to think it exists -- there's somebody for everything -- but I've never seen it. Is it a cultural thing? Something inherent on the female of the species? Or do women just not admit it as readily as men, or indulge in it as readily, or even realize it about themselves?
My ex-girlfriend would do it if I asked her (or ordered her, during sub/dom play) but it wasn't something she had any great interest in doing, just for the sake of it, not as much as many men do, or even myself (I enjoyed playing with her feet, though she was too ticklish to let me too it much). I like the idea of a woman wanting to do this TO me however, but I've seen just about every fetish-type scenario in the book, and I've never seen this.
Any ideas on why this is? Or anyone know (or is anyone, for that matter) a heterosexual female (I've seen some gay women who like it) who enjoys performing footplay, particularly orally? Or is this the sexual equivalent of bigfoot, so to speak? I'd be interested in hearing any opinions or observations.
I've come to realize reading stories on this site (or observing other fetish-oriented media) that pretty much never do heterosexual females have foot fetishes where the desire is to handle/lick/etc. male feet (compared to having it done to themselves). Plenty of guys sucking toes areound here, but the ladies just aren't doing it.
I would have to think it exists -- there's somebody for everything -- but I've never seen it. Is it a cultural thing? Something inherent on the female of the species? Or do women just not admit it as readily as men, or indulge in it as readily, or even realize it about themselves?
My ex-girlfriend would do it if I asked her (or ordered her, during sub/dom play) but it wasn't something she had any great interest in doing, just for the sake of it, not as much as many men do, or even myself (I enjoyed playing with her feet, though she was too ticklish to let me too it much). I like the idea of a woman wanting to do this TO me however, but I've seen just about every fetish-type scenario in the book, and I've never seen this.
Any ideas on why this is? Or anyone know (or is anyone, for that matter) a heterosexual female (I've seen some gay women who like it) who enjoys performing footplay, particularly orally? Or is this the sexual equivalent of bigfoot, so to speak? I'd be interested in hearing any opinions or observations.
