Female edging and ruined orgasms

[Cruelsmile5]

Surely I can’t be the only fan of female orgasm torture. The look on a woman’s face as she approaches climax, only for the stimulation to completely stop. Once she cools off build her back up, then take it away again. So on, and to complete the mindfuck, take over over the edge, then stop all stimulation right as she cums...her pussy spasming desperate for touch. It’s an under appreciated art. Would love to hear others share their thoughts and experiences.

 

[Amaraa3593]

I've been denying myself for the first time for the last 4 days (normally cum like 3-5 times day), and it has made me so hot and aroused its kind of hard to focus on anything besides what between my legs.

I cant wait to have someone help me explore it more.

 

[SirQuinn]

I play a tie-up game with My wife wherein i deny her orgasm a dozen or more times, then stimulating her while giving a verbal countdown, and she's only to cum when I reach zero.

A few months ago, we had friends over and there happened to be a starlink launch happening, and we had it on TV. I glanced over at My wife in the kitchen, and she was biting her lips with her eyes shut tight, just seconds before the launch happened. Then smiled broadly at Me shortly after.
She later admitted that she was involuntarily reacting to the countdown and orgasmed without any physical stimulation during the actual launch.

 

[lisaharlot]

Men ruining a woman’s orgasm is pretty common.

 

[Cruelsmile5]

There’s a good girl. Delayed gratification is in fact worth it in this case.


MQUOTE=Amaraa3593;94088746]I've been denying myself for the first time for the last 4 days (normally cum like 3-5 times day), and it has made me so hot and aroused its kind of hard to focus on anything besides what between my legs.

I cant wait to have someone help me explore it more.[/QUOTE]

 

[Cruelsmile5]

Well yes, you have a point, but here I’m talking about purposely withholding/ruining them, not by being selfish or clueless, which is the typical method.

Men ruining a woman’s orgasm is pretty common.

 

[seela]

I enjoy both edging and ruining. They work fine in solo play, but are better with someone else calling the shots. Especially longer stints are very difficult for me to do on my own.

 

[SmokeInMyEyes]

Men ruining a woman’s orgasm is pretty common.

Men ruining a woman's life is even more common, if you ask me . . .

 

[Lady2020]

I understand edging. I just happen to think a man who can make a women orgasm multiple times within minutes says more.

 

[rudrakshpathak]

The ultimate aim is to please her

To do whatever it takes to help her achieve the earth shattering orgasm she expects every time she gives me the honor of trying to make her orgasm.

It makes no sense then, to stop it at just one, or to do it blandly.

To help her peak and stop her at the very last moment is like pulling a spring behind slightly more every time until it can no longer stay coiled back. The resulting 'throw' is worth all the effort.



To ponder upon the mechanical aspects can be futile though.
One has to have enough experience with the said lady to be able to exert the minute control needed to help her to orgasm

 

[Kitschshaman]

Men ruining a woman’s orgasm is pretty common.

Unfortunately true. I usually do not indulge in purposeful denial for a gal because their past experiences have generally been so non-orgasmic that what they're after more often than not is fulfillment, not disappointment. The one time I did purposefully tease for an extended period of time, I misjudged how close she was and she was truly hurt, crying and it ruined the entire evening. I'll never forget that night and never did it again. In my experience women enjoy extended lovemaking, no hurry no rush, but female edging?...no, not so much. There may be exceptions, and to each their own, but that's not been my experience.

YMMV...

 

[phil_o]

Edged but not ruined !

I love edging my wife, haven't done it for a while might try soon.
It would always start off very soft and gentle, maybe massage going onto play with her breasts and nipples until she was lifting her bum up to get me to finger her, stroking around her mound I between her thighs, just brushing against her labia. Again she would be lifting her bum trying to steer my fingers into her.
Then using my tongue licking around her pussy, up and down her slit, slowly then maybe probing for her clit, a few flicks then no more, hands moving up to tease her nipples, a little pinch and twist, then stroking around her nipple. I would maybe even tell,her I was taking a break, going to make tea and she was not allowed to play with herself. Coming back up to drink the tea with her then back to teasing.
On occasions would direct her to play with herself, making sure her fingers never got to work to hard, holding them away from her to stop her touching. Maybe a spank on her bum if she tried to hard to get away.
She would get so fucking wet, my fingers when they slipped in would glide inside her, then when the time was right driving my fingers inside her deep finger fucking her, licking her clit and sucking on it while my free hand reaches up to pinch hard and twist her nipples, her orgasm would be intense, grinding her pussy hard against my mouth and nose I had fears about her breaking my nose!
This might last an hour or hour and a half, only once she had had this huge orgasm and allowed to calm down, her clit would get to sensitive to touch would we fuck.

 

[sarahbear85]

I had a partner where this was a weekly thing I was required to masturbated naked on front of him or on the phone once or twice a day but was not allowed to cum until a day and time of his choosing often in places id rather not cum in but it was then or nothing

 

[Cruelsmile5]

Perfect example of what is so hot about this kink. Once you were appropriately cum-starved, I’m sure it got hard to resist?

I had a partner where this was a weekly thing I was required to masturbated naked on front of him or on the phone once or twice a day but was not allowed to cum until a day and time of his choosing often in places id rather not cum in but it was then or nothing

 

[flowerchild07]

Edging

As frustrating as it is i love it The way he would edge me all day sometimes having me wear a toy as we left the house or have dinner with friends. After hours of this i would do anything to cum and he loved it when i would beg and cry just to let me cum! If he was really feel like pushing me over the edge, once i came he would continue to overstimulating until i came at least 3 times.

 

[Cruelsmile5]

Exactly the beauty in what I was describing. A woman’s arousal is similar to a pan of water on the stove. If you’ll gradually apply heat, watching her boil over is a beautiful sight.

As frustrating as it is i love it The way he would edge me all day sometimes having me wear a toy as we left the house or have dinner with friends. After hours of this i would do anything to cum and he loved it when i would beg and cry just to let me cum! If he was really feel like pushing me over the edge, once i came he would continue to overstimulating until i came at least 3 times.

 

[sarahbear85]

Not only resist but exist lol i was walking on campus or at work waiting tables

 

[Dom70]

I understand edging. I just happen to think a man who can make a women orgasm multiple times within minutes says more.

Pick me! Pick me! lol